Fantasy - give and take?

I've had this fantasy for years - mentioned it elsewhere in a reply post.

I am an anal-erotic. Simply put, my fantasy is to "permit" a male lover to have anal sex with me while he's receiving a slow, rather large enema with a dildo-style/penis-shaped nozzle.

Until joining this forum, I never really thought much about being subordinate or dominant. Pleasure is pleasure! Now, after reading other posts and whatnot, in this fantasy, I'm submissive in that I offer myself anally, but on the other hand, isn't there a dominant overtone because the guy must submit to this enema to get what he ostensibly wants?

The idea of submissive or dominant has been part of my thinking for years--just what is it?--and does it really matter if both are feeling good and enjoying?--I've seen the extremes in sub/dom and I just think its something each has to find and decide----

Hello,

Its feels good knowing your not the only one out in this liquid land of pleasure.Thanks for sharing.I think for me being completely relieved of the inner struggle to conform was the greatest break through.Dreams come with fantasizing and fantasizing makes orgasms heightened,wouldn't you agree?The dreams are generally intense,far more so than dry dreams,and whats up with that occasional,I'm on the thrown, out in the middle of a party,or wherever,and you find your baring everything to the world and then the horrific shock of it all hits you and your saying to yourself,now how am I going to go home with out any thing to wear,maybe a loin cloth,toga?Well you say,maybe thats where I belong,what is this give or take?need to go ha ha,happy erotic wet dreams...PS.don't forget your umbrella and latex sheets. robstx robs treatment

I am sure many men on this site would find this very interesting.I have had many women in my life who have controled me, and one of them did this very thing. It was a very great sensation for both. I wish you lived in south Florida so I could relive this erotic event.

My fantasy is receiving an enema as submissive while eithe a mal of female take advange of my cock & face. Would love to have two female fucking me for their pleasure while the enema flows into me. one sitting on my cock riding it until she cums. The other on my face grinding her snatch deep into my mouth pouring her pussy juices over my face as sdshe cums again & again.

The other way would be a three way with two other males one fucking my mouth & tyhe other fucking me with the full enema still deep in my tight ass.

Rick

Is getting an enema dominant or submissive?

Disclaimer! This is roleplay for illustration.

One. Woman says to man "You've been a bad boy! I am going to teach you a lesson you wont soon forget, you need you're fucking guts hosed out!"

Two. Man tells the woman "I'm dirty and you have to give me an enema to clean my filthy ass."

It's all just headspace, I could tie a woman up with denial floss and edge play for an hour with her saying that is she brakes the floss I will not let her reach orgasm. She could brake the restraints at any time, but would she want to? And who is in charge in that scene?

I have given up control to my female partner. have a quick way to be tied spread eagle to the bed and in this position face down with a pillow under my pelvis - been completely helpless to her giving me an enema. she would give it slow and when full pull out the nozzle and insert her finger while telling me not to dare leak. then she would insert a butt plug and walk away for a bit while telling me to hold it. I can't hold long and she knows it so it is quite a torture. she has even held a bucket in place and forced me to expel in front of her into it. prolonged probings follow....

Hmmmm...How about your boyfriend/husband making love to you doggystyle, while he gives you an enema at the same time? Anyone ever tried this?

Hey everyone who has responded to this post so far - thanks! And, thank you for sharing your own ideas and fantasies. That's what I enjoy about this forum...we can all feel free to express ourselves.

Arianna

Just bhaving sex while being full of an enema has a very comploete orgasm. years ago i had a girl friend who loveed enemas as i do and we would both fill up and have sex. my god what an experience

zack

Arianna that sounds like alot of fun. Receiving a very slow enema from a female is exciting.

Yeaqrs ago i made love with my girl friend while both of us were being filled. the sensation of being filled created quite a huge orgasm for both of us

zack

We have played it both ways. She likes it when tied up face down on the bed with her ass in the air. I used a spreader bar on her knees so she is completely open and ready to be filled up.

I fille her with 3 qts then insert a plug. Then slip my throbbing cock into her.

She in turn has tied me in the same manner and then slips underneath to suck my cock while I am still tied and retaining.

I do not think that I can handle both being filled and having sex (as a male) but I certainly believe that the scenario described by you, if exercised gently can be vey pleasurable and enjoyable for both sides. It is however not easy to locate for that purose a female patner. As you well know enemas are an open subject for a very very small number of females. By the way - no need to be tied. This is an extension of the fantasy, or rather a variation.

I am an anal-klysmo-erotic straight man. Simply put, my fantasy is to "permit" my girlfriend to have strap-on sex with me, while I am receiving a slow, enema with a strap-on mounted penis-shaped nozzle...

Giving and taking is what I enjoy most.

Why should one of us only have the fun and when she is in a nurses uniform way cool.

That has been one of my fantasies too. I'vve also fantasized about both of us getting an enema whike in a 69 position or doggy style.

I have the most intense orgasms while getting an enema or ass-fucked. I have even cum from anal stimulation alone. would love to give you that otk freebird