The role enemas play in one's sexuality

Enemas have always ben a very important part of my total sexuality. A little more so in my maturity than when I was young, I think.

But, I really can't think of any time in my life when I was not sexually aroused by enemas. I enjoy giving enemas just about as much as I enjoy getting them.

And you?

For sex only, For health only, For both health and sex ?

I don’t know about U.K. Sorry to disappoint but I’m not British :-) But as far as know, in the Western European countries the mostly used device during the recent decades has been an enameled can, which later was replaced by a plastic one. And nowadays if you go to buy one in the chemistry/pharmacy/drugstore you’ll get n "all in one" the a thin clear plastic bag (1,5 liter/1,5 quart) with integrated hose and nozzle. That's primarily for single use but will last for several usages.

I was speaking about what is easily available to general public.

I find that even with regular sex with my wife, that I still need an occasional enema and sexual release.

Enemas have been an important part of my fantasy sex life since pre-adolescence. I never had the courage to try to involve my wives (I've had 3) in enema activity. Maybe some of them would have stayed with me longer if I had? We'll never know. I managed to connect with an E-dominatrix a few times, which I loved - intensely, but she wasn't in my home town, and I just don't have the funds for regular visits.

I did not grow up with a sexual attachment to enemas; it was always a secondary thing. We were taught that a clean body, clean mind and clean spirit were a basis for everything else. It was later in life that I started masturbating as I wanted larger volumes.

Even now I don't put a lot of sexual attachment to them.

When younger, there was a lot more sexuality attached to taking an enema, but now, with age, am more concerned about the health aspect, but a little sex doesn't hurt.

I loved them from the start played Dr. when youg with girls in naborhood them went solo when I could not get one from Mom Then got married wife would give some times but mostly solo now 60yrs sill getting enemas and loving them

I think today enemas are only used for sexual reasons?

Iiiii2: Sorry, friend, that you're missing out on understanding the health benefits of enemas - which I believe are as significant as the marvelous sexual pleasures! Perhaps just another example of the failures of today's educational system. Hope you'll LEARN AND BENEFIT! 😃

I agree with WIN. It is far more a health thing for me than sexual.

For me both taking enemas and the sexual pleasure I always derive from them are just as important in my sexual life......

For me the health reason is why i kept doing them after my husband introduced them to me. The sexual connection was there from the beging. I love enemas!!!!!!!

I think sex and enemas go hand and hand,only after several years of using enemas did I realize the health benefit.Lets face it healther people have better sex lives.

Everyone has their own oppinon. But me, It started with my folks. They used enemas, for health purposes. I was givin enemas for health reasons. I have a problem with constipation, and I Have used an enema to relieve that problem, on and average of once every two to three weeks. If I use anymore in between, then its for pleasure, and my wife helps me with it. This has been going on now for 50 yrs . I am 64. Jim

HI why dont you use a bag warm water hang it about 18 inchs above you lay on your back turn the wate on slowly relax and injoy it donot rush it Good luck

You know just small enemas, even just for anal sex, is not that good. Besides what you are doing, you should try and take some high volume enemas. Start with warm soapy water, 2 qts, and then at least 1 rinse using a teaspoon of salt, and baking soda, for each qt. It will make you feel better, and make your anal sex more enjoyable........

I agree, the sexual part of enemas is what I understand..I've never been constipated as far as I know, but WOW an enema has sexually aroused me since I was 11 yo.

Enemas are a very important part of my sexuality. I need and crave enemas to be completely fulfilled sexually. I can't remember when an orgasm was more powerful and pleasurable than when an enema was envolved.

For me both taking enemas and the sexual pleasure I always derive from them are just as important in my sexual life......

How did he talk you into trying it out?

I surely agree .my wife gives me a 3 qt enema .while holding we have the greatest sex

I think enemas are part of the sexuality as you can mix good massages with them and hands on skin moving sensually over the skin feels so good and relaxing!You can intergrate sensual massage as the water goes in and let things go where they may! 😘

I was given enemas from such a young age, I associated them with sexual desire before I could understand exactly what that meant.

The effect this has had as I've become an adult is that often, I desire an enema more than I desire sex.

Often, when I was married (to a man who wouldn't let me have anything a nozzle on it in the house), the only way I could climax was to fantasize about being given an enema.

To put this another way - sex is fun, but enemas are better.

As far as the health aspect goes, often I use that as an excuse to take one. I've actually lied about being constipated in order to get one.

So for me, the health aspect is an added bonus. But it does exist. I have more energy when I take enemas on a regular basis. They are good therapy for hangovers, especially if you do one or two without salt or baking soda, just plain water. They cure my headaches (maybe because my headaches are a result of dehydration). They are also great for relieving menstrual cramps. I like to take them very hot, and place the bottle under my abdomen. That way I get heat on my uterus from both inside and out. Finally, they are very, very relaxing. I sometimes take one when I'm upset or stressed out. After two slowly adminstered quarts of warm water and an orgasm, I feel calm, and ready to take a nap. I feel like a million bucks when I wake up.

Finally, to Kat - try yogurt. Frequent enemas can upset the flora in the intestine, and this can cause stomach cramps, diarhea, and a whole host of other nasties. Fortunately this is easy to fix. For most people, eating one standard size cup of yogurt per day or taking Acidophilius tablets is enough to offset this. It's good for us women to eat yogurt anyway. It prevents yeast infections.

Re Anne B, I, too, would lie about being constipated when I was 11ish and a little older.

On the comment about enemas being better than sex. Hmmmmm!

As for me: never!

If a man doesn't really ENJOY everything about making the experience wonderful for his woman (including talking, btw), it cannot be everything it is capable of being for her. That's the key: I love it when she surrenders to her own passion and goes over the edge.

Of, course giving and receiving enemas is great fun as well.

My introduction to enemas was as a pre-teen on an extended stay with my grandparents. Completely non-sexual and not for punishment or anything like that. My grandmother was of the old school that if someone was sick, they should get an enema. The enema bag was always hung up in the bathroom. She was gentle, kind and respected my privacy as much as could be possible with giving an enema.

I found myself really enjoying them. I would pretend to be ill, she would give me one and I would feel better afterward. She then got the idea that a regular enema was needed for preventative reasons - and so I received one twice a week.

Phil

I agree with you sex with enemas is fantastic......i love doing oral to my wife while she is receiving

Many times I like to meditate during an enema session. I enjoy all parts of enemas and experience varied hardness of erections. Orgasms don't always happen during enemas, but are nice when they happen.

Enemas are where it all started.

Raised Catholic, all sex / sensuality was forbidden before marriage. So the strange feelings and erections and cumming that occurred during enemas were all 'OK.'

Oh, yeah... were they ever.

I too find enemas very relaxing and stress releiving, something my spouse doesn't understand and won't try. If I could only get her to let me give her an enema.

I don't think they played a role in sexuality itself. That's mostly innate. As for comfort with my own sexuality, I think it was less the enemas themselves than the way they were approached. Privacy, but not shame or embarrassment. NEVER any scolding, instead simply explaining how much better I will feel afterwards. When sexual situations occurred during an enema, it was normal, natural, and in fact inevitable.

That helped a lot.

A good question. I am a solo enema taker and my wife is grossed out by the thought of enemas, so the chance of enjoying them with her is zip. My enema activities have to be alone, and have to be when she is gone which is very seldom, and never for long enough to enjoy enemas alone. I never take a shower without thinking of great enema sex, and thinking about enemas while masturbating in the shower. So, the answer is that enemas are tightly connected to my enema life even though it is mostly cerebral.