What's the point in holding?

I keep seeing threads about how long one can hold an enema. Most of what I read gave fairly short periods of time. However, there are those that say they hold it all day, or all night, or until it's absorbed. What is the point of holding an enema 'till it's absorbed? Not a criticism, just a curiosity.

None!, no point at all. it messes up your natural balance and causes more problems right away or in very near future.

Some member perhaps stretching the truth a bit when they provide the length of holding time.

The point must be psychological. When the body sends its brain the message to get rid of what's in there, I think you should do it. I see no point in "holding it".

Holding it in isn't harmful. As long as you can absorb the amount of fluid retained and have normal kidneys to pee it out(and aren't on anti-psychotic meds, which prevent many mentally-ill folks from peeing enough water, so they become water-intoxicated with quarts and quarts of water, then have seizures) who cares! It's the erotic sensation of being forced to hold it by one's dom...

I do enjoy the thrill of holding the enema for some period of time, but when it is time to release then do it! That is the best feeling afterwards. I see no point in holding it for more than several minutes.....30 at the most.

The reason i like to hold them is to more fully experience the enema. But, i'm not looking to set any records. When i hold my coffee enema i'm just trying to get as big a caffeine lift as possible.

Hi enemay1,

I'm in line with John415. I don't get a thrill from trying to hold an enema.

The Thrill is in the Fill!

Hey, I kinda like that slogan! I should use it as my caption.

Arianna

I agree with Arianna: "The thrill is in the fill". All the variations: rate of flow, positions, how full, nozzle movement, etc. That's also the reply by 5 of the 6 partners (all women) that I have had over the past many,many yrs. (Once they adjust to it and get into it-- it's not automatic.) Some massaging and touching, if desired is a good addition, although I, personally, just enjoy the enema itself and have encouraged that with my partners. btw: I have used that statement many times, but Ariana used it first here, so it's hers to use.

FunnyFun: The Thrill is in the Fill"...I figured that had to have been used by someone somewhere before...it was too easy! It's a good slogan though.

Hee Hee--I like that Arianna---"The Thrill is in the Fill"---any songwriters out there?

I see no point in holding unless its an implant

for me the expulsion is also a good feeling----hafta come up with an appropriate slogan---😃😃

badger

For me it's all fun and games up until the last drop is in. Immediately after that, it's all business.

Arianna...I'm surprised enemay1 hasn't come back with something like: Yes, the thrill may be in the fill,

But the fun is when it's in the bum

Arianna: yes, but I had only used it in private before....unless I may have used it in this Forum a few months ago....I'm not sure.

I haven't checked - maybe there's a poll already, if not, there should be.

What to do you enjoy the most about an enema:

- The thrill is in the fill

- It's fun when it's in the bum

- and we need something for expulsion here...I get a rosy glow when it's time to go ??? (yeah dumb...just off top of my head...too busy right now to think up something - anyone???)

Arianna

How about:

The thrill is in the fill and it's fun when in the bum,

But when you have to go, just let it blow and enjoy the show.

How about:

OOHH--go with the flow while the thrill is in the fill

OOHH---enjoy that fine glow-then let'r blow!

OOHH--the sweet feelings that please during the release

OOHH--there's something sooo subliminal

OOHH--about a good 'ol enema

kinda nutty--but a start

c'mon songwriters lets hear it---😃😃

badger

Look at it this way;the quicker you can expell,the quicker you can do another fill.

If I hold it too long,my enema session is gone for the night.

So I'll just keep enjoying more enemas 'til the morning light

Let the good times flow,have yourself a blast

Tonight,I'm taking three quarts up my ass

With a simple solution, like water with salt, there is just the desire. If the solution was soap, I would highly question holding for a long time ( 30 minutes or more). If its a nutritive solution then the answer is obvious: to get the worth of the solution.

To each his/her own.

R

I don't like to hold it until it is absorbed, but part of what I like about taking an enema is the full filling that I have when I have 2,3,4 or more quarts in me. I love to hold it until I feel like I am going to explode and then release it. However, this can be for 20 minutes or longer depending on how much movement I am doing.

It can also be a control thing. My body so wants to evacuate the enema, but I am in control by fighting off the cramps and making myself hold it until I decide to release it. I guess it could be described as some personal BDSM.

I can think of no reason for holding except to make a punishment enema more punishing.

I don't think even a brief period will make the enema any more effective, and I would rather use the time for a second enema which would probably be more effective than one held for any length of time.

I use coffee enemas a lot which are better if retained for about 15-30 minutes. There is no punishment in that. It just helps the body to get rid of toxins. Otherwise I don't see the point either in holding an enema all day or overnight.

I find that after a couple of minutes I can't wait for the exquisite sexual release of a high-volume enema 😄

In enema play with my hubby, especially with the first enema, a couple minutes is a long time ... and I'm usually expelling after a minute or so.

But sometimes, after exchanging a couple enemas and getting a clear return, we'll take a quart or so and see who can hold it the longest. I've done eight minutes, but my anxiety and urges for surges (if you know what I mean) usually become quite high after five or six and I can't wait toexpell. He did 10 one time, but said the last two minutes were more than he could tolerate.

One time we each took about two quarts outdoors, then "did the deed" on the picnic table and wondered who would have to expell first. We were going great until I climaxed and just let loose, so to speak, and when the gush of water hit his legs, he did the same. We must have been a real sight, water all over the place and he climaxing. Wow. We're obviously going to do that again sometime before winter sets in. That was absolutely fabulous ... and he agreed with my assessment.

There is the discipline thrill - being told to hold it. lso, holding it a bit longer (coupled with e.g. massage, movements) can move the liquid higher in the colon.

I make my patient hold as long as possible. Depending on my solution and the volume, as to how long that time frame is. whether he can make it only 10 minutes or several hours later he is begging for permission to release! Also a factor is how "full" he is already from the days diet. We have found that the more he has eaten during the day the better he can hold. For us, that's part of our enjoyment is him holding. I enjoy his facial expressions from the cramping..hehe..We have discovered some herbs recently when looking into sleep remedies. instead of dosing up on the sleeping pills every night, have found lavendar oil to be perfect. The bottle suggests to use about 40-50 drops in a small amount of water and drink 3 times a day..well, i just add the amount to a small fleet bottle and inject him every night, which, with no problems, he retains all night and sleeps great! One night, I will try.. 😉

Many woman get the thrill from giving up control. The enema can be viewed as a highly submissive act for the recipient and the lack of control over expulsion simply intensifies this feeling. body function control is a deeply ingrained action in many bdsm relationships, whether it be urination, bowel habits, or even orgasm control.

After doing several cool clean out enemas,my holding time is almost unlimited. My main event enema which includes a brandy mixture takes a hour or so from insertion to expelling. I use a very hot solution . I use a temp gauge while mixing the solution. The very warm saline along with some brandy relaxes the colon enough for holding this solution for a hour or so. Expelling this enema is no problem because the previous clean out enemas clear the way.

Let the good times FLOW