Perfect play patient

Any of you guys out there come accros the most perfect play patient ??

i am a very sub girl and do as im told when it comes down to it .

but is there the perfect female out ther you have either found or would like to play with ?

I have only examined a few patients in real life. I enjoy the ones that are total subs. They do what there told and make the exam more realistic in my opinion. I think the perfect patient is one that works well with you that you enjoy the most.

For me, the point you make

in terms of preference, I think the patients who aren't so 'easy' are my favourites. I find that there is more intellectual stimulation

is most valid - of course, you don't want the patient to be dictating terms, but feedback is very good, both during and after the session. If there is another active, inquisitive, creativa and instinctive mind involved in the scenario then it works better for me. I only take part in online play, but like to switch roles with different people. As a patient I try to find out how much inbolvement the doctor needs from me beforehand, and like to discuss scenarios in depth before hand if possible. Give and take is crucial, something which is a minor detail to one person will be crucial and magic making for the other.

Gynoslave, I think you've posed a very helpful and important question, karma for you 😎

Oh Nurse Mashie, I do like your style! I love it when my patient questions why I'm about to perform a procedure, or whether it's really necessary. "If it wasn't needed, I wouldn't be doing it!" You are so correct when you say that provides the perfect opportunity to show him who's boss. I find that a 10cc syringe, with a substantial needle attached and a cold vial of sterile water generally brings him right into line with my way of thinking. Then, there are always the restraints of course.

Play On!

LadyDoc

Ladydocisin, and Mashie ~

I have to agree with you both, and appreciate your views relative to your own practice of medicine...

As a play.doc, I probably lean more toward the side of liking my patients to be compliant. Yet, there is the D/s side of me, outside of medicine, that appreciates the challenges of that play space.

I am egalitarian by nature; thus, I enjoy being on both sides of the stethoscope, and/or a paddle. For me, it starts in the brain, and if it works there, then everything else typically falls into place.

Wishing yall a gr8 weekend, I am

Kindly yours,

Hermann

p.s. ladydocisin, it is hoped that you will share more about that 10cc syringe, the substantial needle, and the impact of the sterile water...

Whilst more often a real rather than play patient, I like nurses to be strict with me about my pet fetish - buttock injections. I therefore specify in advance that I can't stomach oral medication and must be treated by injection, but that I can only tolerate shots in my bottom; emphasising "whatever else I might say at the time". I then try to argue against her injecting me back there to make her firm with me. The result is always excitingly satisfactory.

Somone who is truley honest with you but at the same time can be playful. Personally I love a partner who seems to show another side when things get kinky. A good quality for a play patient would be an openness to try new things/procedures knowing that the trust they share with the doctor will ensure they are safe at all times.

Hello Gynoslave (did we talk before in the cyberspace?),

interesting question, here's my view: being my fascination about medicine and Women's Health coming out from the very real thing, my perfect patient would be the one who really feels herself as a real patient, undergoing a real medical exam.

The perfect situation is - to me - the one where the two are not simulating, but "living" their respective roles. Not sure if I can explain it the right way, but for me this is the key point. I do my best to second this view, from improving my medical knowledge, to the room setting (which is close to a classy doctor's office, not a dungeon), from the time I spend interviewing the patient, to the credibility of the procedures.

I had a patient a couple of weeks ago, it was her first examination with me, and the first with a playdoc. She was a bit nervous and a bit reluctant to undergo some parts of the exam, mostly because of embarassement. In the end, she agreed to do 90% of what I defined necessary, and the exam was over. We exchanged a couple of emails the day after, and she wrote me: "I never felt myself playing a role, and never felt you as a fake. It was like being at the doctor, with all its content of embarassing, intriguing, anxiety etc..."

This is for me a perfect situation.

Of course the final result of any setting involving two people mostly depends on what you can establish with the other one, which is built on compatibility and matching views.

Finding it out, always requires communication, the other special, exciting, intriguing ingredient.

Sincerely,

Dr. Bartholin

Nope, never have, and I doubt I'll ever find the perfect patient. They all dislike something I like, or like something I dislike (very rarely, but happens), and if they just happen to like everything I do, then there's something else that's wrong. Not that I complain or anything, I've enjoyed every minute, but none of my patients was "perfect" by definition, and that's a fact 😉

Its sad to hear that Timetraveller. Maybe its a case of seeing the glass as half-empty rather than half-full? Of course every patient has something they dislike and so does every doctor. That is to be expected as no two persons like exactly the same thing when it comes to food, drink, cars, fetishes or arousal. Each patient is unique and it would be a very boring world if they all enjoyed exactly the same things.

