Gape, Gaping, Anal Prolapse

It also been a fantasy of mine to make a girls pussy and asshole gape. this isnt your average gape from sex caused by the dick but a lil more extreme. somewhat of a bizarre insertion and gaping curiousity, maybe fisting. this sounds like it would be a lot of fun 😃

I had a shiver run down my spine at the thought of being "opened". Everyone has the thing that makes them happy. This is yours. Enjoy.

Not positive if this is actually mine or ni=ot but i would love to try it and experiment with it!

Ouch!! Just think, a ladys vagina is made to stretch for childbirth, after dilating and contracting for (in most cases) several hours, and our anus' aren't made for stretching, I know if i'm not relaxed or lubed enough it hurts very bad if something gets put in there!

So yes....OUCH!

LOVE being stretched wide open! No feeling like having my vagina stretched open to the limit! Absolutely fantastic! Also have a bit of a kink of using different objects being inserted, to fill me up! Used chop sticks once, and just kept inserting them slowly, one after another....also have used rocks, and inserted one after another, until I was completely full!

Seeing someone who has done that makes me want to turn and run the other way haha

I had had a few colonics and my wife was finally curious about it so I took for her first visit. As the therapist was starting to insert the speculum my wife winced and said it was too big. The therapist reassured her that one's anus is capable of stretching open to the same size as one's mouth - that's quite a gape!!

She finally relaxed and let it slide in. I massaged her tummy as the therapist talked soothingly and let the water go. My wife took it like a trooper, partly because she knew I was hard as a rock, hidden behind her and the table. As I rubbed her tummy I worked my hand lower and lower until I was passing over her pubic hair.. The therapist didn't make any comment, but she looked at me knowingly -- knowing I was struggling to keep from diving my hand into my wife's pussy.

When I fist my husband, even up to my elbows, as soon as I remove my arm, he closes up. No gape at all.

I guess he has good muscle tone!

Your husband is a lucky man :-)

Oh wow - I agree Susie's hubby is one lucky guy.

When I fist my husband, even up to my elbows, as soon as I remove my arm, he closes up. No gape at all. I guess he has good muscle tone!

I can't help but wonder... I am anally sensitive too. The subject of this post is that I like to periodically experience the diameter of those objects that find their way into my rectum, having passed through my anus, and otherwise being periodically esconced therein, increasing. And, my concern relates to the possibility of hurting myself; i.e., medical issues, fissures, and the like. My golden rules are that one can never use too much lube; and, to advance slowly...

Yes, the anus and sphincters are by design relatively elastic, stretching and accommodating, and then seemingly coming back to their point of origin. But, I do push the edge in play, and have learned to relax back there, seemingly with some control over these muscles, in my desire to periodically accommodate larger size toys. The sensations can be intoxicateing. Too, I may be more elasticized back there today, vs. times in the past…

My concern relates to any long-term effects that my enjoying this anal sensitivity can cause me, or be of concern in the future...

I work out daily, and am not an 'Arnold'; however, when on the treadmill, or certain weight machines, I find that when straining to complete the exercise, little bubbles/pockets of gas may escape periodically, seemingly almost uncontrollably - but not really so (I don't think). Let’s say they rise to the occasion…

This doesn't happen at any other times, for the most part, and there are seldom racetracks on my tighty whities...

< Oh, the 'em bare ass ment' of being candid, and seeking ‘real’ information. >

I would approach my Internist, however, I don't beleive that he would fully appreciate my quandary...

We have real doctors and medical folks here, coupled with practicing play~docs with experience, and comments are solicited; I am

Kindly yours,

Hermann

Let me add one thing.

