Telling my girlfriend about being an AB

I want to tell my girlfriend about being an AB but I'm not sure if she would understand is there any tips for this

This is a tough one, your best bet would probably be straight forward. Discuss it with her, let her know the truth about it to you. how it makes you feel. And if she seems curious, perhaps you could offer to show her what it is like. But be warned, although it could go well (ie. she is ok with it, joins in or is hiding the same secret) it could go pretty badly (ie. she could leave you)

I would say best be is be careful in how you tell her, if there is any part of it she knows about (ie, your diapers, or paci's or such) then perhaps you tell her you want to tell her why you have them.

If she doesnt know about any part of it, then let her know that you have something you want to tell her, and because you love her, you dont want to hide it from her anymore. (at this point she may start thinking of the worst things possible, like maybe you slept with her best friend, or her sister or cousin, or that you may be gay) Then introduce her to the idea of Diaper Lovers, and Adult Babies. Try to educate her, and answer ANY AND ALL questions she has.

Hope this helps.

At times like this, I wished that people were not so cliche. I wish they had their own thoughts, and were respectful in understanding. Often when someone does not approve, or understand someone else, they become afraid and distant.

As advice, I would use different terminology. Do not come outright and say 'I am an Adult Baby'. Ease into a conversation respectfully, and try not to sound nervous, as it will seem you are guilty. Speak to her in a soft tone, and try to explain what it is you like, why you like it, and that it is harmless. Be confident. Explain how your feelings toward this began; make it sound 'common', as it is. Be wary of how she may perceive it. She will understand if you explain it as something normal, and harmless to the both of you, as well as your relationship. Also, maybe even fun, or comforting to her.

Just let your diapers out in the open let her see then you will have to tell her but get a good story like i wet the bed I fell off my bike a few years ago and now I wet

I so much i would love to tell my girlfriend, but she's pretty closed-minded... and I'm also afraid she'll go run her mouth to her friends, her twin, or if we break up for any reason, i'm afraid she'd tell other people just to be rude... now, she's definitely not that kinda person, but the fear is definitely there... ya know?

I had a little box of items. A diaper, plastic pants, a soother, story pamphlets from DPF, articles, pictures from online etc. When I first told her about it, we talked a little bit then I brought the box out and asked her if she wanted to see some of it to get a better idea. I put it on the table in front of us and she opened it and went through it. We talked about what she was looking at, joeked. I tried to keep it casual while explaining and not be pushy about the whole thing.

She held the diaper the whole time runing thumbs on the plastic making it crinkle while we talked 😃

I didnt ask her or even mention her participation in it at all. I just put it out ther and explained that this is what I did, why I did it and if we were going to be an "us" I wanted to let her into my inncer circle of personal secrets.

I will admit though, that I knew she would be accpeting of it before I even brought it up. She had never heard of ADBL or diaper fetishes or adult babies or anything. But she had been passing a lot of little feeler tests along the way and I just "knew" cliche I know but when I met her I knew she was the one for me.

having said that though, I was still careful about how I did it.

I just came out and told my vanilla girlfriends after a while. i would ask if they had any sexual fantasies or desires. and then i would tell her i would love to see her in a diaper.

i think the most important thing is to show them its a part of who you are be open and honest answer all her questions and let her understand and wrap her head around the idea

Well done and said, Pdaddy! I believe in honesty in any aspect of the relationship least of which my likes (read Kinks!) Many of my desires have been incorporated into our sex life. Its great!

When I told my exwife we had been dating about a year. I had one on when I went to her house and simply put her hand on it. She was confused as to what it was at first but it turned her on and she asked me if I had another for her. I didn't but we went to store and got another pack. That was the best thing I ever did. To bad the marriage didn't work and I told my current girl about it and she finds it disgusting needles to say she cannot compleatly keep me happy so I won't be marrying this one

I don't know if its the best way, but after being with my gf for a month-ish (fiance now) i told her i wet the bed sometimes so wore diapers to bed. She was kinda hesitant about that but i made sure she didn't ever have to deal with it, and we got really close, and after several months i felt we where close enough and if i told her the truth she would at first be shocked, which she was. but she would not go with her first idea which was to run. And really think about if it was something she was okay with. And for me she was. I think it worked well for me cause we been together for 4 years now and engaged. But everyone is differnt, but i think it is best to let them get to know you, not just throw it on them, cause since they are not into it (most likely) they could just be not willing to give you a chance.