I have found that the things which we dislike are clearly stated before we ever play so it never becomes an issue during play. My patients each develop as a unique experience with the things we do like, which is what makes it exciting for me as the PlayDoc. Her enjoyment is my enjoyment, so we simply don't do things we wouldn't both enjoy, and instead we focus on those we do.

EVERY patient is the "perfect patient" in her own right. 🌹

I agree with everything you said, Dr. J, except for the conclusion. True, I do see the glass as half-empty, but I don't mind. There's at least something in it, after all 😉 However, my own definition for "perfect patient" is someone enjoying (and I do mean ENJOYING!) the same things I do, and I'm quite aware such a person does not exist. Those are my 2 cents 😜

Hopefully as time goes on you will find that perfect patient anyway TT. Personally my patients are as perfect as they could be, but I place more importance on whether my patients have found their "perfect PlayDoc".

Yes, I also place their experience before mine, and I sacrifice a part of my enjoyment for the sake of theirs. It's just how I roll, and that's probably the reason why I still haven't found the perfect patient 😄

I would agree that the perfect one would be someone who could act out the role as patient as realisitcally as possible, and really "get into it" so to speak; not someone transfixed on a sexual encounter, but someone who follows your commands, but also interacts with you by asking questions, and following your lead from the very beginning, from asking about your history, to the very end, wrapping up all the findings. Then after it's all over, discussing what he/she liked and disliked about the experience would be even better, then for following encounters, it would be better for both parties involved.

I like your description of the perfect patient Stethmax. I agree that realism is the most important factor in MedFet play.

My experience has been that the type of patient and exam as you describe would not easily be found with most MedFet enthusiasts, and instead would likely be a willing submissive who has never played doctor and thus has no preconceived expectations. As the doctor, you have full control over the scene since the patient does not provide any lead. Rather than "acting" their role, the patient's responses are 100% genuine. Unlike a MedFet who wants to undergo various procedures, a Non-MedFet will be apprehensive about anything you do, requiring much more finesse in bedside manners. If you think you would make a good doctor for real, playing doctor with a neophyte is the perfect opportunity to prove that to yourself.

This brings more light to the fact that everyone likes something different. For hours and hours of fun there is nothing like playing with a true MedFetter. Playing with a newbie can be very stressful for the doctor, albeit it is a positive stress. That's why I feel every patient is the perfect patient and no two can compare.

It's just my husband and I am his patient. And I Love It!

gynedoll

I don't mind some reluctance or ambiguity in my play patients: I like seeing that she is enjoying the exam but she is a bit embarrassed, in particular, a bit embarrassed by enjoying something that is embarrassing.

I am truly afraid. you may find something wrong with me. what can I do, but spend my time worrying about what you might need to do to give me a clean bill of health.

I enjoy and relish in fitting the mold of being a prime [no one can be perfect but close 😄] play patient. Being that I enjoy having the realism of an exam present in a play exam, it's easier for me to view it as such and play the part of real patient well. I find that I'm naturally quite inquisitive and curious about what the doctor is thinking, doing, and going to do, and most importantly, why he's doing it. My natural instinct is to say 'HE' because I most envision being the "perfect patient" for a male doctor. I just find the dominance factor fits well; not to say it doesn't for a female doctor but it's less intimidating for me, and fits my fantasy mold better. I had a very dominant mother so-I don't need to fulfill any dominant mother voids in my life haha.

Oddly enough, I feel more at ease in front of male doctors as opposed to females. Maybe I don't feel like they'd be judging me; they are there to care for me. I deeply relish in having a dominant and caring doctor. Again, easier for me to play my role as the good patient well as that is what I long for; to be cared for intimately, in a safe setting, in the care of the doctor's hands, and to do as he says because it's safe with him. Play exams are meant to help us unleash and live out our fantasies, or, at best, to play out those specific feelings and desires we may have felt at one point, or, may be looking to fulfill as we never received in our everyday lives. I'm not ashamed to say I had a pretty crummy childhood. It could have been a lot worse but nonetheless, it still left me with this sense of unfulfilled needs.

I'm happy that @AnthonyRT and I get to finally enjoy these play exams together, with other professional, like-minded people. These exams REALLY go a long way, and so I'm happy to oblige a play doc by being the best patient I can be. Fully present, fully obedient, ever curious, sweet, shy, and submissive.