For the women (lesbian issues)

Can any woman give me some ideas how can i approach my older gf in medfet issues, esp. RTs ?

I've only observed one other lesbian on this board besides myself, so I'd be interested to read any responses.

As far as my advice on your question, I think a lot depends on whether you are the submissive partner or not. Do you want your girlfriend to take your rectal temp, or do you want to put a thermometer up into her? I would imagine the latter would be a lot harder to introduce as a brand new subject. Do you know if she is at all anal-erotic?

If you only want to receive, try to start a discussion with her about how you've learned that some people have secret fantasies, have fantasies that excite them in a way that many people would not understand. Gauge her response. Discuss different types of kinks, and see what she says. Gradually work your way around to anal eroticism and see what she says. Finally, confess your secret desire to be penetrated that way with a rectal thermometer. Even if she does not agree to satisfy your fantasy right away, all is not lost. She will now know the true you, understand you better, and perhaps the idea will ferment and come to fruition in the future.

If you want to take your gf's rectal temp, I'd casually mention that you'd accidently stumbled across some reading on the Internet that you found oddly exciting. Give her some erotica from the 'Net or even this site to read. After she does, even if she expresses distaste, ask her to submit to you for your sake. If she is vanilla, you have a chance, but if she is Dominant, you will likely never succeed.

Good luck, and I'd love to hear the details of the encounter.

I only sleep with girls these days so there's at least three of us here!

I think that's good advice from BG4G. You should have a close enough relationship where you can talk about these things and have fun, ask her if she has a fantasy you can help her realise and mention this one to her. It's a pretty minor thing. I can certainly imagine someone being grossed out by real poo/wee stuff, I certainly would be, but a bit of doctors and nurses play (giving or receiving) should be fine. I bet her secret fantasy is wilder than that!

If that's too embarrassing the old 'look what I found on the internet, what do you think of that?' wheeze is always a good one. If they're obviously grossed out then agree that you are too and forget it, but nine times out of ten they'll be a bit interested and know that you are and things will go from there.

I would not consider this just for lesbians as I am Bi and enjoy RTs too (both ways). Another way to approach it is to be discussing medical things and reveal that you like RTs if you do. I did this with a new neighbor who is a nurse.

My biggest surprise was when I went to a clinic that a nurse neighbor works at and recommended (I was new in town). They took my temp rectally. She had made a note in my file for them to use that method. It was a surprise I enjoyed thanks to her. Maybe just relating my experience could start things off right.