Enema Time Signal

Is there a special signal you or your significan other uses to indicate it is enema time?

We were just discussing this the other night. I was in the mood to fill him up, he kept saying "no". Was he playing me to get me to trump him with the Misstress card? I wasn't sure. So I asked him about setting up a "wink" or a "nod" to let me know he wanted to be forced or he just wasn't in the mood. Good thing for him I was persistant because he sure enjoyed having to take one for his Miss.

My boyfriend from the past would tell me in different ways, all ways that were arousing. If we went out dancing and we were dancing slow he would pull me towards his chest and whisper huskily into my ear that I was going to receive an enema as soon as we got home. Other times upon entering his apartment he would have the enema bag or enema can hanging in plain view in the LR telling me that in a little while he was going to insert the nozzle up my back end and fill me up good. That was my cue to go into the bedroom or bathroom (which ever he preferred) and totally undress and position myself for what was to come.

Another time he told me by way of a note to report to his medical office after hours. and that I was to expect a very thorough purging and rectal exam. He was a doctor and had everything at his office. I did love that kind of role playing. it was great harmless but kinky fun. Joe never went over the line. He was always gentle and i trusted him with my mind as well as my body. But there were times i wasn't the mood and he always respected that.

Any submissive has given some part of their control up to the Dominant. They do not control the length of time that they are bound. They do not control the force of the lashings they are to receive. They do not control the amount of anything they are given until it reaches the point that was agreed on by the parties involved. Then and only then do they get some of the control back by saying "stop".

So far most of the signals appear to be verbal. I have had the whispered words before while dancing and it is really a big turn on. Sometimes the signal is an object though. One signal that always means I am going to get an enema is when my roomate leaves the hospital gown on my bed. I know it is role play time and the bag will soon be ready. The anticipation is soooo exciting.

I guess I hadn't thought about the bra and panties setting out to be a clue to his knowing he's in for a cleaning.

MissStress,

From reading your posts I am surprised you didn't have a long list of signals to share. Maybe yours are most all verbal? Isn't there a crop or rope or something like that used as a signal?

My lovely wife & I use a little 'nurse doll' that's holding a bag over her chest with the nozzle held high in the air. Moving her from her quiet place in the closet to the top of the dresser or on the bathroom vanity says to the other "we're ready to have enema fun"!

Walking by that cute little signal all day - maybe not - certainly gets one 'ready'. Watch out for 'wet spots' on your undies!

Fun posts - the last relationship I was in were we were both into giving / receiving - the main signal was the big red 4-quart bag being left out ... getting ready for work and all of a sudden it's out on the dresser ... since we were both switches, we had the whole day to think about the possibilities. Miss those days ...

So far, my 'signal' has been to run around the house in my undies...this usually gets him to look up from the computer screen and ask what I want...

No signals here. I have used the phone call to "confirm a doctors appointment". He was talking with someone else and the immediate response to my voice mail was priceless. It was a very eager "YES".

I just heard on the radio, public radio, that men miss 87% of the "hidden" signals that women send out. Maybe I just need to send lots more signals.

Drgrayson, I had to chuckle as I read your post, the force has always been with you. We used that expression in high school a lot as that movie came out when I was sixteen. However, I never connected it to enema play until now, so it means something totally different now,LOL. So, may the force and the rate and the flow and the retention be with us all. Someone say Amen.

I knew it was enema time because I could smell the solution my mom used to use for the enema. She would boil cumin in water and when it was cool, it was time for the enema.

I simply move the soap from the dish to the sink. No problem if somebody else uses the bathroom in the meantime.

It's fun reading everyone's stories. I wish I had one to add but I haven't brought up enemas with my gf yet. 😢 Ah well, I'm sure one day I can add to this discussion 😃

I especially liked your signal Nicole. I'd love to whisper that to my girlfriend when we're out dancing sometime!

I just get into bed first and lay on my tummy. That signals her its anal play time so I just let her do what every she has in mind. Sometimes its enema time and sometimes its toy time its her call.

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I tell my wife either I have a stomach ache, I need to see the nurse, or I need a treatment.

My wife would simply stand in the bathroom completely naked and complain about being constipated. I would then rub her tummy and ask her if she wanted me to give her an enema.

She would agree and I would proceed to prepare the bag. After that any time she wanted an enema she would complain about being constipated .

LOL Anne. I guess 21st century technology could help... Radio telecommunication re really helpful. However my solo enema sign starts like this. I get the bag, fill it up, hang it at the wardrobe door lay on the bed, lubricate my rectum, lubricate the nozzle and that 's the sign that I am going to get an enema....

Ladies i know normally ask for it...when its my call,i normally raise my voice a little!

MY wife tells me she needs a enema

My wife will tell me she needs sn enema and i will first give her a suppository.Then iwill prepare the enema she gets a bulb syringe.

My husband and I share the belief that the best sex is the most spontaneous! Why ruin it?

My wife will let me know that she needs a "cleanout", which is the cue to set the bag up and start the fun!

Our signals are quite mundane looking text messages.

who eber is first sets the agenda. whats for dinner means what type and what time is the size, you can work it out.

makes work whizz by

My x wife would just mention that she hadn't had a good bowel movement in five or six days.At that point I would ask her if thought she she would feel better if she had an enema.

It's really erotic to have to be explicit, look into my eye and say "Please give me an enema" or "Please clean out my bottom", especially when it's outside of a sexual context, for example, whilst having dinner at a restaurant. Then all the way home she can think about what's going to happen to her.

When its time to see my Enurse, after the preliminaries are over (hugging ,kissing,fondiling), when she has sit on the bed she ask what my desires are as she is standing there in just her panties( which is my signal) all i say, baby or hun my ass is yours do with it what ever you want one thing i really like about her she will not touch my ass till its really cleaned out which usually takes about an hour she really takes her time

How about just asking for one?