Girlfriends first enema, need advice (recipes etc.)

Me and my girlfriend really love anal sex. I have been a fan of enemas for quite some time, so I talked to her about it from a cleanliness point of view and then the fun involved in the process itself. I need some advice on how to ease her into the experience and need some good recipes to clean her out. This is what we have discussed and had in mind, please feel free to add your ideas. I have a standard 2qt bag, we talked about cleaning her out entirely first with 2 plain water enemas (any other suggestions) and then 2 milk and honey enemas the last of which she would expel on me and into my mouth. The last enema would be with a funnel and a tube and would be with both her and my piss. Since we are both healthy would it be ok for her to expel the piss enema into me using the funnel again? In general I just want some tips on a recipe that will really clean her out nicely without being too painful so I can enjoy the milk and honey enemas. Thanks all in advance.

You need to be fluid bonded to each other and disease-free. AS far as putting expulsions in your mouth,that would gag me but others may like it. 😶 yuck is all I can say but if you think you'll enjoy having expulsions in your mouth. You are absolutely sure both are free of anything infectious, go for it. But please clean out your mouth thoroughly..... : 😃

Ditto on the Yuck factor. 😮

Me and my girlfriend really love anal sex. I have been a fan of enemas for quite some time, so I talked to her about it from a cleanliness point of view and then the fun involved in the process itself. I need some advice on how to ease her into the experience and need some good recipes to clean her out. This is what we have discussed and had in mind, please feel free to add your ideas. I have a standard 2qt bag, we talked about cleaning her out entirely first with 2 plain water enemas (any other suggestions) and then 2 milk and honey enemas the last of which she would expel on me and into my mouth. The last enema would be with a funnel and a tube and would be with both her and my piss. Since we are both healthy would it be ok for her to expel the piss enema into me using the funnel again? In general I just want some tips on a recipe that will really clean her out nicely without being too painful so I can enjoy the milk and honey enemas. Thanks all in advance.

Ditto on the Yuck factor. 😮

My husband and I are into a lot of things, but that definitely isn't one of them

Has your girlfriend ever had enemas or have you ever given her enemas? I would recommend plain warm water for a novice. As far as the other stuff goes, you'll have to experiment.

Let me give you one basic tenet of S&M: Start slow. Your experiences may not be the same as your fantasy or expectations. It is far better to have not gone too far and wished you had gone farther than to have gone too far and wished you hadn't. Going too far too soon can be detrimental to your relationship.

If this enema session is your GF first,you may want to let her get use to the first couple of enemas.I noticed that you would like to try a lot of differant things,but that might be a little much for the first session.It will take at least four or five enemas to get clear results,by that time your GF may have had enough.Exchanging body fluids is not my cup of tea because of bacteria.See how she reacts to the first few enemas before going crazy with a whole listful.

Be safe and have fun.

Thanks for the tips guys, will take it slow and see how it goes 😃 She said she liked how it sounded and was willing to do it once in a while so I guess I will see 😁 Gonna just concentrate on getting her and me cleaned out thoroughly. Just a few plain water enemas with a little salt? I mainly want to add milk for the visual effects 😃 I do have some pure castile soap I use for washing my clothes, maybe I should try that 😁 Im happy I said something she seems really excited, has her talking dirty. I think shes fantasized about things like this and she just hasnt said anything.

Your still taking a big risk even if she is clean. There are still going to be plenty of bad bacteria in there. IMHO not a good idea. Sir Gerald

What about using her expulsion water to give myself an enema? Would anybody be interested in pictures of her first time?

I would recommend a small filling to show what the sensation is like and ease her into. Each time you play you could do a little more or add something. I wouldn't jump feet first on everything just in case. You might scare her and not get any fun.

That seems reasonable maybe too much too fast and she will pull away from the whole thing. Thanks for the advice 😁

One small step at a time. You are proposing some fairly high risk play, so starting out with a simple cleansing might be safer and lead to more fun.

My fiance introduced me to enemas just a few months ago. He started me with a nice warm water enema, about 2 quarts. I didn't take it all but I've worked my way up to over 3 quarts now and some interesting ingredients. The best is to take it slowly and be very in tune with her.

