Little nervous...

Well, I just joined the forums, and I've had this fantasy in my head for a bit now, ever since a friend got my mind on it, so wanted to see what you all thought of it... I understand if you don't like it, everyone has different tastes!

I'm heavily into BDSM and I've wanted to add enemas to my repertoire. I've wanted to take a sub (male or female, I don't mind either), blindfold them, and make them collect the cum of a series of men - then use that cum as an enema, filling up the sub to the brim.

I don't know if a semen enema would work, but... I dunno. Just sounds really nice to me.

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. . . .I'm heavily into BDSM and I've wanted to add enemas to my repertoire. I've wanted to take a sub (male or female, I don't mind either), blindfold them, and make them collect the cum of a series of men - then use that cum as an enema, filling up the sub to the brim.

I don't know if a semen enema would work, but... I dunno. Just sounds really nice to me.

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It sounds like unsafe, unprotected sex to me.

Well, two things, really...

1) I thought this was a fantasy/dream forum. Aren't there no worries in fantasies? It's just a place to talk about things you would LIKE to do.

2) The thing about BDSM is that it's all very safe when you take a little time to plan things out. The men wouldn't be random; they'd be trusted people, all clean, and all of them would have the sub's consent. But if you'd rather shoot down my post so quickly, well...

[quote author=Lafcadio link=topic=25875.msg246935#msg246935 date=1254314055]

Well, two things, really...

1) I thought this was a fantasy/dream forum. Aren't there no worries in fantasies? It's just a place to talk about things you would LIKE to do.

2) The thing about BDSM is that it's all very safe when you take a little time to plan things out. The men wouldn't be random; they'd be trusted people, all clean, and all of them would have the sub's consent. But if you'd rather shoot down my post so quickly, well...

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Consider it what you will.

"Everyone would be clean and trusted". . . . Who do you think people get STD's and AIDS from? . . . people they DON'T trust?? You are so naive.

I have MUCH more experience in BDSM than you do, (your profile states you are a college student looking for BDSM ideas) and I'm just trying to prevent you from doing something dangerous that you may not have considered, and your post implied that since your fantasy "sounded really nice," and you didn't mention any dangers or qualifications, you would do it..

Like I said, it's a fantasy. I don't understand why I would have to mention danger in something that I'm only fantasizing about. Also, I don't know when saying that, when something sounds nice, I'd do it. Skydiving looks and sounds really nice, but I would never do it.

I understand your concern, I do. It's just a little discomforting to see that someone would make an objection to a fantasy.

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Like I said, it's a fantasy. I don't understand why I would have to mention danger in something that I'm only fantasizing about. Also, I don't know when saying that, when something sounds nice, I'd do it. Skydiving looks and sounds really nice, but I would never do it.

I understand your concern, I do. It's just a little discomforting to see that someone would make an objection to a fantasy.

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You are blowing this out of proportion.

I never objected to your fantasy. I only said your fantasy, which you intimated you might do because it "sounded really nice," was like unsafe, unprotected sex because of a semen enema composed from many donors.

Besides, in your first post (read what you wrote again) you asked "what we all thought of it," so I gave my opinion, and I did it with an objective statement.

[quote author=Lafcadio link=topic=25875.msg246702#msg246702 date=1254200466]

Well, I just joined the forums, and I've had this fantasy in my head for a bit now, ever since a friend got my mind on it, so wanted to see what you all thought of it... I understand if you don't like it, everyone has different tastes!

I'm heavily into BDSM and I've wanted to add enemas to my repertoire. I've wanted to take a sub (male or female, I don't mind either), blindfold them, and make them collect the cum of a series of men - then use that cum as an enema, filling up the sub to the brim.

I don't know if a semen enema would work, but... I dunno. Just sounds really nice to me.

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Obviously, YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND if someone doesn't like your fantasy.

I really don't understand how I blew out of proportion, but, okay.

You are right, I did say that I wanted to know what you all thought of it; the first half of my first reply to you was not needed, I'll admit. I apologize about that. The second half of it was just in response to yours - however, you seem to think that I'm naive. Yes, the people would be clean and trusted. Do you really think I wouldn't go through all the strains, making sure they had tests to see if they were or not? You call me naive, but as someone as heavily into BDSM as you, as you say, you would know that a lot of people in the scene do this. If you go BDSM clubs, the majority of the time you are asked for papers to see if you are clean.

I'll apologize about forgetting I asked you all for your opinion and apologize for my first comment towards you, but the fact that you attacked me and called me naive was, I believe, a little uncalled for as well.

I don't think being called naive is exactly an attack, but if you feel that way, I'm sorry.

I don't have any more to say on this topic.

It's interesting to note that your avatar is similar to Switchablesuzie's, yet you're poles apart on this topic.

We try to emphasize safety on this forum and strive to stay within what's reasonable. There have been some outlandish ideas thrown about with regard to liquids and solids going up the 'bum'. Alcohol has been mentioned many times and now semen. I understand it's only a fantasy and never to be played out for real, but there are some out there that will think it's a novel idea and will have a go at it. They need to be reminded of the dangers and that a negative HIV test yesterday may well show positive a few months from now. Your fantasy would make for interesting reading in an erotic novel of BDSM, but that's where it needs to be kept.

Have you thought of substituting egg whites and milk for the semen. You may get the same shocking effect from the blind-folded sub without the endangerment.

It is a good idea to point out the negatives of fantasies because as einlauf said, someone could read it and make it happen. They may not take into consideration any of the consequences that have been brought up.

I just want to say that Lafcadio and I have PMed each other and we have come to terms and an understanding with one another. 😃