What do you like about retention?

I know there are people who enjoy holding their enemas for as long as possible, and others who don't enjoy it at all.

What do YOU like about retention?

The feeling of fullness? The feeling of needing to expel? Painful cramps? Something else?

All of it but for 15 to 20 minutes only

Nothing! The only reason to hold an enema is to further punish someone receiving a punishment enema. It really doesn't really do that much in terms of cleaning the colon which is the primary purpose of an enema.

If you are giving yourself a coffee enema you need to hold it in for 15 to 20 minutes so it can stimulate the liver to release the toxins and bile and the an hour later you need to clean the hole colon to get ride of the stuff that come from the small intestines

The enema to cause cramps.

It's a nice buzz when I put a cup or so of wine in the bag. I think it takes about 30 minutes and I don't think I would try it with too much wine. Moderation being the key to enjoying many things for a long time.

I think holding gives one time to savor the "full" sensation. If one just fills, jumps up and expells, then they have this whole "rushed" frame of mind going on.

It may be just me, but when I get the time, and especially when my partner is with me, I want things to slow down and savor the experiance together.

Life is too short to race through the whole thing! I work hard, and want to savor the time for myself and to experiance life.

Holding a medium (1.5L) soap cleanse, I get strong contractions at about 4 minute intervals and massage after each. I can usually make it through 5 or 6 of those cycles before anal spasms send me to the toilet.

Six cycles is a point of pride thing to me. (masochistic ? perhaps, butt I like to think of it as, "job well done."

I hold for about 5 mins and imagine the liquid penetrating the deepest parts of my colon cleaning it out. Then after expulsion I'll look to see what is left in the bowl.... Who doesn't?

For me it's a sense of satisfaction that with every enema I become cleaner an healthier.

Oh yes and a super clean colon makes for a lot of fun ass play with absoluteley no concern for mess or smell.

With a coffee enema I time myself and make sure I hold it for at least twenty minutes. Otherwise with a soapy one, it dictates to me when I must release or burst!

Once I have taken all 3 quarts, I turn over on my stomach with my penis down between my legs. As the urge to expel arises, I engage in coital thrusts. I love the feel of the KB-1 nozzle moving inside me. My breathing becomes real heavy. It's at this point that I fantasize about having a man lying on top of me with his penis in my ass. I would love to feel his weight on my ass as he moves inside me. I hold the enema for 10 minutes before expelling.

All of the above.. The fullness the expeling and the anticipation of expelling

Enema to cause cramps and hold for as long as possible!

I like the holding part of the enema because it's kind of a feeling of accomplishment and when you do it for somebody else, the feeling is even better! Also, the thought of my belly getting swollen is a nice thought for me, adds to the experience.

I like how horny retention makes me! I get my clit off the best when holding! Then all of me burts at once when I orgasm. I vibrate my clit like mad when I retain.

The thing that got me started in the first place...arousal.

G.N.

If its a soapy enema I enjoy the cramps that come from a good strong ivory or Dr Bronners solution. If im holding coffee in I look forward to feeling my liver get firm knowing that its releasing the toxins which I will be flushing out later.

I like feeling the pressure of all that water filling me, and seeing the swell of my belly when it's all inside me.

I like to hear how the enema affects my sub. The discomfort he feels affects me in some very encouraging ways(it makes me hornier). But I don't have him hold him his enemas all that long.

For me the favorite part of my retention is recalling how i felt as a young boy with my mom isisting i continue holding it even when i was so bloated and cramping that i thought i would burst. my mom sounding so sympathetic to my obvious distress but refusing to yield. oh that sense of complete and utter frustration and upset i would feel! ahh i wish i could relive everyone of those humiliating moments now! Please add moms_enemas if you have yahoo messenger.

Because I'm into large anal insertions enemas are more of a prep than a fetish. I don't enjoy any of the retention portion. Expelling is more satisfying and relaxing than trying to hold 2 quarts. Usually a salt solution will help but other than that retention for me, is a necessary chore as opposed to a turn on.

I love trying to hold an enema. Unfortunately i have never been able to hold any enema for more than a few minutes. My record must be holding a coffee enema for like 10 minutes. Usually I can only hold it for about 3-4 minutes. Any tips are welcome...

When my Mom switched me to soap suds from plain water or oil she had my Dad coach me on holding the soapy fluid through multiple contractions. Retaining any enema particularly a "less than large" soap enema is a reminder of my respect for my Dad.

Less than filled with soap, my major contractions are about 4-5 minutes apart. So, the 20-25 minutes of retention (see post #9 below) is time well spent.

The cramps and the fullness, the more the better, i like feeling like theres something big in the are giving me alot of cramps

"The feeling of fullness? The feeling of needing to expel? Painful cramps? Something else? "

All of these! Though I prefer what I'll call "strong urges" rather than "painful cramps.'

Retaining an enemas is not something I do, normally. I normally take 6 quart enemas so this is a little too much to hold onto. I do like the full feeling, however.

Bill

I just lie back and enjoy the cramps and contractions

The fullness of a 3-quart soapy enema held with a double balloon nozzle and seeing my tummy in the shower mirror and wondering how long I really can hold. Like the discomfort building up before expulsion and eject from my fully saluted Johnson.