How many of you are married and your spouse doesn't know you wear?

I am married and have been wearing since I was eight years old. My wearing is extrememy difficult for me because I do wear in secret. My wife has no idea about my diapers and that is hard for me to live with. However I don't know how to tell her. I am afraid she will overreact and tell others. How do I teel my wife?

If your wife doesn't know about it already, that might be a tough one if you have been married for a long time.

Maybe create a story of a new found love for them and see how she reacts.

Married many years, my wife found out that I was secretly wearing recently. (I was careless with a used diaper)

She does nt understand and won't ever get involved

I am married and my husband likes me in diapers. He buys the plastic panties in nursery prints so I can look like a baby, since I have to dress like a baby! 😜 I wear diapers 24/7.

Married - and my wife knows about my love for them -- but has refuses to play for over 4 years now. Causes a lot of tension if I bring it up. Sad really. It could be fun for both of us if she would just try.

Not married. But my x knows about it, She even participated and enjoyed it a little. Doesnt turn her on but its still fun for her apparently.

My wife not only knows I wear them, as a matter of fact she is the one who applies the A&D as well as the powder before diapering me.....every night now. What she dosn't know is that what started as a solution to keeping the bed dry, has actually turned into something I enjoy. Then I found this site, as I was looking for people with similar issues, and once I started reading I became more comfortable with the situation. Now after seeing pictures of grown women in diapers, I sometimes drop hints that I would do the same for her as she has been such a help for me. So far no luck though, she would rather wake 2-3 times a night to pee than sleep through like myself. She's always there for me though so I will not complain.

When formerly married, my wife/now ex knew and did not have a problem with it.

Ex Wives can be hard on a guy if there were diapers involved. I had a very good friend that had his diaper fetish and even pictures come out in court during a messy divorce. She even had sworn testimony from her girlfriends stating they had on many occasion been called upon to change his diapers.

My wife does not know about my interest in Diapers. I have been slowly trying to get her to a point where she might be open to the Idea. Unfortunately she has a very traditional view of sex and not very open to new Ideas.

Elf, prostate surgery does have its plus side! I had no choice. My separation and divorce was amicable and arranged through a court clerk.