Make enema sexual

You've been able to convince him once.....the next time you simply ask again, complaining about terrible constipation, and while receiving your enema just make it so clear that its turning you on, he will make the connection.

I'd like to make enemas more sexual, but I'm don't know how she'll react, so I'm afraid to discuss it openly.

I'd suggest bringing up the subject when he is already sexually aroused. Men are very pliable and open to sexual suggestions when they are all erect and hot to trot. For that matter, so are women when they are highly aroused.

Hugs,

Diane

There are so many reasons to give an enema, you will find one. Isn't the enema itself already stimulating and erotic? It is very appreciated by your partner, when you massage his or her abdomen when the liquid flows in. It feels nice and prevents any cramps. You will notice your partner's arousal during the enema and the massage close to the genitals. Just enlarge the massage area. Maybe a better massage is given during the second enema. Ask your partner how it's going. Continue massaging. You should admit, that it is or was turn on for you on as well. And both of you are in.

My girlfriend had the best idea that realy worked for us. She called me at work, and said she was sick. When I went to her house in the evening she took me to her bed and to my surptise next to her bed was a glass thermometer and two different sizes enema syringe bulbs. She layed down and asked me to check her temperature. We spend a beautiful evening. I still don't know if she was realy sick.........

I've read here: «I couldn't get enough courage to ask him to do it», «I don't know how she'll react, so I'm afraid to discuss it openly» and other similar statements .

Frankly speaking, I can't conceive of how we can decide to share our whole life with a person with whom we don't have one another a TOTAL confidence.

This doesn't mean that the other is obliged to share our liking, however I think he/she has the right to know and the duty to respect them.

Amen ~

I think men are more flexible on this than women. They will do anything when you are naked, especially if there is a chance there will be sex after. So I think the direct approach like experienced by "bigdc" below will probably work. But, from personal experience, not 100% of the time.

On the other hand, a man asking a woman for an enema will likely be labeled "wierd" unless by chance she is also already into it.

No scientific facts, just my opinion.

I think that first we must make a clear distinction between two different groups of people: those who are aware of our fetish and those who don't know anything of it.

In my personal case the first group is made up by my family and my closest friends, the second by strangers and mere acquaintances.

When you want to interact with these latter, I fully share the opinion of Cheryl77177 in the previous post. Instead, when you turn to first group's people, I don't see a valid reason to resort to so intricate tricks.

I must admit I'm quite surprised in reading here that many members who only take solo enemas claim they would rather have an enemate, nevertheless they still keep their fetish hidden even to their wives, husbands and partners.

Maybe I'm wrong, but this seems to me a contradiction.

I have got my boyfriends to give me enemas by being upfront and asking them if they would be willing to help give me n enema and it was always yes.

@Claudia

I can understant what the other guys are saying. My wife used to give me enemas all the time, then all sthe sudden, she quit. Now if I want an enema, I have to do it solo.

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@Claudia I can understant what the other guys are saying. My wife used to give me enemas all the time, then all the sudden, she quit. Now if I want an enema, I have to do it solo.

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Probably I've been misunderstood.

I don't understand only those who have never revealed (and still continue to hide) their fetish even to their wives, husbands, and partners. What can they expect from those who aren't at all aware of their desire?!

Your case is quite different, because you've spoken frankly with your wife since the beginning.

I'd like to ask a woman here to give me one. However, I fear I'd be breaking one of the rules or whatever. It seems like I'll never understand them all and be just hopelessly stuck with self-administered. I would understand being shunned everywhere I go if something was wrong with me or I was ugly, etc. I just don't get it, waaaaa. I need a spanking too LOL.