To those of you that expressed interest in the answer to the question posed at the start of this thread, I hope you wanted detail because this promises to be a humdinger. Some of what I’m about to describe is in the domain of online exams but it will pertain mostly to real time play.
First, let me say that I’m a little picky about the patients I choose. There are some fetishes (or parts thereof) that I am simply not interested in. Frankly, being a female playdoc makes me (and my sisters under the skin) a pretty rare commodity, and we’re in high demand. I think that entitles us to decide which games we want to play and which we don’t care for. Also, please note the screen name: LADYDOC; that means I prefer to be the doc, not your patient. Men that contact me with all kinds of highfalutin’ ideas about what they’re going to do to me get short shrift. I have been a patient on a few occasions, and I love being the patient for my partner, but that’s where it ends, at least for the present.
As a practitioner of the erotic medical arts, I like to spend time getting to know the patient. I am often approached by men who say, “Hey, do you have time for an exam right this very second?” Ummm, no! I like to take time to get to know my prospective patients. We generally chat a few times when it’s convenient for both of us. I want to know what buttons I can push and which I can’t, I like to have some insight into the personality involved and his past experience. I like to establish exactly what the patient wants in the form of an exam, and exactly how he expects it to conclude. I don’t like surprises in medplay any more than I like them in real time. If you think I’m not taking notes (mental or otherwise) during these conversations, you would be soooo wrong!
I’m also very honest with my patients about what I know how to do and feel comfortable with, even in an online exam. I think that to be believable, even in a fantasy situation; there needs to be some basis in reality. No, I’ve never passed six feet of colon tube (at least not in a human), and neither have you! I don’t do blood or breath play, it’s against my “standard of practice” for medplay. Okay, I’ve laid out the ground rules, now on to the meat and potatoes.
As to reality in online exams, I like to bring a few props to the party with me. You won’t know it, but I’m most likely wearing scrubs, the ever-intimidating white coat, and a stethoscope. My penlight and otoscope are in my coat pocket. If you’ve expressed an interest in having a speculum inserted in your bottom, I have three of them sitting on the desk next to me, same with the colon tube. Rectal temps are your thing? Did you want me to use a standard thermometer, a veterinary thermometer or a candy thermometer? Oh, all three, well alrighty then! Props help me get into the right headspace.
As mentioned earlier, I ask a lot of questions, and I listen carefully to what you tell me. You never know when a useful bit of information might slip out. I will probably have sent you a patient questionnaire in advance via email and you will have returned it to me. If I have any other questions, and I will, I’ll ask them prior to the actual start of the exam. My questions will get more intimate and embarrassing as we get closer to the exam. It’s all part of the mind game.
I follow a standard physical exam protocol, thanks for that Dr. Laennec! Starting at the head and going all the way to the toes. There’s a good chance that you’ll lose track and think you’re at the real doctor’s office. Except that the genital exam and the DRE is conspicuously lacking. Let’s not rush the good stuff, okay?
Knowing what your particular likes and dislikes are, and if there’s a “script” you’d like me to follow, is vital as we get to the end of the exam. I had a patient who was very into DRE’s, but they had to be accompanied by very specific wording and vocal inflection. It’s not something I could do casually, it took some time to get it “just right”, but when I did, it was very effective. Then we get down to the genital exam and DRE if that’s something you want (funny thing, most men do!). I’m always happy to oblige those hankerings.
After the exam is over, I’ll go over my “findings” with you, and we can talk about recommended treatment procedures. Chances are good that I’ll have the opportunity to indulge in some of my favorite treatments; sounds, catheters, enemas and prostate massage are all in my ‘bag” if you’ll forgive the pun! We can schedule follow-up treatments or rechecks at the end of the exam.
Wow! What a rant that was! I hope that answered some of the questions. If not, just let me know and I’ll rant some more. Maybe some of my fellow female practitioners will offer their insights as well
Play On!
LadyDoc