Play Doctor vs. Real Doctor

Just Curious.

For me it is much more erotic to play doctor with my partner than going to a real doctor.

To be quite honest at a real doctor there is always that repressed fear that something serious will be found during the exam and for me, that makes the experience very anti-erotic. While I may get hard when playing and I am asked to pull down my underpants for the DRE when it is happening for real there is that subtle thought in the back of my mind that maybe the doctor will find a lump on my prostate. So while I can relive it later and get excited I find it hard to really enjoy the real doctors finger up my rectum when it is actually happening.

Does this happen to others or am I just a hypochondriac.

As much as I like medical scenarios for fantasizing and foreplay, I really don't get turned on at the real doc either. Not so much because I'm worried about health problems, but it's usually uncomfortable (not in a good way), too quick and I feel I need to be paying attention to what's going on and not indulging in distracting thoughts and feelings. My fetish is more about "playing" than the real thing.

This tends to be the way most people react. In fact going to a real doctor tends to be an un-erotic experience. While there are certainly exceptions, by and large, the concept of medical fetish is exactly that, a fetish, and is best suited for the bedrooms, not a medical office....

I think id be more embarrassed with a real doctor

It can be very intense to play doctor with a real doctor

I like both but at this point a "real" doctor is the only kind where I've actually had anything done to me. I'd love to have it happen outside the actual doctor's office or hospital setting so like someone else said, it wouldn't be too fast and I could concentrate on the erotic feelings. I'll take whatever I can get whenever I can get it though including from a real doctor

Very insightful thank mashie 😃

I think a real doctor giving you a physical is very erotic. Unfortunately they are over far too quick though and whenever I have been they are not exactly what you could call a thorough top to toe examination.

Real medical exams have always done it for me 😁 Play and real are much different of course, but even my play exams I prefer to be done in a very realistic way.

Same here, basically. The idea of my wife lubing her fingers is erotic, but the real doc doesn't do it for me...maybe cuz my real doc is a guy. BUT - I got a case of poison ivy a few years back. After the male doc left, he sent in a young nurse who gave me a steroid shot in the butt. She was young - not 'hot', but girl-next-door cute (which is always more appealing to me). When she told me where it was going to go, she was smiling and definitely seemed to be looking forward to it. I asked if I should stand or lie down and she said it didn't matter. I ended up standing, but had I been able to do it again, I would've climbed up on the table. (I do have an ass-injection fetish - giving & receiving.) I pulled my own pants and boxers down to my thighs (which I know isn't necessary) just to make sure she got what she seemed to be looking forward to.

I don't like to go ta a real doctor. But at least two times a year I go to a domina.

I never get aroused during a real doctor's examination. Some of the things he does to me during the exam feel real good to me, but I just won't let myself, but I will re-live it later. After I've had a top to bottom physical, I like to be alone the rest of the day so I can savor that feeling of having had the speculum inside me. If I was unconscious during a speculum exam and woke up somewhere else, I'd know that I'd had one put in. I can just tell for the rest of the day.

I've never had a play exam, but I'd sure like to see how I would react to that.

Playing doctor with my boyfriend is my ultimate fantasy. Sadly, it hasnt happened yet. Going to a real doctor is very uncomfortable for me, because i feel somewhat violated. Since all this is sort of sexual for me, it makes me very uneasy.

Id love to see my boyfriend in a real-life doctor situation, where he was getting a complete and thorough examination, with focus on his heart lungs and abdomen.

I prefer play doctor who knows as a real doctor

I'd prefer to play doctor. Then we can spend our co-pay and other money on sexy toys!

Playing doctor > real doc for me 😁

I'm always afraid of her hearing an abnormal heart sound/murmur, etcetc

For some reason, when I fantasize being thoroughly examined, it's much more exciting than a real doc.

Hshs! Yes, that would be very interesting indeed. A thorough medical auscultation, mmmmmmm

I won't reiterate everything Mashie said [Re : Play Doctor vs. Real Doctor Reply #5 2009.06.06 08:16] but I am in complete agreement with her.

Real exams are real and affect your life. Play exams are play, and only affect your imagination.

Interesting thread!

In my case, when I go to the doctor, it is as if I experience a total suspension of my erotic feelings for the entire time. No doubt this is because I am concerned with legitimate health issues then. I find going to the doctor stressful, and stress is definitely NOT sexy to me.

However, there have been times (not always, but sometimes) when AFTER an exam or procedure was finished and I'm back home, I'll find myself working the basic experience into my erotic fantasies.

I would like to go to gynecologist with my boyfriend and being examined in front of him. he would hold my hand during the examination to encourage me. i think we will do it sometime...

The real doctor is much more exciting to experience. When I play, it is reliving real doctor exams I have had. There is no more exciting/embarrassing feeling than that anxious wait for the command to slip down the underwear to expose the penis. I always shrivel up which adds to the humiliation.

Being in the room before the Dr. or nurse arrives and letting my mind wander while viewing all of the equipment and instruments is about as far as it goes. Once they're in the room, it's all business. The play scenario is a far better experience for me.

I enjoy both, although I would rather examine a patient as a playdoc then be examined by a real one.

I get very turned on in play doctor scenario but not in real situations. I can sometime fantasie about nurses and doctors after real eaams

I agree with patientdownunder. Being at the real Doctor is not exciting for me, just serious. Now, being with a play Doc is totally different...lots and lots of wet fun!

Lady Teddy

I never played doctor - patient game even as a little kid, but anyway i think that real doctor exam in real medical cabinet is much more exciting to experience. The atmosphere and emotions are different.

I am with others that say the real thing is not much of a turn on for me. At my age there is always the risk of finding something wrong. it's the same when my wife has her annual exam. I am totally excited with the idea she is going to be examined but also relieved when we get the all OK from the doctor.Alos like others ..the play exam at home is always fun.

I tend to aree with Cast and those who find real docs the source of fantasies, but are not thrilled the actual exam, itself. If I am at my doc, it is because I am having a checkup, in which case I am hoping he does not find a problem, or because something is wrong, which already has my anxiety level up. On the other hand, the general sights, sounds and smells of any real medical facility conjures up images that I try to reproduce when I am doing a play exam.

I like going to a real doctor only because i find out how they do diferant examinations then i can be more realistic when i play at being the doctor my self as it has to be realistic for me to work.

The main difference between real and play doctors is the reason for visit them.

You allways visit play doctor for the fun. These plays are exciting, agreeably embarrassing and you look forward to the exam.

Real doctors are mostly visited for any health troubles. Then you are sick or have any pain etc, so the visit is rarely a pleasure.

Of course you can look forward to your regular physical, but that is not done too often - at most once a year. And, yes, you could be unpleasantly surprised when the doctor found out a health problem you had not known before...