Tied down

My ex used to make me strip ever so slowly then tie me naked to the bed. Once I was tied down he'd tease and torment my clit until I was just on the point of cumming then stop. This would go on for several hours until he felt I'd suffered enough. he's finally let me cum by using a fine make up brush which he'd lightly brush over my clit.

Man what an orgasm I had.

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My ex used to make me strip ever so slowly then tie me naked to the bed. Once I was tied down he'd tease and torment my clit until I was just on the point of cumming then stop. This would go on for several hours until he felt I'd suffered enough. . . .

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That's called orgasm denial. I do that sometimes. It's a fairly common BDSM tactic.

If you do it for a nice long while, just blowing over your clit would be enough to give you a mindblowing orgasm. Makeup brushes or light swipes with a feather work wonders. Try holding a bit of wet ice on it at the very end. Also magnificent!

Wonderful ! more of this for everyone !

Wow, I love to be teased like that, and yes the orgasm is so much more powerful. I'm a squirter too so this gushes alot with this sort of play! xxx

Tease and denial while bondaged is definitely cool. I enjoy both give and receive.

I concur with many of you. The denial of the orgasm not only frustrates it also magnifies the final rush and release. But if you have done the torment over several hours don't forget to comfort your submissive after the fact. They will appreciate it more and be ever more grateful to you for allowing them this little joy.

Also on a side note about restraining your subbie.. My girls are aware that once they are secured there is no easy escape or release. They want to feel completely under my control. Whether tied to the bed, or the horse (breeding bench we call it) or simply securing wrists to ankles in assorted positions. Once there that's where they stay until I choose to allow them to be loose. It is all part of the scene and understood. That also maintains the high level of safety we practice as well. And we trust each other.

I agree that this produces some extraordinary orgasms. As said below this is called "orgasm denial" and is very effective.

Be careful leaving your sub alone and attached, especially if they are blindfolded. It can be very frightening and unsafe if you really leave, you should only pretend to leave and watch them at all times.

That said, when properly done the results are positively explosive!

I like bondage with a spanking.I had a friend who would undress me and tie me to a armed chair.. My hands were tyed to the legs of the chair and I was tyed to the chair in a position that me butt would protude straight out making me a nice target. Then he would take out a paddle or a belt and beat me with about 50 spanks..Did it hurt sure did. If I yelled to much he would gag me.. I loved being spanked by him..after he spanked me would have a great session of anal and oral sex.. OH HOW I loved this.. binkey boy

I think being tied down definitely gives you more of a thrill. Bringing you to the edge and then not granting you your satisfaction can drive you crazy.

I love to tie my girlfriend to the bed, blindfolded. The restraints are easy enough to get out of if she needs to, just in case. I lick, tease, torture her clit until she begs me to let her cum.

It's one of our favorite things to do...

I also bought some cuffs that have a strap that allows me to mount them temporarily to a door. When I put her in them she's basically tied standing up to the door. She loves to be eaten, rimmed, and fucked in this position wearing heels and nothing else.

Something I haven't tried yet, but would love to😃

Sounds like fun

Wow. That sounds amazing. I love being tied down and having my cock teased in a similar way. When it's been teased, stroked, licked and sucked for literally hours without any release. I've had a wet paintbrush with very soft bristles used on the frenulum for an interminable amount of time. To say I was begging was an understatement. I ended up gagged because I was pleading so much.

Wish I could get that done to me.

Bondage for us definitely adds to the fun and sexual satisfaction. We have lots of toys, equipment and restraints. We like positions that turn the butt up. Tied over a bar stool, the back of a straight back chair, on their elbows and knees with a spreader bar between their ankles and wrist, etc. Who ever is restrained usually gets an enema at the beginning of the session, slowly with an inflatable butt plug nozzle while getting spanked, performing oral on the top or tops, clothes pins, etc. Sometimes the bottom is also gagged with a bit or ball gag if their mouth is not in use. When I am the bottom I tell her what to do to me and make me do, when she is the bottom I decide what to do or make her do. If I am bottoming to someone else, with or without her we have a pre-approved list of activities that the top or tops can do or make me do as much as they want to and for how long I must submit.

That sounds so delicious and yet cruel. Have you ever been tied down and had your clit licked so many times that you passed out from cumming?

My ex loved tying me to the bed and calling me a dirty boy. She would put larger and larger dildos in me, pulling my legs up over my head, then taking pictures of my ass with the dildo just starting so everyone would know how big it was and then with it all the way in. She had a strap on and loved taking me and telling me I was a dirty little wh*ore that deserved to be gan*g banged. She would kneel over my face and make me lick her and suck her clit while she came over and over. She would use me for up to two hours before she let me jerk off and lick my own cu*m.