Humiliation and diapers.

Hi!

My name is Margi and live in Sweden with my husband, who I often dominate in different kinds of ways. Please, are there any other girls in here with submissive husbands, forced or volontarily diapered?

I am quite new to this and need some ideas!

Hugs,

M

Make him were a diaper and a baby outfit someplace public then have him drink so much that he wets make sure it leaks then scold him out loud for all to hear all the way to the bathroom so you can chang his diaper and clothes

I've always found the idea of being forced into using diapers a bit attractive. But, how do you feel you are being forced into something you don't want to do when you know you really want to do it?

If that makes any sense...

That is a good question, and i shall try to answer it. I have experience as an online Mistress, and i have my views on how it SHOULD work.

First of all, a Domme/sub relationship, is a relationship. The Domme and the sub do this with each other because they choose to, and as far as i am concerned, ONLY while they BOTH choose to.

Second, it is kind of like acting, you pretend to resist, pretend you dont want to. Or for some fun, you set it up do do it, in a way you dont want.

And there is always the aspect of setting it up to where that you get something out of not doing it, but being required to hold it too long. So think of this, your Domme will do something for you that you like IF, you can hold it long enough. But of course you will be given lots of water and diuretic beverages to make you wet sooner, and possibly even something to increase the odds of messing. Then when you are certain you have less than like 30 mins, you get to find out you need to make in 2 more hours.

This is honestly not an easy topic to advise and teach, without actually partaking in some way. I learned by doing online. I have worked with a number of those (both men and women) who enjoy the desperation of having to go badly so that is always a part i like to add.

Plus with a D/s relationship there is always the aspect of trust, you have to trust your Domme to stop when you ACTUALLY want to stop. A safe word is used for that. And a safe word is a word that will most likely NOT come up during the session. (like in an episode of Family guy Peter and Lois are starting a little D/s play and Lois says the safety word is banana) Can be any word you know you can remember. Some like to use their fav food or color.

The trust side also comes into play a lot online, like trusting that when you tell a sub to do something online that they actually do it.

I am not sure if this helps any, but atleast i have given you some info that may help.

Laterz Janessa

Put him in super thick diapers you know so thick that he can barely walk,then take him for a walk in a crowded place.

Then there's the ultimate humiliation,you know the one that takes a lot of guts.PUBLIC diaper change.

Having him wear them for an entire week is simple but surely would leave an impression of submissiveness toward you.

Get diapers, lock the bathroom door, when your husband wants to go pee (or else, tell him he has lost free access to the bathroom. After a while he will not be able to hold itand will beg for the key.

Then tell him that has two possibilities, either he wets his pants (or worse), or he can have a diaper. When the pressure is too strong you will see him beg for a diaper. AT that moment he will be all yours, and other games can start.

Next time you have your friends over, call him over to you and when he comes grab him realty quick and pull the back of his diaper open like your checking it and say for all to hear, did you poop your diaper sweetie???? that should make your sub even more dependent on you.

Or better yet, when your entertaining people at your home. grab your sub by the hand and walk out of the room while everyone watches you leave. bring him to his nursery and change his diapers then redress him like it never happend. when you return to your guests have the wet diaper in your hand to throw away in the garbage. yep the people will know lil subby boy had a wet diaper on at that point lol.

should make for a intresting conversation at dessert dont you think? 😳 excuse me (mommys name here) why did you have a wet adult diaper in your hand? well seems lil billy here cant keep his pants or bed dry anymore so i put him back into diapers until he decides to grow up a lil bit !!! 😳 😳 😳 aww lil billy is embaressed about his peepee pants LOL

Well in the diaper fetish world this is probably the easiet to think about sub and dom. does not get much more sub the being fully exposed and vunerable to the dom for whatever comes your way. as far as saying its hard to act like you dont want to wear a diaper, well a dom can make you wear them in public and slightly exposed if you happpen to look close enough.

This is the area where true dominance rides over sub. you are not givin the choice of how thick or how wet or exposed it will be to others . its what the dom wants others to see or hear or smell sniff sniff for that matter.