You are fortunate to have such an open minded girlfriend. Take the advice from the others here and have as much clean safe fun as possible!

I believe that I have finally found an idea on this board that actually grosses me out. Slightly. Past that I have nothing to add to the thread, so just do what the others have said and have fun 😃

I'm not into the expulsion stuff you mentioned, but otherwise it sounds like you have an awesome girlfriend. I'm jealous. 😮

HI all ! i am about to give my gf her first enema i do have some idea of what to do but i would like the opinion of the more experienced members.What about volume , recipe should i try to make it sexual and how ? thanks in advance!!

Modern enema bags, from pharmacies, are typically 1.5 quarts to 2 quarts. That is a safe amount for most adults to take. I suggest you keep to that volume until you know you can safely handle more.

Back in the 1940s & 1950s enema bags typically held 3 quarts of water. Again most adults can handle 3 quarts. But I wouldn't try it until you're sure you can take it. There are safety reasons why modern enema bags are smaller.

How much volume you can take will depend on how big of a person you are (a large man can take more than a petite woman.)

It will also depend on your experience. I was taking 3 quart enemas for decades before I could take 4 quarts. It's kind of like a marathon: you can't just put on sneakers and run 26 miles the first day. You have to work up too it.

In general, as the water flows in you will start to feel tight and uncomfortable. Stop then. Especially if it becomes painful! You don't want to hurt yourself. Most people discover they can take more volume after they've flushed out a few times and sort of stretched their inner muscles a bit.

I also suggest using water that is comfortably warmer than body temperature. Allow the water to squirt against the inside of your wrist. If it is comfortably warm it is OK for a comfortable enema. Warm water will also help you insides to stretch. (Your colon is basically made of protein and protein becomes stretchy when it is warmed. This varies if you are an overweight person: fat does not stretch like protein.)

If you use soap, use something mild like Ivory Soap. Or use a few tablespoons of salt per quart. As a beginner, don't bother with elaborate enema solutions. If you wish to try coffee enemas, be sure the coffee has cooled to about body temperature! Hot coffee, right out of a coffee maker, is way too hot to use safely! (And it will be agonizingly painful!)

Some people like to hold and retain their enemas. You might find that a kitchen timer is handy to measure your retention time.

Many people like to take a series of enemas spaced a reasonable time apart. (Again, a kitchen timer might be helpful.) This will really clean you out. It may also leave you tired. So plan on an afternoon of several enemas over several hours followed by nap time!

Guzzleguzzle Kid

Is she OK with anal play and what is the context of the enema? If it's "playing around" and she likes anal play then definitely make it sexual. If it's for some other reason then it's better to talk it out first instead of surprising her.

If there is a medical reason and she has instructions then best to follow them. If it's for fun then you don't want to go too much or too strong. I'd say go for 1-1.5 quarts of nice warm water, and mix in some salt or baking soda if you want to make it really smooth and comfortable. There's always time to go bigger or stronger later, your goal is to make this an experience she likes. Even if there's only a quart in the bag stop it when she says. Like I said earlier your goal is to make it fun.

If it is sexual then do plenty of foreplay before and a long lube-up session to get her aroused and very ready.

@moliere is spot on with his post here. From the date of the OP, you likely have already done this first enema. If you have not and for the benefit of any others with this same question, I would suggest you read my post here.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=841630

Please forgive me for the shameless plug of my own thread here, but this describes the first enema that I gave to my wife and how I introduced her to it. Now it is something we both enjoy sharing with each other.

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This is an interesting thread and the info is useful for significant others getting their mates into enemas, but the original poster is long gone from zity- account inactive. I don't think any advice for this person is valid anymore.

Sometimes threads outlive their posters.

THE SCENARIO YOU are writing about seems to be very exciting and arousing But this is a big But and I agree with Susie on this go slow This could turn out to be the biggest most traumatic unhealthy and turn off in your life and relationship I would talk and fantasize about this but it takes a special mindset for this I don't think your girlfriend and yourself are ready for this and hopefully you won't subject her to this