Sister in room during boys physical.

Growing up had three brothers and a sister. My sister and I were never examined together. My brothers and I were sometimes examined together and sometimes. The pediatrician I went to required you to undress completely for a physical. If I was with my brothers one of us would undress completely and the others would be fully clothed until it was their turn. After my doctor was finishing up physical my brother would be getting undressed.

We never had a girl in the room during a trip to the doctor. I may have been in the room when my sister was very small, don't remember much though

. I've also read here many times that girls were allowed to help with enemas, never remember that either. I did get conscripted once to hold down a very young sister during an enema and she screamed and kicked the whole time while grandma ran back and forth to the bathroom with a bulb. She loved to give them for sure.

I have no sister and have always been medically examined alone. However, many of my school friends from elementary school had younger sisters. Usually the age difference was 2-3 years. Several of them said that when they went to the examination, it was with their sister.

My sister and had physical exams together. My sister was in bra and panties while I was in my underwear. I would go first normally that they would do the regular stuff then genital exam that was was laying down. Then stand up for hernia check. Then my sister had bra removed for breast exam. Then her genital exam the doctor pulled on underwear down to her ankles, which she then spread her legs so the doc could spread her labia. Then visualize her vaginal opening. That she had no pubic hair. Then an outie vagina.

I had a younger sister but we never got our exams together. It could have been a lot of fun to go together or another boy.

@arttemp Taking your sister’s rectal temperature and vice-versa, that’s the kind of thing I used to wonder about when I was young. I have no sisters, only brothers. As a pubescent teen I was fascinated by my male friends who had sisters, and imagined what intimate things they saw or shared with their sisters, like what they saw in the exam room or at home. I too wonder if your sister thinks back in those intimate moments with you!

This idea also makes me wonder if there’s a double standard in nursing. The idea that a female nurse can walk in a male patient room and administer a suppository, no questions asked. Can a male nurse do the same thing to a female patient? If it’s a trained dispassionate professional, why should the gender matter? I can say that I’ve had two DRE’s and two enemas at a doctor’s office, administered by women, without any chaperone. Though I once had a DRE by a male doctor with a female nurse chaperone. Are the standards set by the hospital or the government? Can someone in the medical profession enlighten me? Or direct me to the appropriate thread?

I posted this in another thread:

I would always be in the exam room with my little sister until I was about 12 years old. The doctor always made me face the wall when her genitals were examined. He never made her look away when my genitals were examined, so I thought that wasn't fair but I never complained. I wish I had refused and pointed out the unfairness because my little sister got to see my penis stretched and measured, my testicles measured, and my foreskin retracted with a clear view from 3 feet away. I knew that the doctor spread her legs and labia based on a reflection but I didn't get to see it.

While I come from a big family, I am the youngest by far. My closest sibling (a sister) is six years older than me. My oldest brother is 17 years older.

That being said, after about age 8 or 9 doctor's visits were rare unless someone was sick or hurt - and sometimes we went to his office/clinic or he came out to the farm.

Before my mom died, she was always present. After, my oldest sister was present until she got married. After that it was either a school physical or an illness or injury that brought the doc.

When I was examined with my sister. She had her underwear on. The doc would pull her underwear down to her ankles. Then she would spread her legs and the doc would spread open her labia. Then would ask her about her period.

For me I had my underwear pulled down to my knees. That then had the hernia exam and testicles checked while laying down.

I was examined with my sister. It was common practice growing up in my generation and nobody really questioned it. There was no such thing as patient modesty and we both witnessed each other's exams. The exams always began in underwear and ended in complete nudity. It was kind of odd and kind of exiting at the same time. The exams occurred yearly, ending when I was 16 and she was 12. After that, we were examined separately.

I have a brother who I was examined with many times. But one time, I think I was 17 and he was 15, we were in the waiting room for physicals. We’d be put in separate rooms. But in the waiting room I saw this girl from high school. She was a year behind me. Her brother was there too and it just looked so much like they were there for physicals. The whole time I wondered if they’d be examined together like my brother and I used to be. I tried to envision their exams which led to a long boner in the exam room before the doc went in. Thankfully that knock on th door made the boner instantly disappear. I also knew two twin girls my age who got examined together at least until they were older.

I saw all 3 of my brothers getting examined but stopped when I turned 7. They also saw me. I have an older brother, a twin brother and a younger brother. They were all in different stages of development and have different personalities and reacted differently to the exam.

That said, I was so relieved when my mom started taking me alone. And from what they have said they were also relieved to not have me in the room, especially my older brother.

No sisters, but my brother and I were often seen together by the pediatrician before the age of six or seven or so. Can't recall much about the exams since they were so long ago!

I don't think I was seen naked by any girls except my cousins when I traveled abroad - somewhat of a different culture regarding child modesty - and they were almost certainly too young to notice, remember or care.

I didn't have a sister, so she never attended one of my doctor's appointments. I did have an older half-sister, and maybe she attended a few times when I was very young. I, on the other hand, never attended one of her visits.

Years later, my aunt accompanied me for a checkup with my cousin. I was 13, she was about 6... I attended her appointment, and she attended mine. I remember the doctor examined her first, but without lowering her underwear. When it was my turn, she quickly checked my penis and testicles, without asking my aunt to move my cousin away...

She was very quick, but she still looked.

This double standard happened to me. I was 6 years older than my sister and our exams would be together. Where I would go first and my sister would be in the room the whole time even during the genital exam that happened at every checkup/physical. But as soon as it was her turn I was told to go to the lobby. Granted I had no interest in seeing my sister naked 🤮 but at the same time I had no privacy until the doctor commented that I had started puberty. Of course the weird part is that once I hit puberty I started to get exams alone without a chaperone or parent or nurse in the room. Granted this was 1996 so times were a little different but still something bad could have happened between me and the doctor and no one would see it.