I need your advice - cloth nappies in public

This is the first time for ages I have posted anything as for sometime now my life has been going along very well until this last weekend.

My boyfriend who does share my love of Nappies has suggested that I no longer wear disposable nappies but wear only terry ones instead.

My problem is this. If I go along with his request I will have to wear Palstic Panties as Terry nappies from what I know do not absorb the wee, whereas with my disposable I do not need to wear the plastic panties. My concern is the noise the panties make.

I wear my disposable at work and nobody knows, and I change myself whenever I need to.

But with Terry nappies this will be dificult for me, and my boyfriend likes to be in control of me, so he has said he may take matters into his own hands.

Help me what should I do?

I love my life in nappies as it does make me feel good, but it is private to me and just my sister and boyfriend, but what is he trying to do to me?

Do you think this is love ? A man want to control you, this is not real love. Tell him what you want.

Maybe you two could come to a compromise? Wear disposables to work and terry(cloth) diapers at home with your boyfriend. It could be that he grew up wearing terry diapers and plastic pants when he was baby/toddler and for him to be turned on or to baby you he needs to see you in terry nappies and plastic panties. All I know is that I grew up in the late 40's wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants and when I see women AB's wearing cloth diapers and plastic panties,it brings back memories of myself and looks more cuter and babyish than those yucky looking disposables. This is just my opinion

The right kind of plastic panties make very little noise. Cloth diapers are very comfortable but hard to handle when not at home. That's my take.

I would have to agree with what's been said already. Try and compromise, cloth and plastic pants, but when at work disposables! I love cloth myself, but you need to be practical at times. And yes, there are some very quite plastic panties for sale out there as well. They are not all the same. Try some different pants out for yourself, and see what might work for you.

Kins vinyl pants are very good and don't make allot of noise.

http://www.babykins.com/

Yes Kins Talk to Jenny and no potty talk business only.

Depends if this is "play control" or real control, if your relastionship is under "real control" and thats what you want, you better buck up and listen lol or if its just play make sure he knows that and you love disposables

Terry nappies feels great, when you have wet yourself, you really feel that, which is not always the case with disposables. Start trying it at night, nobody discovers! By the way, plastic pants are not more noisy than disposable diapers!

They are not necessarily more noisy but they take more care to cover up. Do what is right for you honey, you may like to use cloth at home and disposables for away.

Well, according to your post, he just suggested it - you don't have to follow his suggestion. You could get some cloth diapers and try a few different kinds of plastic pants to see if there's a combination you like, but it's really up to you.

Just wear terries and get on with life/u will adjust

I wear terry nappies and plastic pants when out in public and no one has noticed if you use Velcro fastening fitted nappies they are quite easy to change in most public toilets. So go and enjoy wearing your nappies in public

Hi Lincam

Lets put you right about terry towelling nappies - they do adsorb as much as disposables. I use nappy knickers (briefs) with a wide crotch and high waist made from double layer terry. I often wear many knickers at once (sometimes soaker pads too) with good quality plastic pants over them. As for the crinkling and rustling of the plastic pants only a AB or DL will recognise the sound. Yes the noise will draw attention to you. Don't be embarrassed about it - people in the know who hear it will look at you with envy - a girl flouting her protective clothing. And as for you boyfriend - make sure that he hears too. Perhaps say clearly so all can hear - '(boyfriend's name) I need to pee, is it alright to pee my nappy?'

Don't be embarrassed - change the way you think so it becomes sexy and enjoyable to let people know.

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From my experience PUL plastic pants are very quiet if not silent, I have been wearing them for over 7 years now and do not think anyone will have heard me wearing them, unlike my old vinyl plastic pants that were very easily heard and led to a few odd looks now and again ?

While I use cloth nappies together with disposables during the night, wearing cloth nappies during the day would be very nice but the problem is changing them and what you do with the wet bulky heavy and potentially smelly nappy, you would have to carry it around until you got home which could be rather unpleasant especially hot weather.

Cloth diapers and rubber pants have been my go to diapers when I'm away from home and in diapers. That's what I wore when I was a kid and didn't care much if anyone noticed and it's what I wear now. I can't hear any noise from my plastic pants, they do fit fairly tightly over my diapers. No one else has ever told me they heard something that sounded like I was wearing diapers. Over the years, I have had people ask why I was wearing a diaper because of the bulgy look under my trouser, or because I had those tell tale half-moons on my bottom, but only a few times. My wife tells me she doesn't anything suspicious as well. Today's plastic pants come in a variety of materials, with PULS being especially quiet. Wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants away from home does have its challenges, but noise is not one. Changing away from home is the only real difference I can think of. I wear cloth prefolds which are pinned together so doing it myself is more difficult. Much easier if you have a partner to help, but as someone noted, there are cloth diapers with hook and loop rather than pins and putting those on are easier than taped disposables. You do have to bring a diaper bag or something similar both for storing your fresh diapers and storing your soiled diapers once you've changed.

You should only use what makes you comfortable, after all, diapers are about comfort and pleasure.

This raises a question, would we still enjoy our diaper fetish if it was commonplace for people to wear diapers openly? Does anybody have a blue jean fetish, wouldn't that make the fetish lifestyle easy?😎

Just wear plasticpants try to wear noisy ones so everyone will no you wear diapers