I too have a spanking kink!! I love it when my husband first gives me a lecture on something that he does not approve of and then puts me over his knee letting me know just how much of a spanking I am about to get and how it will be administered (hand, paddle, hairbrush, wooden spoon, spatula, etc).
Next my dress will lifted (or pants pulled down) and the panties are gently pulled off completely. He will then rub my bottom with his hand with an occasional gentle pat while chatting up my "transgression." This is followed by the implement of his choice (if used at all) and then asks me I why I am about to be spanked and to let him know when I am "ready". To say I am "ready" by that time is a tremendous understatement as I am anxious to be spanked which I know will be quickly follow with intense love making.
Sometimes he applies a lotion such as Jergen's Lotion to my bottom prior to my spanking. More recently he applied a lotion that set my poor bottom on fire even before the first spank. OMG, what a turn on!! That lotion is available in the drugstore under the name of ICY Hot which seems strange as it feels cool when first applied and then things really begin to heat up after being rubbed in. I felt like I had been spanked long and hard before the actual spanking even begins.
A word of caution for those that decide to try it. If you get it on your most private parts, the feeling might be too much as it feels like things are "burning" or really "stinging".
Needless to say, I got a really good spanking after ICY Hot was applied and time allowed for the desired effect to set in. Then I got what I have to say was about the best most erotic spanking that I have ever had, sending me over the edge before the spanking was halfway completed. A very strong orgasm to say the least. After the spanking, twice again, I "climbed" the mountain so to speak going over the edge while making love, but not as strong as the first one!!
I almost always get a pretty good stern spanking that reddens up my bottom. The spanking can last as long as 10 minutes with a gradual build up of intensity.
Afterwards, we frequently make sweet love with him entering from behind with me on my tummy. Some of the ICY HOT lotion got on him and was a real turn on for him as well. Fortunately, it did not get on his most private parts....at least for him!!
I do want to say that what we do together is entirely consensual and although we have a "safe word" to stop, neither of us has ever felt inclined to use it. We do remind one another what that "safe word" now and then so as not to forget it when it might be needed someday!! NOT LIKELY!!! lol.
I am wondering if anyone else has ever tried ICY HOT or a similar product and what their reaction might have been to it. I am not sure I would try it on an enema nozzle, but have to admit, the very thought of doing that is kinda of exciting!!
My hubby soon will experience his own spanking using ICY HOT. He just does not know exactly when, where, and how it will happen yet!! I cannot wait to surprise him one day or night soon.
Denise