Wish there were more Females on this site

I truly wonder what keeps females in the closet about recieving enemas, and the ones that are out in the open act like they are Gods gift and won't share

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I truly wonder what keeps females in the closet about recieving enemas, and the ones that are out in the open act like they are Gods gift and won't share

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They are out in the open about it, but won't share? They think they are god's gift? You mean they tell you they do it themselves, but won't let you do it to them? I think that's YOUR experience. Maybe you should lighten up about it with them and let it develop a bit more slowly. Maybe they enjoy enemas, but want a real relationship before they allow you to do it to them.

Just because they enjoy doing an enema by themself, doesn't mean that they should allow you to give them an enema. They may enjoy it as a purely personal activity.

If the women are telling you they do enemas, but won't have you administer enemas to them, it might be the vibes they are getting from you.

Maybe the bag you mentioned finding in another post you made was still damp from douching, not an enema.

What, you mean share in person?

I sense your frustration, maybe anger at high-on-their-enema-horse female humanity. Finding intimate play partners isn't equally easy for everyone. Some people go their who lives without them! (Including some who are married... )

Going to a suitably themed convention appears to be one way to join others in the scene.

Taking this forum for what it is, people here (male, female and other) are amazingly open about their sexuality. I think that is a rarity in the world, something to be valued. What you read and learn here will surely be of value in discovering how to play with others.

It's a lifetime process of learning, for those who care to treat it that way. From the first mutual look, to the first words, first meal together, and on through each stage of intimacy, and also the decision to withdraw, separate emotionally.

-p

I have some bad news for you. A good part of the people claiming to be ladies are men. And a good part of the men looking for ladies to give them enemas are only interested in sex.

I have to agree with all the above posts.

An enema convention E-Fest is a great place to start, and they have them in Florida.

People here ARE VERY sexually open and adventurous. You should try to get acquainted by chatting or personal messaging those who interest you. DON'T start by saying "what are you into, baby" or writing one line personal messages. We will either write back saying we aren't interested, ignore them or complain to the moderators if you keep sending notes that don't interest us after repeated requests to cease. Women want to learn about YOU, not what you want in bed or what you want to do with or to us. Remember how our [female] biology is wired. We want someone who will take care of us, nurture us, be successful, give us handsome children, etc. Women who want to share enemas with you (giving and/or taking) want emotional intimacy and knowledge about you FIRST. Then, if you are lucky, we will spread our legs and our cheeks, giving you access to what you want. Furthermore, most of the women here are not unmarried twenty or thirty-somethings. Most women here who might go out with you have something to lose if they meet you, so you really have to be thoughtful, kind and just plain nice to make it worth the risk. And believe me, most of us can tell if you are faking it.

You have to be yourself and we have to like what we see in order to give you what you are looking for. We are kinky, adventurous and fun loving. Most of us are NOT whores.

Susie you are right.

I guess I've been around in these forums too long--maybe I'm jaded--maybe I'm too old --

but I'm kind of tired of the same old stuff from people who say theyve read the forum 's and letters and such

I enjoy an enema--every once in a while I meet a lady who does as well--and if it works out we share--it does not have to be about sex

I have a lady friend--she has the usual elderly lady difficulties and I have the usual elderly man difficulties--but we have fun anyhow--we even laugh about the crazy stuff we do--life is to be enjoyed

it really is too bad that we have fakes --imposters --and self serving nitwits to deal with---but such is life

badger

There are probably more males because one of the main pleasures of an enema can be stimulation of the Prostate.

While I believe that there will always a warm welcome for any more that care to join us ( regardless of gender ), I do believe that there are already many fine, interesting women here. I know that we are from many different stripes of society, many different life positions re our various interests. Some Novices, Some (enema) Virgins, some experienced, some aged. And I think that it is just as difficult here as anywhere else to establish a concord with anyone else. Our common interest is not adequate in itself to automatically cause acceptance of each other; there is still the requirement to establish the traditional necessities of an acquaintanceship, and once sufficient trust and mutual respect has been developed, then and only then, if one is lucky, is the discussion likely to turn to our common interest. It is heartening to me to see as many women as I have seen here.

Cos.