What Constitutes a Good Enema?

Aren't they all good? Some go better than others of course. But a day when the bag went up, the nozzle went in and you warmed your insides beats most any other day in my opinion.

Like many of us here, I like enema's. I like giving them to @sirensong and I like getting them from Sirensong. Taking an enema without my lover's involvement is like masturbation - it feels good, but the ‘magic’ is missing. So, for me, what constitutes a good enema starts and ends with Sirensong. It should be her idea, I'd like to be told that it's coming hours or even days in advance - like an “appointment” so I can savor the anticipation. I want to be teased about it, reminded about my upcoming “appointment” (like I need reminding, lol) - but it is reassuring, fun, and a huge turn-on for me to know that she hasn't forgotten about it and is thinking about it too. It is exciting to see her preparing the chamomile tea for me, for her to “set the stage”, prepare the enema, and hang the bag. I like it when she is sensually administers - lots of touching, teasing, and loving ….. and lately I have been having very nasty fantasies of her being there watching my release and continuing the play in the bathroom (with lots of scented candles). Sometimes an orgasm is wonderful, making the enema the ‘main event’, but often it is erotic foreplay that leads to more lovemaking afterward. I know all of this sounds selfish as hell …… but the reverse is also true, I love doing all of these things for and to her when it is my turn to give. Enema's are a very private present given by lovers to their lovers.

When my husband reluctantly admitted, and I quote, "I should've asked you to do that two days ago." He suddenly felt well enough to get dressed and help me vacuum. That's what I call a good enema!

When my husband reluctantly admitted, and I quote, "I should've asked you to do that two days ago." He suddenly felt well enough to get dressed and help me vacuum. That's what I call a good enema!

A good enema is one that accomplishes the objective. To get a good BM or an orgasm or hopefully both. Some people like harsh crampy enemas and some don't . Find what works and stick with it.

When my husband reluctantly admitted, and I quote, "I should've asked you to do that two days ago." He suddenly felt well enough to get dressed and help me vacuum. That's what I call a good enema!

Wow. That adds to the interesting and pleasant reasons for taking and giving an enema. Stimulation of the desire to do housework! I obviously need a lover or at least housemate to give me more enemas than I’m getting now.

Eric

According to my late Mother-in-law, who was a head nurse, a good enema equals good results. Once when I was recovering from surgery in the hospital where she worked, my surgeon ordered a TWE. My Mother-in-law told her employee nurse, " you better make it soapsuds". My nurse filled the bucket up and added the packet of soap. When she started to give me the enema she said "I'm only going to give you 15 ounces, that should be enough". I told her I could take more and she said "no we're stopping now". She then said you need to hold it for 15 minutes. I thought to myself this is ridiculous, everything I knew about enemas said 1 to 2 quarts was necessary. My mom once told me that even a small enema could start a bowel movement, so I though maybe that was what she was going for. After 15minutes I sat on the toilet and was amazed at the results, I really got cleaned out. So, I guess you can get good results from just 15 ounces of soapy water. By the way when I was given an enema by my Mother-in-law, it was always with the bucket filled to the top, 1.5 quarts, and if I asked her to stop, she always said "you haven't had enough yet", and if I insisted and went to the bathroom, she mixed a new one and made me take it.

For me, at least an excellent enema is when a nice hot four quarts of soapy water rips into me with hardly any sensation. Following this it stays in and roles and groans for a half hour or more. I have time for masturbation, breast play, and vibrator fucking to stir it up. I can often squeeze out an orgasm holding it in. Changing positions is a little swooshy but totally easy from side to back, on my belly,bum in the air then back down and roll around.

Eventually it DEMANDS an exit with no respite bursting forth with a huge burst of wind ejecting the nozzle followed by a dribble of poop water then after seconds or minutes a huge, rapid heavy expulsion that leaves me gasping on the throne or standing leaning against the wall with my arse hole stretched and throbbing. Another strong discharge and tremors follow.

A good enema is similar. Four quarts of hot soapy water that chugs its way in. I fart and drip a bit while filling. Once inside and clamped off I can feel it trying to come out and have to fight it. There is a lot of huffing, puffing, and panting. I can hold it uncomfortably for at least fifteen minutes sometimes longer not by much then have to release it in a hurry. It is usually a strong dirty first discharge followed by cramps and wind then more discharge. My arse hole feels scratched and aches like an un-lubricated bum fucking session or fisting leaves it. The first discharge is of a higher volume and force than an Excellent enema. The later discharges take longer to come and gurgle around inside a lot first. Lots of wind.

A bad enema is the same size 4 quarts of hot soapy water. I have problems putting the nozzle in" tight bottom". Once inserted, sometimes I need help to get it in the urge to poop comes as soon as the flow starts. I fight it often dribbling right to the end of the bag panting and clamping in on the nozzle. Once it is in I have the washing machine feeling and it really feels too uncomfortable to enjoy. I watch the seconds come off the timer to the minimum time often in this case I cannot take even ten minutes or even five. The nozzle begins to be forced out it is a scramble getting off the floor as I start losing the nozzle prematurely. It drops out and there I am clenching on a big wet angry load wanting out. The slightest twitch starts it leaking. Positioning myself I take a deep breath then slowly relax my bum and let it out. It dumps out unpleasantly stinking like a sewer Plop plop fart dribble, plop. My arse hole burns and pulsates sometimes doing a rosebud. Thoroughly unpleasant.

