Best position for SELF fisting

Self fisting is easy but remember as you get older the one thing you don't want is fisting ones butt and you end up with a body cramp so bad that you can't move and you have to call 911 ,,, I have fallen and I can't get up !!

I am flexible enough to reach all the way in up to my wrist, while lying on the bed, but self fisting does end up leaving you in a somewhat awkward configuration, so there is not that much that you can do afterwards except for the feeling of accomplishment, perhaps!

There was only one time I ever tried and succeeded. I remember using a lot of lube (I made DIY lube from flaxseeds), doing that 'duck-bill' thing with my hand, and just keeping at it and persisting until the anus dilated sufficiently. The feeling as the final part of the knuckles pushed past the sphincter can only be described as intense.

This was a few years ago. Strangely, I never got around to attempting it again. At least I know that I can take a fist as big as mine. I live with the hope that someday I will meet someone (maybe with small hands!) who would like to engage in a fisting session with me!

I believe any average person can fully fist themselves up the arsehole, and from a number of posts on this forum I'm pretty sure i know where people are going wrong... If you can get most of your hand inside but seem to hit a dead end, that's because the second sphincter is closed and needs to be open.

The best way to open the second sphincter is by getting on your hands and knees (with your arse in the air) and then insert a toy that's long enough to go past the second sphincter (use the widest toy you can), push the toy in as deep as you can then pull it out quickly and repeat this between 5 and 10 times, you should be hearing the 'pah' sound of air getting inside each time you pull out, the air that's now inside will help to hold the second sphincter open when you try to insert your hand.

With the air still inside and staying on your hands and knees try now to insert four fingers past the knuckles, this time you should be able to feel another opening where there was once a dead end, use your fingers to stretch open this new 'internal' opening, next form the duck shape with your hand and aim your fingers towards the new 'internal' opening as you apply pressure.

You might need to repeat the above process a few times (i always need around 5 times), each time try to stretch the second sphincter open with your fingers.

I go through the process mentioned above and then reach underneath (between my legs), I then insert my hand as much as possible trying to keep pressure on the area so the air does not escape, I then change to a squatting position which I find is the easiest way to fully insert, like this i can go pretty deep and get about half of my forearm inside.

Believe me you'll know when you've made it past the second sphincter as everything will feel completely different to what you've experienced before in a much much better way, and you'll probably need to pull out after only a few seconds as the sensation is completely overwhelming at first.

Hope that helps

I wish I could but my arms seem to be too short to be able to get my whole hand in. 😢

I’ve tried a couple of positions, first proviso is being loosened -up already. Fighting a butt that’s saying not today and you’re doomed to failure. I usually try during a session where I’ve already opened my butt up with a large diameter dildo, and got sloppy slippery with lube already inside and then on my hand all the way to the wrist.

Then standing with my back arched against the bathroom door, I press up into my gut as I lean that elbow against the door. The leverage helps everything on its way.

I can get my whole hand in ‘goose head’ style, form a fist and pull it out. As I get more opened up I can press my own fist in.

An alternative I’ve used is to lie down on my stomach on the floor or on the bed (firm mattress) with my torso/chest supported on towells/pillows/.. anything to arch your back without effort- then I’ve reached back and pressed my hand in that way, also a great feeling.

I am not Siswet-supple so cannot then push a good part of my forearm up after my fist, but if I’d discovered this bit of fun aged 18 and not 45, rest assured I’d be doing so every weekend, my greatest fantasy would be for my girlfriend to hold my hand tightly and push up into my ass for some mixed double fisting.

it’ll never happen, but is a fun fantasy.

Best position for me is laying on my back with legs on my chest with the fister doing me. no way can I do myself. (wish I could though)

I've been slowly working on this in the shower. I soap up liberally and try stretching as best I can. I can't seem to get past my knuckles. I discovered I'm just not as limber as I used to be. It's still fun to try.

Yes I can. It involves me laying on my side and reaching way back. Sometimes I can do it standing and reaching back