Edging

I am an online switch. This week, submissive feels right so I am edging for one of my favorite Femdoms in CA. She has me edging and cumming at the top of every hour for as long as I can keep up the pace. I am filling a glass with cum and when full, I suppose I will either have to drink it or have it flushed into my ass. Either way, I dread it, but right now, it is the thing that keeps me hard.

What size cup and did you accomplish that goal?? If not, hope your Dom took appropriate action, which in my mind she probably did! 😃

I hope she made you drink half and put the other half in your ass!

At 5ml per "load" I'm sure it will take quite a while to accumulate enough to have much of an enema or a drink. I hope you are storing it in a freezer to minimize bacterial growth.

Taking lecithin supplements is claimed to increase semen volume.

Does anyone have any experience with edging (orgasm denial) in connection with enema play? I'm thinking of someone being right on the edge, and using the water rather than stroking as the stimulus.

We use both (water & stroking).

Edging and orgasm denial are very similar activities. Sometimes I will make my husband or he will make me wait before cumming.

I like to have my subjects well restrained and very aroused when I'm in charge.

I masturbate them, and the instant before they achieve an orgasm, I like to leave the room.

There are several sites that deal with edging and orgasm denial. Two that I remember are milovana.com and orgasmdenial. I think there were a few "teases" that dealt with enemas during the fantasies.

I frequently practice edging even with myself. I think I found out what edging was the hard way. I would be right on the bring of orgasming and the phone would ring, or I'd hear what sounded like the front gate open, only to have it be a cat climbing over it. When I would return to what I was doing, the intensity of the final orgasm would be better than if I had orgasmed right away. I have tried pulling back three or four times before letting myself go. I've even pulled away the vibrator or my fingers and discovered that the orgasm was going to happen on its own and it just takes over and everything spasms and pulses. Ahhhh. It's great.

In case anyone is interested, I wrote a tease for milovana, entitled

'Nettle Therapy for Women.'

It is at

http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=5520

I edge in the shower in the morning. We have two shower heads on opposite sides of the shower stall, one is a handheld. I’ll stand with my back to the fixed shower head and take the handheld behind my back and aim it between my legs at my balls. Sometimes a gentle spray, sometimes more intense. Then I alternate between hot and max cold water. I always get a strong erection from the hot water following the cold. Go back and forth between the two for about five minutes. Never masturbate, but the erection remains after I dry off and am getting dressed. While I’d rather my wife edge me in the tugboat, we don’t get in the jacuzzi every day. The shower routine is an alternative for a nice wake up woody!

Love when a man edges me

I have never been intentionally edged by a partner in real life, although I have been left hard & frustrated many times after some fooling around did not go all the way.

HOWEVER, I was once instructed by a Zity member to edge myself and it was the most amazing experience. It has opened my eyes to this art, and makes me want to try it in person.

The instruction was for a full day of intermittent edging. Each hour I was to get myself hard, and then stroke myself for a given amount of time to maintain my erection. I woke up at 7 am and was to stroke for 7 minutes. Then at 8 am stroke for 8 minutes. At 9 am stroke for 9 minutes. The pattern continued all day long. After each stroking session I had to write down where I was, what kind of lube I used, how it felt, and what I was thinking about. If I missed a session for whatever reason I had to catch up at the next possible opportunity, never missing out on the total minutes. I was not to wear any underwear for the day, and when I left the house to run an errand mid day, my leaking precum left quite a wet splotch soaking through my jeans in the front of my thigh. By midnight I was up to 24 minutes of stroking for my last session.

When I was finally allowed to orgasm it was incredibly intense, both in muscle contractions, and in volume of cum. My strongest orgasm ever.

It was very interesting experiencing different sensations throughout the day. Different types of lube, increasing levels of sensitivity, a more and more swollen glans, lots of dripping precum, and a raw tenderness that hovered between pleasure and pain. The good kind of pain.

It was a fantastic adventure, both physically and mentally. I hope someday to experience edging like that again, but with all the additional benefits and intensity of someone manipulating me in person.