Like i said a true good dom will make you blush thus making you more dependent on them to care and protect them from others who may not agree with what your doing. such as whena mommy dom protects her sub boy when or if a group of people make life hell for the sub somehwere. she sticks up for them and protects them becuase the sub is under her controll and protection.

the more embaressment and uncomfortable a sub is about diapers the better for the dom. makes the sub more dependent on them for guidance and protection and most importantly for the feeling of being loved . not to mention the dom is the only person that has the sayso to make the wettness or stinkyness go away for them.

Lol dumping a drink like say a pitcher full of beer? aww look babys got yellow peepee showing thru his didees and the patting the diaper to make it a point LOL or better yet a pitcher of frozen drinks aking baby hop all around trying hard to keep from freezin to death and then as us boys know having a diaper change soon after seeing lil willie will be somewhere crawled up in your stomach. this way alll the girls can say aww no wonder mommy got you back in diapers your lil peepee is that of a infants LOL!! yeah i can think of a thousand ways to make it more embaressing ........ and it scares me my mind likes the idea for some reason LMFAO!!!!

I think the best scenario would be too be locked into your highchair escape proof for babys safety LOL. and when the tray is buckled in your able to see the diaper area full exposed under it. then mommy n friends come over for coffe for the day. while your locked into the highchair and paci gagged. so wehn the need to pee happens you got no choice but to let loose while they just happen to be looking right at your diaper. yep lil mamasboy just went peepee in his didee did he ? and the worse part is you cant get out to change it or stop them from looking at your yellow diaper now wich hmmmm seems to have some brown mixed in there for some reason. mommy sticks her head down under the tray and sniffs 😮 ohh my mamasboy made big stinky poppie pants hmmm. now your just stuck until the coffe break is over LOL

This is fun for most into this fetish. the idea of being made to wear diapers in public and use them and have them checked is a exciting idea to most in the diaper fetish. However i also think there are ab's here who just want to be treated like a real baby . no shaming no making fun of, no big deal to wear and use diapers . Just like a real; baby would in life. Does this mean public diaper checks ? Of course it does but the parent also does it discretely lkike real moms do. I wonder how many ab's out there can just let go and bea real baby for their mommies?

And i mean no say so over public outings , clothes to wear bedtime diaper changes . No say so from the baby part. Just eat poop n pee and sleep n play. the real babies life. Not a care who is around when in diapers or if you get chnaged while they watch. or pooping and peeing while they hold you or watch you do it. just lay there and let the adult world go away and into babyland for all to cuddle and care for.

I think i could for a day :-\ not sure but think i could for a day. but after that i would get real bored of doing nothing much without mommie or babaysitter watching my every move like a real paprent would.

Ok but the question still stands who could do it? i mean for real no embaressment from you about your diapers and clothes and all. just looking to mommy or daddy for protection and comfort

In reality things are never as good as in our mind.

There is nothing in the world that gets me more reved up then to think im going to be returned to diapers and use them and be changed by whoever has authority over me. The thought of being returned and made to use diapers and treated like a toddler would be i.e. bathed fed dressed out of this world in my mind. but when it comes down to it i know deep inside i probably couldnt handle the embaressment of being changed by hwoever and made to wear babyish clothes and told when to go to bed and if i am messy or wet the thought of having to wait till someone does it for me. I cant give up that much controll or at least i dont think i could. not sure never tried it yet LOL

For myself, after years of going through therapy which didn't help at all I've come to this conclusion. that any punishment or humiliation,real or imagined for say, pants wettin or bed wetting that involves the use of diapers,cloth or disposable,i guess,depending on era in you grew up in, and plastic pants can be as taking away guilt. You are being punished and.or humiliated for wetting your pants and/or bed and embarrassing your parents andnot for wanting to wear diapers and plastic pants or wanting to a baby/toddler. Thus no guilt, Does any of this make sense, mamsboy?

It makes perfect sense to me thumper. I feel that with all fetishes we have we try to somehow make them as....... hmmm more acceptable in life to others. Such as diapers, I think most want to be incontinent for the sole purpose of being in diapers and having it be accpeted they wear and use them. However if or when the become incontinent they realize its not fun and it actualy sucks to be that way in life and its no longer a fetish, but life now.