Guys thnks for the advice, I also am trying to find a way to tell my special him about my different underware.

Jen, when he starts to go there just tell him he is in for a huge surprise that you will tell him all about after he discovers it.

I have a similar problem. My wife knows me as a childlike (happy go lucky and somewhat indecisive) man, but I believe she doesn't see how deep it really is. We have been married for almost 7 years and hiding it has been torture. Any suggestions on "coming out" might save my marriage and my psychological well being. BTW I really only recognized this aspect of my personality a few years ago and wish to exploe it freely. Exploration in all it's forms really excites my little (and yes my big too).

I've tried telling two former girlfriends. Each took it well, we didn't break up the next day, but neither were willing to play along. One I told while rather drunk, making out in bed. She was more open to the idea but got cold feet and never played. The second busted me wearing my wet diaper in bed one morning. She was not supposed to be in town but came home early to surprise me. Surprise it was. A long explanation followed which she understood but was not at all interested.

The best wy to tell a g/f or wife is to si them down and tell them. It is hte best way. Most of the time the abdl will be enjoyable for both sides.

Maybe start by placing a diaper, wipes and powder on the bed before bedtime.

Since I don't have a girlfriend, but telling my good friend of 10 yrs that I wore diapers was not as bad as I thought it was going to be. It took me about a month or so to wear diapers around her. I took a diaper bag with all my supplies to her place. After sitting around and talking for a bit, I asked if I could just go around in a diaper and T-shirt and she had no problems with it. When I needed to be changed she volunteered to change with was awesome. I also did bring up about being a baby after being changed. So the next time we got together she had bottles, baby food, pacifiers, and a couple of toys. So now I'm treated as a baby when we get together.

I realise this is an old post but thought I'd share my story.I was in the courtship of my relationship and we were very honest and open about our previous relationships and I knew she was the one that I could reveal my secret too.In a conversation I told her I liked nappies and plastic pants at that time I was using a bath towel as a nappy.As I remember things nothing more was said until a couple of days later when she asked for more info,where was my nappies and plastic pants as we was now living together on a part time basis and had not come across anything.At this time the internet was just starting out but I had a large collection of the Forum Magazines that had stories and articles on adult babies and nappy wearers.I showed her where I kept the magazines and said to read a few and then asked me any questions.Nothing happened for a few months as we was busy moving and starting a new business when one evening my SO invited me into the bedroom.My SO had been reading the magazines in private and had gone out and brought an adultbaby fancy dress outfit for me.That was the start of a loving relationship I will write more if anyone is interested

Just been on the phone to friend she has MS and has a few bladder problems have given her a couple of disposable panties that I had since my wife died a while back. Told her I get turned on by women in nappies but not about myself in nappies but when we have been together I have been too pissed or she has been do not take advantage of someone. Last time we was in a situation I was sucking on her nipples and realized that it could not go anywhere further she cannot remember the situation, I told her I often fantasize while having a wank about the time. she was happy that I don't need a blue pill to excite myself. But Not sure if it is a blue pill i want or a relationship without medical problems to get my sex life/relationship going. I want someone too look after me but not look after someone else very selfish but their it is. Been drinking

@BBGee you were not only one drinking yesterday lol

This is tricky. I have in the past talked to girls in way to kind of figure out how they feel about diapers. Like tell them that you dressed up one time as an Adult Baby with diapers etc for Halloween …the reaction will usually be the tell tale sign of what they are thinking. This isn't an exact science, but you can sort of gage where her mind is.