@Vicki_V said,
Once she gets over the “that’s so gross, I could never do that” phase, she will discover that “the enema” with just a quart or two of warm water can be one of the most beneficial and enjoyable experiences that she can do for herself, physically, and even emotionally.
It didn’t take coffee enemas, for my wife to get turned on to enemas, before we got married. All it took, was for her to share an apartment with my sister for a year. My sister, like my brother and I, was anal erotic and enjoyed enemas from the beginning. Getting enemas from mom, grandma, and our teenage aunts. Who were given the job of doing our evening bath including enemas an occasional spanking. Being closer in age to us than mom, they were both just as curious as we were. So, like us, they explored different ways enemas could give us the good feelings we were looking for. Learning early on, what made enemas pleasurable, like getting a finger buried deep in your rectum for lubrication. Moving the nozzle around as the warm water was flowing or while holding an enema. From the beginning, the girls were open with us. Fostering an environment, whereby, we learned by watching and doing different things with one another. The girls learning from us, and we learned from the girls. Unfortunately, my wife didn’t have anyone to learn from growing up, like we did. She only had herself, using enemas for period cramps and constipation, and nothing else.
A month or two after they started sharing an apartment, my wife came in one evening feeling sick. My sister offered to give her a couple of enemas to help feel better and accepted her offer. During the enemas that evening, my sister used a long-curved douche nozzle. Something that was totally new to my wife, having never received an enema with a douche nozzle. My sister liked using them for a couple of reasons. First, it stayed in place much better, going in really deep, helping to reduce cramps. Second, it felt really good, especially if it was moved around. Something, she routinely did whenever she gave someone an enema. Because she liked moving the nozzle around while the warm water was flowing or as they held it. Needless to say, the slow motion of the nozzle gave my wife her first anal orgasm. Something she’d never experienced. Teaching her about the pleasurable side of enemas and turning her on to them. Afterwards, the girls continued doing enemas together on a routine basis. Once married, my wife and I did more enemas for pleasure, than we did for health reasons.