Trust me im a inco member here. Although i dont need diapers anymore for being totaly inco i still dribble quite a bit after i urinate, enough so that i need a pad to absordb it. But never and i mean never would i want to go back to needing them 24-7 even though i would love the feeling of them like i did , it was a huge pain in the as to be truthfull. Not to mention a blow to human ego and emotional well being. I felt like a freakin toddler when i used them

24-7 And i mean that. I was depressed and didnt want to leave the house seeing i could be embaressed at any point being out in public. even though i loved the feeling of wearing them all the time . so your point is understood and well taken.

I'm so glad that you understand,mamasboy. That is why my favorite fantasies involve younger women(35-45yrs) and older women(50-60yrs) to shame and tease me or even give me an otk spanking, I love the attention and it also takes away the guilt 😜 😜 😜 😜

I like humiliation in diapers and being controlled but i do it by my self. I wish i could find some one that would like to chat and tell me what to do and what to wear. It would make humiliation in diapers a lot better. I have webcam and camera.

So sexy, unfortunately I dont think that many into sissy baby things are brave enough to meet & play. Hope u find someone ;-)

Hi Margi.....

My wife is also the dominant one in our marriage, and I wear diapers almost all the time at home, and sometimes in public in certain situations. She is a nurse and also loves to give me daily enemas and make me hold them with a butt plug until I have performed my required oral service for her. You should put your husband on a routine program of enemas and required "servicing" for you, because I can guarantee you that this will make him tow the line, as it has for me. If you would ever like to chat about this, please drop me a line.

One of the most humiliating scenarios is simply a short t-shirt and two bulky diapers locked on with a chastity belt. Its tighter between your legs because of the straps but not covered up so its still noisy and uncovered. if its set up well, there isnt much you cant get someone to do because they feel so submitted. The one with the key becomes an effortless Dom with powerful leverage.

I keep my bf in diapers 24/7 now for bedwetting and the control is awesome

I once dated a girl in middle school who wore diapers, and this is what sort of brought me into ABDL. She started doing the "poor me" and guilted me into wearing them to make her feel comfortable.

Crazytrain1

One of the most humiliating scenarios is simply a short t-shirt and two bulky diapers locked on with a chastity belt. Its tighter between your legs because of the straps but not covered up so its still noisy and uncovered. if its set up well, there isnt much you cant get someone to do because they feel so submitted. The one with the key becomes an effortless Dom with powerful leverage.

Perhaps raising the humiliation a notch with an oh so short mini-skirt that does not even leave a hint of imagination as to what is going on down there ! And then that BIG pad

lock anchoring the chastity belt leaving no further doubt as to what is going on here. And since this is now the festive season how about some jingle or sleigh bells placed here

and there - if the crinkly diaper covers aren't making enough noise the bells sure as hells bells will ! Make sure the bells are attached to the locking thumbless mittens so no

motion goes unnoticed and unannounced ! Are we all comfy now ? Good glad you like it and wait till we ring in the New Year !

I've always found being publicly outed in various ways is more humiliating than anything else, especially when someone else outs me. I've outed myself a few times when I told a girl I was interested in, or a saleswoman at a medical supply place when I was buying diapers or rubber pants, and other times, but the worst has been when with my wife, who is somewhat dominant over me, and has told her friends about me in my presence, makes me show my diapers and rubber pants to them when I'm wet, told her mother all about me and had her change me several times, even made me tell her our her daughter when they all moved in. On the other hand, once the genie was out of the bottle, I've been so much freer to go about my life openly wearing diapers and rubber pants with my family and friends. That said, she still manages to find ways to embarrass me, like when she insists on changing me in public restrooms, always the ladies room where the counter is big enough for me to lay on while she unpins my wet diapers, wipes and powders, and pins a fresh diaper on. While she has become amazingly fast at changing me, still there have been times when another girl entered and watched her changing me. I feel like a curiosity in the zoo while a woman I've never seen before watches my wife unpin my diapers and wipe me. My wife typically tells them I wet my diapers again and we'll be out in a minute. But sometimes she gets pissed when I have an erection when she changes me in public and paddles my butt before she finishes pinning my diapers on. She has also changed me at the beach and when we go on day hikes in our local mountains. I admit I enjoy these moments more than I should.

She has also changed me at the beach and when we go on day hikes in our local mountains. I admit I enjoy these moments more than I should.[/quote]

Do enjoy those times as much as you can Lyric -- they sound wonderful! I would love to have a public diaper change by someone I trust. I'm jealous!