A good or bad enema is always followed by another enema or two for proper flushing out.

You have heard me say before that you can get a perfectly good enema from only a quart or so of warm soapy water, slowly taken, and held for some period of time. A comfortable yet effective enema is what needs to be emphasized. Now I'll answer the question of not what makes a good enema, but what makes a great one. The simple answer is that one my husband gives me more often than not. 😃

What constituted a good enema for me, when I was growing up, was getting a couple of enemas from my teenage aunts at evening bath time. Unlike mom or grandma, they weren’t all business, they liked to play around with us and each other during evening bath time. And quite frankly, my siblings and I enjoyed their playfulness and curiosity.

After grandma taught us personal hygiene as preteens and enemas were our responsibility. Unlike mom or grandma, our aunts didn’t stop giving us enemas once we learned personal hygiene. They’d ask, if we’d like an enema, if they noticed we weren’t feeling good or acting moody. Those enemas were done in private, and I really enjoyed it because they always made me feel better afterwards.

As a preteen then young teenage, it was being given an enema by my sister once I had given her a couple of enemas after school. In Junior High when I was fourteen, my girlfriend and I started giving each other enemas after school during her period each month. We continued this activity until we finished High School.

Once my wife and I got married, it was whenever we combined enemas and sexual intercourse in the same session.

For me a good enema is a nice and soapy (Kirk’s coco castile or J&J) 3 qt. starter followed by at least two more fillups of sea salt and very warm water😍Of course a nice coffee enema with a lovely hold time for my caffeine buzz and happy ending fills the bill😈So I guess a series of bags make a “good “ enema🤪(for me)

When my older daughter, who had been quite sick for the first time with COVID this past Thanksgiving, asked me to give her a cleansing enema to help get the virus out of her system, said to me afterwards, “I love you, mom, I feel amazing.”

P.S. I had no clue where she got the idea that an enema would help rid her system of the virus, but emotionally the fatigue she was having post-COVID just seemed to vanish. The mind can be so mysterious!

A really good enema for me is for the first enema a two quart nice warm soapy enema using a bar of goat milk frankincense and myrrh soap from OHN. It cleans me out extremely well. It’s also great to use it on your skin while bathing. For the second enema I use 1ml of frankincense and 1ml of Myrrh essential oils in two quarts of water. The second enema mixture usually causes my sinus to open up and if I have some congestion in my lungs it clears it up. It also feels very soothing when it’s being absorbed into the colon. This routine for me is very therapeutic for me and it gives me more energy and makes me feel much better overall.

A really good enema for me is for the first enema a two quart nice warm soapy enema using a bar of goat milk frankincense and myrrh soap from OHN. It cleans me out extremely well. It’s also great to use it on your skin while bathing. For the second enema I use 1ml of frankincense and 1ml of Myrrh essential oils in two quarts of water. The second enema mixture usually causes my sinus to open up and if I have some congestion in my lungs it clears it up. It also feels very soothing when it’s being absorbed into the colon. This routine for me is very therapeutic for me and it gives me more energy and makes me feel much better overall.

I've used that soap before and it's VERY GOOD and soothing. 👍

2@quarts ivory or castile soapy water held for five minutes if you cant take or hold repeat in an hour.

As I pondered this issue, and many of the responses, I concluded that just about every enema in my lifetime was a "good enema". If it was given by mom or grandma, it resulted in the BM that was required or desired. If it was an enema given in the hospital by a nurse, or in preparation for a test or procedure, the desired affect was accomplished.

On the other hand, a "very good enema" or "better enema", not only resulted in a very adequate BM, but also brought about some degree of R&R as well as a sense of euphoria. Perhaps it was self administered or given with intentions of elevating a reaction or response in anticipation of additional activities.

The "best enemas" were almost always a shared endeavor with someone who understands all of the intricacies that such an intimate procedure can trigger. The unselfish manipulations and encouragement can provoke some amazing outcums that leaves the recipient in a state seldom realized by other methods.

The good, better, and best enemas have provided a lifetime of satisfactory outcums! Hopefully, everyone gets to experience them at some point.

@emom: You have heard me say before that you can get a perfectly good enema from only a quart or so of warm soapy water, slowly taken, and held for some period of time.

Absolutely. I learned early on that using this technique when giving an enema to my reluctant husband that he was more willing for me to put a tube in his bottom when I didn’t try to fill him up. Enemas can still be very “productive” given slowly with less volume and retained longer so the receiver is comfortable.

Thanks, Emom, you’d make a good nurse.

The one you receive when partnered .

Cleans me out with waves of powerful expulsions but then ends with no dribbles...

One that's crampy and makes you poop your guts out & doesn't stop for 25-20 min

When I was growing up my Mom seemed to believe that a "good enema" was a big hot soapsuds enema held for 5 minutes that cleaned all the waste out of my bowels. On the few occasions that the results didn't satisfy her she would give me a second enema that seemed soapier than the first and she made me hold it for 10 minutes. Those second enemas gave me awful cramps.