Diapered by wife or girlfriend

I have never physically been put in a nappy by my wife but she encouraged me to were them when I became incontinent. She can be quite blunt at times but then so can I. When I first became incontinent I was forever worrying about wetting the bed at night or having a noticeable wet patch in my trousers. I used to get upset about being incontinent and then one day my wife just said "For Gods sake just wear a nappy and get on with your life" I was shocked and then we had a good talk about it. She said it didn't matter to her if I wore nappies and if it meant I got on with life what did it matter. Now I wear 24/7 and have become DL as a result. My wife soon worked out I had started to enjoy being in nappies and told me it wasn't a problem. If it helped me cope with my incontinene and nightly bed-wetting where was the harm.

I don't have a wife or girlfriend. But I do have a very good female friend that does do all my diapering for me. Being a AB/DL I'm always in a diaper when we are together.

My Wife/mummy likes to spank me and put me in nappies and baby pants and treat me like a sissy baby. I love it

My partner diapers me when I ask but other than that it is not done enough of the time wish i could get her onboard more often

My Wife knows and is totaly fine with all of my desires, but doesn't participate. She does however make remarks or jokes (in a playful way, not the bad kind) about my ABDL side.

Here lies the key to our "agreement" (wich sounds realy strange, but couldn't find a better term) on the whole diaper thing: I don't want or crave participation, I just want to feel accepted. If she would play along and wear/change/play baby/etc. It would be to please me, and that would be wrong and unreal. Now it is real and true to her feelings.

The other thing is: It is my fetish and my hobby. And I'm happy it's just mine and I can be as open as I want to be with it around her.

That freedom is worth more to me than a change on frequent basis and would feel selfish to be honest.

Spike

Never been diapered. Not my thing, but would certainly let someone do it (though perhaps not until they had spanked the resistance out of me!)

In the early days of coming to terms with my weird love of Plastic Panties , I tried to involve my wife ,Sadly She didnt want to know , I have made love to her whilst I was wearing my Plastic Pants ,but just pulled down abit ,It was a turn on as I knew my panties were touching her ,but sadly No interest . But I wont push it with her ,She is happy for me to wear them -Possible chance of wetting the bed else .

I am not allowed to change my own nappy

Nope. Not ever. Even when I had a broken leg and my leg was in a case I managed myself. Even when I had a surgery for a broken hip again I managed myself. Don't ask me why. I just prefer to do my own care-taking. The incontinence thing is not a game it is just real life. What is .. IS. She 100% approves and supports me in my dealing with this 'issue'.

My partner diapered me last night, after pushing a lump of saddle soap up my bum, then she put me in plastic pants, then i dressed.

I sat here at my computer for over an hour till i couldnt hold on any longer , untill i shit myself ! it was a pretty messy afair and took a while to clean up, but i enjoy it once in a while.

I do! My wife diapers me primarily on weekends when we are both off. She puts me in diapers and does frequent diaper checks throughout the day. I usually just pee but sometimes she diapers me after an enema before I have had a chance to expel all of it. I hate being forced to make a messy diaper that way.

In general it's my wife who manages my diapers on the weekends, much less the week she makes me manage my diapers myself.This starts on Friday night, I'm only entitled to my cotton diapers and panties plastic, especially I have no right to touch my diaper without permission. It is always she who decides when to change my diaper. At home I have no right to cover my diaper no time, she says that for her it's easier to see when I'm up for change, besides I'm not allowed to sit on the couch where the chairs if there is no a plastic mattress, she makes frequent checks of my diaper throughout the day. As I get up I check if my big baby still pee in his diaper. She have control like that all day long, which annoys me enormously in the long run. I am not allowed to change my diapers, sometimes my wife likes to spank me and keep me in my diapers wet and baby pants for hours and treat me like a baby.

I wish my wife would diaper and change me but she does not. She is very much okay with my bed wetting issues and the choice I made to wear diapers to bed. She is even okay with my AB/DL desires, AB clothes, teddy bear etc and wearing diapers during the day but does not want to participate. We do have a great and loving relationship.

