Pleasant or strict?

Personally, I find the embarassment factor enough without needing to add the pain element. Simply being told what will happen and being exposed so that it does seems to be enough to get me "in the mood". I prefer the added element of caring even if it is done with a degree of firmness, but then I tend to be compliant with a desire to please my giver and make him happy with me. Reassurance along the way (and after!) is ideal for this girl's soft side.

I like to gauge my partner's mood. Over the years I have given more pleasant exams. I like to have a firm or strict female partner for my exams.

I think both sides have their benefit. Realistic is always nice when it is thorough and firm. Our minds do like to wander some and the naughty element can also be a great turn-on. What a great topic. What if...is always a great turn on for me.

Perhaps I worry too much, but it's quite important for me when playing doctor to get it right for my patient. Want them to enjoy experience. As patient, like firm and kind but with me doing and accepting what 'm told to do.

Pleasant but procedural and clinical. Caring too.

Realistic with a no nonsense doctor.

Pleasant but firm demeanor for me. Hiwever, having a strict doctor here and there is not horrible either.

What about pleasant and strict at the same time?

I tend to modulate my demeanor on the patient's desires / needs based on previous examination discussion.

I can go either way and both are fun.

How about strict and pleasurable? Doesn't mean you have to do BDSM type exams. The patient should do what the Doctor asks them to do (within reason, and agreed upon ahead of time).

I would prefer pleasant but clinical. Doing what needs to be done professionally and realistically, while explaining the various procedures as they are being done.

In an examination I prefer a strict doctor, more without the necessity of tying the patient as in BDSM.

I like the first. A nice caring doctor who explains what he is doing to me as he does it. And realistic clinical procedures. I imagine my perfect play doctor as one who is like that kind fatherly or grandfatherly figure.

Never played in medfet before but i'd like to. Both sound very fun!

A bit of both is never a bad thing. Back in college, the lady doc was kind but certainly no-nonsense. She was direct yet nice.

I miss her since she retired 😢.

Most definitely the calm caring approach. I prefer her to talk soothingly and understandingly as she inspects my penis and testicles and asks me lots of embarrassing questions about my sex life (which consists mostly of masturbation).

Pleasant want the patient too feel safe