Why do Domme women enjoy grabbing my testicles?

In every experience that I have had with a dominant woman, the woman enjoyed grabbing my big low hanging testacles, squeezing them, slapping them, and hitting them with their fingers or a flogger. They also sometimes tied a rope around them and would hold tight onto the rope as I did odd jobs for them around the house. They would yank back on the rope if they didn't like the job that I was doing for them. Why do dominant women like to control a male via his testacles?

What better representation of your maleness than the "boys". The penis has a bad habit of growing and shrinking so it doesn't always do well in bondage.

Come on, MissStress, there is no better guarantee that a penis will shrink, than when the adjacent "boys" are in pain!

What better way to control a man than by controlling his balls?

It's an easy and effective way to control you. >😄 >😄 >😄 >😄

Now wouldn't you follow where ever your balls are dragged? I bet you would.

Low hanging and heavy balls are a tempting target and when held firmly produce instant obedience - at least that has been my experience. I have been controlled by both men and women in this way, and have never failed to enjoy it.

Several years ago I had a girlfriend who was fascinated by my testicles. It did not take her long into our relationship to admit it either. What she loved to do was hold them, especially when we were in bed. She would gently play with them for the most part, but she was not averse to squeezing them enough to just barely register on the threshold of pain. She was so enamored of my testicles that many times we went to sleep with her still holding them in her hand. That resulted sometimes in a very surprising awakening when she startled in her sleep, but for her part she loved to do it, and virtually pleaded with me every night to do so. It is an odd feeling having someone hold your balls all the time like that, and it took me a while to get used to it.

She was not what I would call an overtly dominant woman, but she was quite aware of the subtle power she held, literally, in her hands when she held my testicles, and she would sometimes try to wheedle something out of me as we drifted off to sleep, often successfully. On the other hand, she was no shrinking violet either, and on a few occasions gave me a sqeeze she knew was too hard as a sort of punishment. She did not do that often because she was, I think, fearful of losing her "rights" in that area, but the truth was we both liked the sensation of her holding them. I would often get an erection when she was doing it lightly and then she would start gently stroking and tickling at the same time, a sensation I simply could not refuse.

I asked her once why she was so hooked on holding my balls. She was not sure but she thought it had to do with seeing her mother spank (strap actually) her older brother when he was in his teens. She had seen her do it several times and she did it in a way that provided a view to my girlfriend of his scrotum and testicles hanging down between his legs. She found that fascinating to watch.

I would much rather have mt balls worked on than my shaft.

Having her abuse them quite severely before allowing me to cum is always a huge turn on, much more so than if she just sucks on my shaft.

Andy

I'd have thought pretty obvious why your balls are the centre of attraction

Women who appreciate big, low hanging testicles are to be appreciated themselves for doing so. 😉

While volunteering in a state mental health institution we had an incident were a big strong male patient snapped and became violent. I backed away quickly and let the male attendants try to wrestle him to the ground unsuccessfully. During the confrontation a male doctor ran in and grabbed the patient's testicles and squeezed with some force . The patient calmed down immediately and they were able to get restraints on him while the doc held on to his testicles.

A

Anitaanne, many years ago I took a course in Abnormal Psychology in college. One feature of the course was a trip to the Northhampton State Hospital in Massachusetts. This was a very old "mental" institution, one of several that have now been long closed. It was a depressing but informative field trip, one I have long remembered. It took several hours once we got there and was very thorough. I will never forget it because the place stank of disinfectant and was full of semi-clothed and sometimes nude patients, both men and women (some in the same ward). Many were just staring off into space vacantly. Others were doing weird repetitive movements, over and over again. Some were talking, others quiet, some singing nonsense. A really weird display of deeply troubled humanity.

During the course of Q&A at the end of the tour, a female student asked a senior nurse if she was worried about some of the male patients being so much stronger than she was. The nurse, a fit looking woman in her late 30s or 40s (with a cool and I swear "Nurse Ratchet" demeanor) replied that no, she was not at all worried because there were many male aides on duty, and besides she could always knee or kick the man in his testicles if she had to, or squeeze them to immobilize him. She managed to convey a sense that she had done this many times, that it was almost a routine procedure. Her comment rather stunned me. The girl who asked the question sort of laughed, nervously, as did a few of the other students. But most of the guys did not, as I recall. I think it was the first time in my life that I had heard a woman say something like that, or give the suggestion she would matter-of-factly kick a guy in the balls to subdue him. (This was before women's self-defense programs became popular.) It was just one more thing to make the whole trip eerie and depressing. We left without a shred of doubt that this nurse, and presumably others, used such techniques frequently, and the overall horribleness of the surroundings somehow made it all right.

Bulls can be led calmly by putting a ring through their septum (a nose ring) and leading them by it. They don't want to feel pain while you're tugging, so they follow meekly.

The same goes for men. It's more sense to grab a mans testicles than to put a ring through his nose, and both work equally well, so it's all about leading a man and controlling him through pain.

I always thought there were at least 10 times more men into ball-busting then there are women into ball-busting. I'm more into male on male ballasting but female busting male also turns me on to.

I agree it is a pretty fast and effective way to gain control. Everyone has heard the phrase "Got him by the balls".

@DiaperFiller,

I could not have said that better myself I agree totally!!!

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My slave enjoys me tormenting his balls...he says that through pain he becomes more attentive,obedient and more aware that I am in charge.. I also enjoy it...

Lady RC, why exactly do you like tormenting your slave's balls? Do you feel it is pay back for something, or do you like seeing him squirm, or is it the actually feeling of his testicles in your hand you like so much?

For me - I always want more attention paid to my nuts.

I mean - why rush into things - grabbing the penis, etc.... why not spend some time with the "boys"..... and if this is something that SHE is into, then GREAT!

Its an effective way plus it fun. Most men will respond no matter the mood if you interfear with them

Ee158,

I agree, why rush things? I happen to love playing with his boys. I often play with them just to be playing with them, not with any intentions of turning him on or anything. Sometimes I really enjoy just curling up next to him at night and holding the boys in my hand as I fall asleep. It's sort of like holding on to a teddy bear, they are just as soft, I just can't tuck them up under my chin though, lol.

Mashie

Mashie, you could tuck them under your chin, but he would probably find something of his own to tuck under his.....69.....hehehe.

LOL, very true Miss. Again, and as always, I love the way you think. You naughty girl you.

Mashie

😁 >😄 That's what makes our lives so much fun, most of the time.