Both my G/F and I wear diapers ,we don't however change each other as its too much like work for either of us ,and honestly that's why we have Aides , technically she could change me ,however she uses a hotter lift and sling for transfers ,I seriously doubt that I could crank it up let alone put her into bed .

I've been with my wife for 18 years. Eighteen nappied years. I was wearing nappies and plastic pants before I met her and when I told her that I wore nappies she burst out laughing and said “Oh! You must show me!” So I took my trowsers down and she could see I was wearing a thick disposable and plastic pants. “Oh you're so CUTE baby” she cried. But we can do better than that. The next day she bought some terry towelling and made me 6 nappies and said “this is what you'll be wearing from now on and I'll change you from now on.” She puts me in nappies now every morning and plastic pants over them and teases me. My name is Kim ("Ohhh a Girl's name", she said, “So you're a Baby Girl! I'll have to get you some cute dresses. It will make changing you easier.” And that is how it has been since. At home I wear a nappy frilled plastic baby pants and a short dress which makes it easy for her to check me to see if I'm wet and chabge me if I need it. Because I work from home I am in nappies 24/7 and she loves teasing me and buying baby things for me. Even small things don't escape her attention - I even have a child's toothbrush and I have lost of dolls and sof toys - but No, I don't sleep in a crib - yet.

I've been with my wife for 18 years. Eighteen nappied years. I was wearing nappies and plastic pants before I met her and when I told her that I wore nappies she burst out laughing and said “Oh! You must show me!” So I took my trowsers down and she could see I was wearing a thick disposable and plastic pants. “Oh you're so CUTE baby” she cried. But we can do better than that. The next day she bought some terry towelling and made me 6 nappies and said “this is what you'll be wearing from now on and I'll change you from now on.” She puts me in nappies now every morning and plastic pants over them and teases me. My name is Kim ("Ohhh a Girl's name", she said, “So you're a Baby Girl! I'll have to get you some cute dresses. It will make changing you easier.” And that is how it has been since. At home I wear a nappy frilled plastic baby pants and a short dress which makes it easy for her to check me to see if I'm wet and chabge me if I need it. Because I work from home I am in nappies 24/7 and she loves teasing me and buying baby things for me. Even small things don't escape her attention - I even have a child's toothbrush and I have lost of dolls and sof toys - but No, I don't sleep in a crib - yet.

Wow!!! I had much the same experience when I met my fiancee ten years ago. I was wearing my cloth prefold diapers and rubber pants. We met at a local restaurant/bar. I saw her, was immediately attracted to her, starting chatting and offered to buy her a drink. When she accepted, I went potty in my diapers I was so excited. So hung together that evening, talking and having a few drinks and then agreed to meet again. We did, talked a few times over the phone before then, and I again wore my cloth diapers and rubber pants. Near the end I told her I had something I wanted her to know about because I wanted to see her again and again. She asked what and I told her I was wearing diapers and rubber pants right now and I had gone potty in them several times during the evening. She asked if I was incontinent and I told her know, I just loved to wear diapers and go potty in them and had since I was a kid and wet my bed. So she laughed at me, and asked if I liked being a naughty baby and if I really thought a pretty girl like her would ever want date a diaper baby. I smiled, said I hope so and she said she wanted to my diapered butt. I did right after I paid the bill and we left the restaurant. She laughed again and told me she'd like to see me again and we did.

@lyric I meet so many people who think there life is over before it started because they need or want diapers or have an injury and need a wheelchair these are notvthe kiss of death or the storied myths of diaper stigma , people overall are more accepting of what makes us unique then they are at ” get away from me “ types , I do a lot of mentoring and skills training with people and they never believe me until I show them , don’t count yourself out till your dead , theres Someone out there for everyone , I have an entire like Rolodex of interabled couples one has a disability the other doesn’t , they love and care for each other just the way any other couple would . It’s not unusual they will defend each other to the death but behind closed doors that light playfully ribbing and teasing gets done , it’s part of being alive enjoy it because eventually we all run out of quarters and the ride stops , love and be loved . I could right a book about life experiences because the truth is stranger than fiction .

