Chat/Online vs. Real life

I am new to this site. I've been into medical fetish and have played around with my hubby for the past few years. We have talked about the possibility of finding a playdoc to participate in a scene (for me), and/or a teaching/learning experience (for him). As we've only ever done this with each other we don't know if there are certain general protocols or if each playdoc is very unique. I've also noticed on ads that many do not check the box looking for online chat and I don't know how you go about talking to someone, finding out what everybody is interested in, etc....if they don't want to talk online? Any info/insight anyone can give would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

I can't give a whole lot of insight, but I know where you are coming from. I have also had a medical fetish for a long time. I personally don't have my own play doctor or play patient yet. Welcome to the site and I hope you can find all the help you need on here. 😃

@wildspirit, first, welcome. If you look a the ads and a person doesn't check the online chat box, it means that they don't do exams online. You can still eamil them and ask about a real life exam. There are many helpful people in here who are willing to help those who are new to this fetish and you will probably hear from many as they see your post and reply to it. You can also post an ad youself and look over the replies from those who meet your requirements. Take your time and enjoy.

Hi! and welcome.

srg_rik is right, just because the online chat box isn't checked doesn't mean they won't want to chat with you. I have mine set up that way, because playing online for me is just plain boring, although that's just me. However, I love to chat with anybody and really like asking questions, exchanging opinions and so forth. I find it helps develop new ideas for scenarios.

I have a patient friend I met in here, and last time we got the wife involved and it went better than I expected.

If you just want to chat, spifff2003 on messenger.

Good luck, Dave 😃

Real life exams are better than online any day.

After chatting for a while, sometimes I decide to pursue a real meet. It's a way of getting to know and feel more comfortable with your playmate. I personally need a real meet.

I would agree. Great to get comfy before making the plunge.

Online or real, it's what individuals enjoy that matters. Personally, online does nothing for me. (Okay. So I only tried it a couple of times). Reality rules!

I agree that online exams are not as great as in person. However, you can not always find some one near you to play with and in some cases circumstances such the need to be discreet my warrant on line play.

Online exams can be great with the right relationship doc/patient: the power of imagination

But so difficult to find the right doctor!

Online exams can be great with the right relationship doc/patient: the power of imagination. But so difficult to find the right doctor!

I agree that online exams can be great. Imagination can be a very powerful stimulant in an online pole play situation. However, I agree with @labcoatlady.

After chatting for a while, sometimes I decide to pursue a real meet. It's a way of getting to know and feel more comfortable with your playmate. I personally need a real meet.

I need a real life experience after a few online sessions.

I agree find the right doc for online play can be difficult but I have enjoyed meeting different docs on here.

Online examination with cam can't re-create the excitement of a face to fave meeting with a playdoctor. Given a good connection and audio/picture they can be interesting.

We have little else at the moment.

Right now in lock down/Covid-19 online can be great. Of course with the right chemistry between doctor and patient.

Using a cam adds the tention of let the patient undress in front of the doctor and to see the patient during the examination.

With Covid-19 there are few options but trying to make the best of a lousy situation, I am learning to be a good patient. Like in real life, it takes chemistry in building trust with any doctor. Sometimes it works, sometimes its not as enjoyable. I find the best part of going online is the anticipation of the unknown. Every experience has been different but welcome each scenario.

It's hard to find play partners in person, so I think online is a bit easier to find people. It's definitely not as good as in person, but if done right can be fun.