Vaginal Fisting

Hi all,

Me and my partner Barb have been into vaginal fisting for years 20+, it does feel fantastic. Prior to that my late husband was able to fist me a few times but didn't seem interested so I never pushed it.

As for anal fisting I had an Asian lady fist me anally once (very small hands), it too felt great.

This may be a little strange to some but me and Barb have a gay male couple we get together with for all things anal, they both love being fisted by us and we find it a real turn on.

Particulars:

For anal fisting per my gay friends, a gloved hand is a must, and use two kinds of lube, one a vegetable base grease or shortning (butter also works) and another water based lube like KY. The object is that the lubes slide over one another aiding insertion. We have never had a problem.

BJ

I can understand the part about using two types of lube, i worked that out myself years ago when trying to assemble some tractor parts, oil on one bit and grease on the other.

Vaginal fisting part deux: So this last summer I dated this guy who fisted me a few times and I had the strongest, most intense orgasms I have ever had. It took some time for him to work his whole hand inside of me. He had me clench down as hard as I could and then relax. When I relaxed, he would advance his hand a bit further. When he eventually would work his entire hand inside, he would then move it around, rotating it slowly inside of me. Occasionally he would take it out and put it back inside. I tried to delay my orgasm so I could enjoy the fisting longer. But eventually it would overtake me and they were intense and long AF. He said my orgasms would make me sing. Now I am ruined. I find myself studying the hands of dates and sizing up their hands. I told a couple of my girlfriends about it and they then went home to ask their husbands to fist them. They thought it was a joke and that it was a crazy request. I tell them they don’t know what they are missing!!!

Vaginal and anal fisting are the same once the hand is in you are hooked.

I told a couple of my girlfriends about it and they then went home to ask their husbands to fist them. They thought it was a joke and that it was a crazy request. I tell them they don’t know what they are missing!!!

Ohhh please SouthernB can you please convince my wife as you did with your girlfriends?

It would be a dream come true of me to give her greatest orgasms like you experienced.

OMG... SouthernBelle! I think we are soulmates.

I very much enjoy fisting a partner. The feeling of my whole hand inside her vagina is just incredible as well as being able to feel the anatomy so clearly. Also, the women I've fisted have all enjoyed it immensely.

Very keen to get my hand into my wife. She has become a little more open about it recently, extremely keen to keep working on it!

We need some more fisting conversation! Lol

I have experienced being vaginally fisted once, recently. The advice about using lots and lots of lube and then even more is definitely correct. Also going very slow, don’t rush and relax.

While I did have an orgasm, it was from him also rubbing my clit at the same time. The fisting was uncomfortable at times and I didn’t think he would be able to even tho he had very, very small hands. It was not like a straight on fist but think more like trying to put your hand in a jar, keeping it as small as possible.

Would I do it again? With the right person....most definitely.

@Bridgette said

While I did have an orgasm, it was from him also rubbing my clit at the same time. . . . . he had very, very small hands. It was not like a straight on fist but think more like trying to put your hand in a jar, keeping it as small as possible.

The times I have been fisted by women with small hands, that's how the entry was made. The fist part comes after the hand was inserted and the fingers are moved around creating the "vaginal massage".

@bridgette

I have experienced being vaginally fisted once, recently.

The fisting was uncomfortable at times and I didn’t think he would be able to even tho he had very, very small hands. It was not like a straight on fist but think more like trying to put your hand in a jar, keeping it as small as possible.

I've never done a straight on vaginal fist, not sure if that is possible, but have always done it in a similar fashion as to what Bridgette describes. Start to explore with two or three fingers and then move up to four, and then the most difficult part as the whole of the hand is gently inserted but keeping it as small and compact as possible. Once fully inside you can then open the fingers to give more sensation. In my experience some women achieve orgasm from the fisting alone, but most also need the clit rubbed at the same time.

Probably obvious why, but I find to fist a woman who has had children easier to achieve than one who hasn't. One of my regular play patients, who hasn't had any children, was extremely keen to experience fisting. But despite my very best efforts, on several occasions, I couldn't do it for her. Four fingers was fine, but the whole of my hand was just too uncomfortable for her and I couldn't get past the pelvic bone. Having said that though I have done it successfully with other women who haven't given birth. But communication, particularly during penetration, is important as it can get too uncomfortable for some.

I'd certainly recommend it to women who haven't tried it...With the right person it could be very pleasurable and take you to another level of arousal.

I am interested in vagina fisting or large dildo knickers (Panties).

My wife is a bit concerned about it, but after j-lube ended up in the house, she is more open to try it.

I'm into pain and vaginal pain in particular. Fisting is the ultimate thing to merge bdsm with medfet for me, it's the good kind of intense pain and stretching. I'm tight by default, it takes a lot of time to work me up to be able to take the fist, and sometimes a little rough force that I enjoy. Lots of lube, gloved up, steady pressure, I'm bearing down and it's popping in, making me moan. Orgasm is not a goal for me when playing, but if I desire to orgasm, it's the most intense when getting fisted and my clit touched.

I have done this with three women. The key is definitely lots of lube, patience (on both parts) and communication. Did I mention lots of lube?

A couple found it very enjoyable and memorable. The third came very hard with just the fisting. No other stimulation, clit or otherwise. She was extremely submissive and leant towards masochism. She would come every time, and we learned early on to use a pad on the bed to save the bedding.

I’m still not convinced a successful vaginal fisting is assured no matter how slow you go or how much lube you use! I’m facing the reality of a female patient who has fisted other females but can’t accept my hand. A large thick hand and a very tight vagina (no children) may not be compatible.