How to get her involved?

I'm a married man who by no stretch of the imagination is gay. I do not like nor am or ever have been attracted to men. However, I love anal play, anal penetration with dildos, exams, giving and receiving anything anal. My wife has an idea and tolerates my lifestyle somewhat, as she turns a blind eye to it. However I would love to get her more involved. How do I do this?

I've had a couple of mine just outright ask me if I like it. I'm not totally sure getting them to go it w/o them bringing it up. I would assume, if your happily married and so is she.. then, just bring it up. If she's truly not in to it, you really can't force her. Some of my exes/ladies just aren't in to certain things and while they'll do some stuff.. if they don't truly enjoy it, they won't put effort in to it.. That's just my experience. Just talk to her..

Also, as I'm sure you've seen before.... Being male and enjoying anal play doesn't make one gay. Being attracted to men does.

Ya dr mom is right... take control in the heat of the moment one night and just see where things go... whats the worst that could happen... when things get all riled up like that and she tries what youre liking chances are she will like it too