I am 5'4", 116 pounds, work out at the gym a couple of times a week and jog 2-3 days a week, but I do NOT have arms like Arnold. Furthermore, my husband and I have been doing fisting for almost twenty years. It took almost a year before he could accept me to my elbow. My husband and I are NOT unusual in what we do, but it did take time to get there. Do not force anything when attempting large anal insertions. Go slowly. I have described practicing for fisting as being similar to a gymnast practicing to do splits. If you train in a reasonable manner, you can develop flexible [anal] muscles that can really stretch and will go right back to their normal position as soon as you remove the object without any gaping.

Aaaaaaand, with proper training, one can probably wink their anus in time to any tune! 😁 😁 😁

Love your comments!

Do you know these porn movies / pics in which the ass is stretched e.g. by toys, hands or just a good ol' fashioned bum-fucking and you can actually see the dark, wide, hollow (and empty) anal cavity?

In addition, some actresses seem to be able to control their sphincter movements (open close open close; quite fascinating and I guess supposed to be inviting :-)

Is this real life or is there picture manipulation involved?

In my own experience the anal cavity just seems to collapse whenever the inserted object is removed and there simply is no large hollow space. Maybe the inserted objects (I hate to say it: this obviously also means my dick in my SO's butt) are just too small or too short?

Just search "gaping" on all the porn-tube sites there is 😃 😃

I would say its common for the anus to remain 'open wide'. or as you put it, gaping, after penetration by a significant object until the person first contracts their sphincter muscles after the relaxation necessary for that significant object to penetrate. The anus would not, usually, then open again afterward without further penetration.

Many are able to pulse their anus at will by alternately bearing down and relaxing though it would normally remain closed whilst the muscles cause the area around it to swell a little in and out, a sort of 'pouting' motion.

As for for the internal rectal cavity not being a 'large hollow space', both the rectum and the vagina, if there are no faeces or penetrating object in either of the cavities they would normally relax to something of a flattened tube, though they are most often pictured in anatomical drawings as true cavities for the sake of illustration. It is the filling of that 'flattened tube' with faeces from the colon which tells us that a BM is imminent.

The exception is that when the person is in the knee/elbow position the abdominal contents will tend to sink downwards by gravity. In the few experiences of anal sex I've had (a long time ago) I've found that apart from the friction of the anal sphincter the penis can be barely in contact with the rectal walls when intercourse has been in the so called 'doggie' position.

It's an interesting question though. Maybe others would like to contribute.

What I find funny about some of these women who have the ability to "open" up as described up above, and or take objects of such great size in the porn movies they are in, why it is that they whine, fuss, moan and what not when they are doing a "medical themed" movie, when a tiny little thermometer gets inserted into their bottoms? Kind of makes you go hummm, doesn't it? lol. Just wondering. Maybe someone else can shed some light on that because it cracks me up every single time.

Mashie

Mashie dear, you obviously know what makes these "miracle hole" owners whine, fuss and moan with the tiniest insertable: the need to perform. Regardless, in response to LIBRETTO, gaping is a real phenomenon and has to do with transient sustained dilation of a sphincter that has "given up" (fatigued, in a very biological way), against a large intruding object, especially with prolonged or repeated assault (think of any anal scenario here). In the overwhelming number of players, this is temporary (and the anus does not lose its smooth puckered roundness). With some extreme players, such dilation can be permanent, of course (and the anus, besides gapey,is also wavy or corrugated)...

You are right John, but still, you gotta laugh at that don't ya? Don't you find it even a little bit funny? Come on, work with me here, lol.

Haha! For the kind of money they make, I would cry and scream and moan if someone stuck a tiny toothpick in my behind! 😄 (Without the point at the end of course!) HAHAHA! Ah, the things we do for money and fame...

I don't know how they maintain the gaping anus after the toy is removed.

After a good hour of serious fisting, my husband closes right up.

...why it is that they whine, fuss, moan and what not when they are doing a "medical themed" movie, when a tiny little thermometer gets inserted into their bottoms? Kind of makes you go hummm, doesn't it? lol. Just wondering. Maybe someone else can shed some light on that because it cracks me up every single time...

