I've been trying to screw up the courage to ask my wife to give me an enema. Spare the advice to "just ask her!". If it was that easy for me, I would have asked her already.
Here is what I did: I told her that I had a kinky fantasy that I wanted to act out with her but I was embarrassed to tell her about. We've done some pretty kinky things in the past so I don't think she'll freak out on me. I told her that I wrote it out and left it on the computer desktop for her to read. I don't think she's read it yet and the anticipation is killing me.
She did take a more aggressive role during sex the other day and I was sure to tell her how much it turned me on. We had sex again last night and she was MUCH more dominant which turned me on to no end. Now if she will only take the next step. The fantasy I wrote is below. I'll keep you posted on how it goes.
Lately I‘ve been fantasizing about engaging in some role-play games with you. Specifically, I’d like to play the role of your sex-slave once in a while. I’d also like to play the role of your master but that’s a different fantasy and you would need to define what the limits are. Here are some things that I’d like you to do to me.
This scene can begin and progress any way you like because I don’t want it to be purely scripted. It will take some of the fun out of it if I know exactly what is about to happen and when it might end. The major elements are what’s important. You already know what turns me on so none of this will be very surprising and most of it we‘ve already done. These are some things that really turn me on and I hope they turn you on too.
You begin by having me kiss your neck and massage your breasts and ass. You kiss my neck and tell me that if I pull away, I will be punished. Of course, I can’t take very much of that before I pull back and my “punishment“ will follow. You grasp my shoulders and push me down to kneel on the bathroom floor so I can lick your pussy. Before your knees weaken, you turn around, spread your cheeks, and have me kiss and lick your ass (which you know I love but the fantasy is being “forced“ to do it). When you’ve had enough of this, you tell me to bend over and stick my ass up in the air. You leave me there while you prepare an enema bag by filling it to the brim with warm water and purging the air from the hose. You hang the bag from the towel rack on the shower door and insert the nozzle into my ass and release the clamp. You tease me by fondling my cock and balls and rubbing my ass or you might have me sit up and lick you as I did before. You might decide to add a glass of water to the bag just when it’s almost empty or you might raise the bag up to increase the flow periodically. After the bag is empty, you clamp the tube and remove the nozzle from my ass and then beckon me to follow you into the bedroom.
Before I am allowed to empty, you require that I lick your pussy and make you come. Once you are satisfied, I am allowed to go to the bathroom. After I have cleaned up, I meet you in the bedroom. In one variation, you have me bring you to orgasm with my hands, mouth or cock. If that’s to be the end of the session, you might “force” me to sleep with one of the medium plugs in my ass. If you are ready to keep going, you might lead me back into the bathroom and repeat the whole process 2 or 3 times, increasing the amount by a cup or raising the bag each time.
In another variation, after the enema(s), we could continue as follows: I enter the bedroom and see that all of our toys are laid out and you are waiting for me. You have me kneel on the bed with my ass in the air. You lube up two fingers and fuck my ass with them for a few minutes, preparing me for larger things to come. You then insert one of the smaller butt plugs. You might have me turn over so you can straddle my face or just lay in front of me so I can lick you. You repeat this process every few minutes by inserting larger plugs and “forcing” me to eat your pussy or ass in between. You might require me to make you come every time or that might be too much and so you just decide when to proceed.
Once I have held the largest plug for a little while, you remove it and begin working your well-lubed hand into my upturned ass. After your entire hand is inside, you slowly begin fucking me with it. You pull your hand part-way out and simultaneously try to make a fist. You do this in several incremental steps, pulling out and pushing back in until you are eventually thrusting your entire fist into my asshole. If you feel I have earned it, you might have me turn over and lay on my back so that you can stroke or suck my cock until I come while you are fisting-fucking my ass.
Feel free to embellish any way you like by adding a blindfold, nipple clamps, cock ring, tying my hands, having me shave you, shaving me, or whatever you would like.