Holding an enema and sent shopping as part of bdsm

About 8 months ago I was lucky enough to have an enema given to me while in a bdsm activity and was sent to the grocery store holding 1-quart of coffee and told not to try to release it.

I had to wear very short cutoff jeans and a t-shirt with flipflops so I would be noticed and humilliated.

It took me about 40 minutes to go to the store and get the items on the list I was given and get back.

I almost lost my water/coffee several times before I got back and when I got back I stripped and had to vacuum the house before I was allowed to use the toilet.

Because I had dirtied my shorts a little I was then bound bent over a bench and my butt whipped.

I love this kind of activity once it's all over.

phill in North Georgia

Yes. I know the feeling all too well. Forced enema retention in public places is one of my Dom's favorite sports. Frequently I am given a good sized enema then plugged and taken out to shop or whatever while holding the enema. The plug certainly helps but oh my I get so frantic when the outing is a long one.

I tried it once and luckily I made no mess.

Hi curiousg3, listen to switchablesusie holding a good enema among people outside isn't a joke. To be in a shop without an easy escape to toilette is good for a panic crisis. I can do it now only after long time training with water-glycerin-air mixture close similar to my two labor. A great body control is required. Be careful.

Happy E to all

Lara

For myself, when I am alone, the enema is all about the pleasure. BUT, in an S&M scene it is about both pleasure and pain for the submissive, which can be physical and/or emotional. (Often the pain is physical and the pleasure is emotional.) The enema can be used as punishment or to just be annoying at times, like when I gave my husband a one quart enema and then told him to hold it and get dressed because we were going to the liquor store while staying at a hotel on a trip in NYC. He had to hold it for an hour while we walked around the city. It wasn't a big enema, but he had to be careful not to lose it. An enema can also be good to hold while being spanked. The danger of leaking or worse, spraying during the spanking makes it very exciting. I've been on both ends of the paddle on this, so I know what it's like. Sometimes an enema is part of a reward for being a good submissive. When I have been a good submissive, my husband sometimes gives me a slow warm 2 quart enema with a double balloon rectal catheter and orals me to an orgasm. I get excited just thinking about that. The pleasure and pain of an enema really depends on the technique of the giver as well as your point of view as the receiver.

One particular time, I was restrained while standing in our bathroom, holding an enema, and lost some of it down my legs. (It was my second enema of the evening.) It was messy and smelly, and trust me it isn't funny for the unlucky person it happens to.

Dr X I am told misery loves company. I would love to go shopping or take walks with your boy. But I wouldn't want him to get any special treatments that I didn't receive!

It would be embrassing to make a mess in public oh! But it really sounds fun and turns me on alittle i like enemas so much!

With my ex gf, enemas were reserved for home play (with 2 exceptions that I will describe in separate posts). However, I often made her hold dulcolax suppositories in public. They give the recipient a very strong urge to go within 5 minutes, yet can be held for a long time (30-60 minutes). She'd either get two suppos at home before we went for a walk, or shopping, or to a restaurant. Or I would surprise her with giving her the suppos at all kind of places: at the public beach, in the sauna, in the changing cabin of a department store, and many others. It was a great turn-on for me to know how she was feeling, and that she must not let it show because of all the people around.

One of the 2 occasions when my ex gf got to hold an enema in public was on a lakeshore. There were changing cabins for changing into the swimwear. When she had stripped naked, I bent her over and gave her a soapy 2 quart enema that I had secretly brought with me in a closed top bag. I then made her put on her skimpy bikini which would hardly fit over her extended belly, and we lay in the grass, with other people right next to us. Several times she whispered into my ear that she could not hold the enema any longer, but I had set the holding time to 30 minutes. When the time was up, she expected me to let her go to the toilet, but I pulled her into the lake. We swam a while until we were relatively far away from other people, and I then gave her permission to expel.

Nice. I bet you were excited the whole time too.

An alternative: insert two Dulcolax suppositories very deep and afterwards sent shopping.

😘 I fantasize about this a lot but with a retention nozzle. The worry of an accident would not be exciting for me. Hiding the discomfort hiding the sexual tention is what would be humiliating and erotic. Maybe going to a strip bar or a erotic toy store. My Dom telling the store clerk or waitress about my punishment.

Nice! Though I don't think i could even leave the room after an enema.

YES to have to go to the store retaining a coffee enema with epsom salt does make a strong feeling to expel the enema in my diaper, BUT knowing if I do not retain the enema she will make the cramp from this enema feel like none at all compared to what she has for me if I make a mark in the diaper!

We have done this quite a few times over the years,it started as punishment but has changed to a public part of out play times.I usually get quite a large enema,after being fully cleaned out by other enemas,that can only be held in by a double balloon plug.I think over 4 liters of warm water usually.then I am allowed to dress in a rubber dress ,either long or short depending on our mood then sent out shopping .the shopping could be for anything from food to toys for later. i have to say that I do look somewhat pregnant,about 4 mos I think and I have had several conversations with other girls when I am out about my playing .so far no one is offended and twice I have had new friends come back with me. I do leak a little sometimes but since I'm totally cleaned out before being filled and plugged its clear si its not embarrassing.i do really like the attention I get when I go out like this and have more than once done so with swinger friends,all of us in rubber and filled and plugged.

I do not believe that I would be successful at holding that long. I have a difficult time holding it for even a few minutes. How can I improve on my retention time?

Just if shopping is very near.

What you and your partner do is YOUR business, but having to do a bodily fluid cleanup inside the store is a sanitation issue for the store employees. If you want to do long retention enemas as part of BDSM, that's you, but DON'T put the safety of store employees at risk by going into a store during that time.