It is SO dramatic eh? :😃 But I would guess more than a few playdocs on this site will confirm they've heard a gasp, low moan or maybe just a sigh when that tiny rod is slipped into an anxious rectum. Certainly more psychological, than psysiological - but it does feel nice - provided one isn't "gaping"! lol

I think what's been said here makes sense and the size of the anal toy or you, for that matter libretto has little to do with creating a gaping effect or anal sphincter tricks.

Talking about control of your body (which usually isn't getting any better with drugs! So thanks for your involvement BigK.), two of these three ladies are real masters of muscle control (even though it seems to be restricted to "open" and "close" :-)

http://xhamster.com/movies/920619/stick_that_bat_in_my_gaping_ass_3_of_3.html

Has nothing much to do with sensual sex, but it really made me shake my head in disbelief.

The silly make-up and the oh-so-cool cap of the third girl make the entire scene a bit of a comedy.

I bet you won't be able to fight off a disbelieving smirk coming to your faces!

Again proves that laughter and sex go hand-in-hand well, I suppose.

When I was young, I began experimenting with solo anal play. I found it satisfying to inflate my rectum with air on occasion. I learned that after doing this a couple of times, my anus would "gape" very dramatically. It was a huge fascination and pleasure to me. I would not put anything in my rectum other than a small tube to deliver the air and I guess the sphincter muscle would just relax in very short order. As I have gotten older, the ability to do this has dwindled considerably but do miss being able to "relax" like that.

Ouch for me.....no thks; getting an 8 inch penis dildo is right 4 me...never could understand fisting with the medical problems caused.

Fisting and use of large butt plugs will result in loss of sphyncter control and prolapse of the rectum and anus.In thr practice I worked in as a nurse, we had several male clients who lost control and it was recommended to them to wear kotex to prevent messing themselves. Use of drugs makes you have less sensation of pain (not good) you dont know your are being harmed.

Anal stretching has been around for CENTURIES. It used to be practiced up till the 1920's to help treat things like hemorrhoids, constipation etc..... Even today, they are still making and selling the anal dilation kit that was commonly sold in pharmacies.

Then came the pill rage and as we all know, it not only wiped out the popularity of anal dilation as a medical treatment but enemas as well, and like enemas, anal dilation is a VERY misunderstood practice.

For starters, it will NOT make you loose enough to "leak". This is an old wives tale that probably came about as a result of someone who stretched too wide, too soon and wound up causing permanent damage to their sphincter. In this case YES, you can cause permanent damage.

That said, anal dilation is perfectly safe provided you go slow, use tons of GOOD lube, listen to your body and use pain as your guide. By that I mean STOP when it hurts, back off, relax and try again. If it still hurts, call it a night and take a break. I have been stretching for over 15 years and being able to take dildos as wide as 4 inches, I have never leaked although I'll admit I am a bit looser in the bum lol.

For those who are curious I say try it but do your research and take your time. Enjoy the feeling because after all, that's what it's about.

PM me if you want more info

Hi my girlfriend and I watched a lesbian gaping DVD together and got hot and turned on by all the rimming of all the gaping assholes, and we ended up with some hot lesbian anal action! The problem is that with me, my ass stays nice and wide open, agape, because I have been doing my ass with rather large butt plugs for many years, and she has never had any thing bigger than an average vibe/dildo and fingers (mine) and tongue (also mine lol) up her dirt hole. The problem is she wants her ass gaping like a tunnel, like in yesterday or asap. How can we do it? Thanx

Exercise slow and sensual with plenty lube .

The anus is only a muscle and react as a muscle , never fast !

There are two kinds of gaping: permanent relaxation of the sphincter that is not exactly desirable (in many cases it equates injury to the sphincter) and temporary, as in holes that have been fucked or toyed many times and then you give them a pull and they open nicely, primarily out of habit and because muscles have memory. With the second type, gaping comes naturally and is also safe (and prettier in my opinion).