Are there ways to increase female libido?

Does any one no of any thing that can increase a females libdo. Any thing besides hormones. I hers that horny goat weed may work on females just like males. If you do could you send me a message. Surgedoc

Is there someone you're involved with who just isn't horny enough for you?

Does SHE want to be hornier?

She may have a lower need for sex (nothing wrong with that) or you might be with the wrong person.

Yes she want to be hornier

I had a girlfriend who never orgasmed and was inhibited. I used an electric vibro massager like you can buy in Boots gently on her a few times and she became multiorgasmic eventually (8 -10 orgasms per session), especially with this vibro massager. The speed is quite important and the shape of the attchment used, but also not to use too intensely as it can lead to numbing if overdone. Also she eventually confessed she had heavy rape and spanking fantasies but was extremely embarrassed about admitting this (being religious). Eventually I was able to incorporate them into our fantasy play and she would become extremely wet and orgasmic - but then sometimes she was overcome with guilt. I suggest you help her to be really frank about her most secret fantasies are and help her to enjoy them, whatever they are. May also benefit from counselling if inhibition involved.

Surgedoc, if she wants to be hornier and you do not want to use hormones, the best thing is the amino acid, L-arginine. It takes part in the synthesis of nitric oxide and that acts to dilate blood vessels, which is what you want in the sex organs for good sex. That goes for men too. No dilated blood vessels, no erection and no swollen clitoris.

Arginine also plays roles in cardiac and kidney function. Arginine is NOT an essential amino acid because the body can synthesize it from other amino acids and a sufficient quantity is usually produced for bodily functions, but if you want to give it a boost, you can purchase it in any health food store and many pharmacies.

Do a google search for increasing female libido.

I would avoid paying for expensive gels that you are supposed to rub into the clitoris because [some contain L-arginine] I would think that if you were game to rub your clitoris, you would already be interested in sex, and would probably obtain some degree of clitoral erection.

Wow what female libdo over the counter drugs are there?

In my view there is no point in just using aphrodisiacs like those mentioned because the part of a woman that needs to be stimulated first is her mind. If a woman has a psychological sexual block (due perhaps to some kind of abuse or trauma in her history) then no amount of chemistry will help until this has been addressed.

You need to establish trust, find out what kinds of erotica (not porn) appeal to her, and more importantly, what turns her off, and then work with this knowledge, gently. This can be all established quite quickly if you go about it the right way but without this then she will not be the sex kitten that you are trying to create.

Just my view, of course. Good luck.

In my experience one way to generate a healthy sex drive in a lady is to go to romantic, sexy movies, (chick flicks,) with her. It is not a fast solution and may lead a male to excessive alcohol intake to tolerate some of these flicks but it is safe and legal and does not require a prescription. Guys, try not to zone out during the flick, you may miss a great opportunity to listen to your ladies likes, interests and desires. Just one moan from your lady while watching a sexy scene may be all the clue you need to know what turns her on emotionally. She may be open to discuss her feelings about what she just saw on the screen and tell you about her desires.

Hello lady health care professionals, please comment and let me know how you feel about this post.

Hi, yes I think the best way to increase a female's libido is to communicate. Talk about your sexual fantasies and compromise, than you can't go wrong!

Has anyone here experimented with PT-141? I hear it is supposed to be the thing for female libido issues, and it works well on guys too.

White Lace, you are correct but just try to get a guy to talk about such things. Guys are "action" characters, women are "talkers".

Typically back rubs, foot rubs, massages all over work...

And if it doesn't make her any more turned on I'm sure she would still appreciate it nonetheless.