@lyric I meet so many people who think there life is over before it started because they need or want diapers or have an injury and need a wheelchair these are notvthe kiss of death or the storied myths of diaper stigma , people overall are more accepting of what makes us unique then they are at ” get away from me “ types , I do a lot of mentoring and skills training with people and they never believe me until I show them , don’t count yourself out till your dead , theres Someone out there for everyone , I have an entire like Rolodex of interabled couples one has a disability the other doesn’t , they love and care for each other just the way any other couple would . It’s not unusual they will defend each other to the death but behind closed doors that light playfully ribbing and teasing gets done , it’s part of being alive enjoy it because eventually we all run out of quarters and the ride stops , love and be loved . I could right a book about life experiences because the truth is stranger than fiction .

I truly wish I had understood what you are saying long ago when I was a young adult pursuing a career and so afraid and ashamed that I loved to wear diapers and rubber pants and wet myself while at the same time being a responsible, mature adult in a very competitive career. I hid my diaper and wetting fetish for so long, felt so lonely and isolated for decades and could only indulge my diapers and wetting in secret and often in somewhat humiliating or embarrassing circumstances. All I wanted was to have a loving relationship with a girl who could understand my needs and be comfortable and supportive and hopefully playful with her diapered guy. But I couldn't do it until my 50's when I decided to throw caution to the wind and meet girls and be totally honest and forthcoming about my secret life. It took awhile, and not without a few bruises but well worth it. Thank god for the internet, and societal changes regarding sexual attitudes, behaviors, openness and acceptance.

I have had local babysitters look after me, but, not someone I was involved with any other way. Though, have read about many situations where this was the case. Actually, a lot. Common situation.

My wife usually puts me in a diaper before she leaves for work. Sometimes I get a spanking first sometimes not. But I'm not allowed to dirty the diaper just wet it. Also a few weeks ago she bought and old chamber pot as I'm going to be potty trained, so I'm told. Time will tell.

Actually, I have been diapered by my wife. About 16 years ago I had hernia surgery and because I lived with it for many years, it was not a simple procedure. When I left the hospital, I was in a pull-up brief. When I got home I could barely walk, and I sat in a recliner for about 2 days. The first night home, my wife helped me to the bathroom and I really did appreciate the help. She had to go to work the next day and asked me how I would be able to manage by myself. I told her I would not drink anything and just hold it all day until she got home and helped me. She said that was foolish and surprisingly asked me if I would mind wearing pull-ups for a few days. I really didn't want to be a bother and she said, “I'll be right back, I'll go to Walgreens". She came back with taped diapers and said they were cheaper and I could put them on laying down. Well, she opened the package and had me lift up and slid one under me. She pulled it up and taped it and said I should be OK. She also put a heavy towel under me on the recliner in case the diaper leaked. I did really liked the attention and told her it was a bit embarrassing. The next morning, she changed the diaper, even though I didn't use it that night. As I said, I did like the attention and kinda pretended It hurt to get up, so she would change me for the next few days. It was fun after all, but being in pain, sexy was the last thing on my mind… After I healed, a few weeks, I felt a bit frisky again and asked her if she wanted to play “hernia nurse”. It didn't go over too well and she just said, “Ahh, your OK now, save the rest of the diapers for when you get old". It was fun while it lasted…

My female friend has lived with me for 9 yrs now. She knew I had bladder issues and needed protection. After a year living together pull ups were not working very well. I went back to the full tape on diaper 8 yrs ago. Since she has always diapered me, and never once complained about it.

My female friend has lived with me for 9 yrs now. She knew I had bladder issues and needed protection. After a year living together pull ups were not working very well. I went back to the full tape on diaper 8 yrs ago. Since she has always diapered me, and never once complained about it.

That was so nice of her to diaper you so soon after you first met. How did she know you needed to be diapered.