Creating an enema lover

Have any of you ever given to an enema virgin only to find that person absolutely loved them?

After ten years of marriage to my first wife,I spilled the beans to her about my love of enemas.I invited her to the bathroom to help with my enema,after my enema,I asked if she would like to give it a try,she said yes.I gave her an enema with a funnel and colon tube and we made love as she held the enema.Then she asked,"What took you so long to tell me?

You lucky guy, I asked my wife to help me she said NOOOO WAY

Two bagger, you are a lucky man! It is great that she now loves them with you.

I have had several ex.female lovers who really

liked enemas. one in particular was a readhead

who practically announced when she wanted an enema.my current female lover gets a three quart enema every three weeks with a large three qt. see thru bag.on every monday night when she gets home from work i give her nine 8 oz rubber squeeze bulb enemas in prep for anal sex.sometimes.....life is gooooood!

My first wife said she did not enjoy enemas but she did not mind giving them.

I have home made enema bag, which is big 4 liters, it is 1 gallon. Here in Czech republic is not great enema bag on the market, so I made it alone from big bottle.

Enema lovers - are they born or made? This is a nature/nurture scenario, and you know what I think? Both answers are correct. I believe people can be naturally predisposed to experience pleasure during anal stimulation and enemas. Some learn this early on due to enemas administered during childhood, rectal temps, etc. Others get their interest piqued later in life as they become sexually curious/active, or are required to have an enema for medical reasons. Then there are some that need coaxing, but can "learn" to relax and enjoy the sensations. Are these people "born enema lovers" and they just didn't know it, or were they taught to enjoy enemas? My belief is that it can be both.

Arianna

I think every human is born with nerve endings near the anus (as well as in lots of other places obviously). Some of us cultivate and nurture the anal nerves. Others bring some "moral" junctures to the world and repress this, that, or the other thing. In my own case I am pretty sure I became an enema fan in early childhood, when my mother would administer an enema and, during the expulsion, proclaim "what a good boy" or some such. As she was otherwise abusive or absent emotionally, I guess I made the connection -- if this is what it takes to get good attention, fill 'er up. So I was anally oriented from birth; experiences forged my enema fascination. Still -- more than 65 years later.

No but i would love to and besides that's whats probably going to happen cause i'm usually always the kinkyer side of the couple.

Don't know that you can really create them!

It's like most things sexual, and many things sensual, everybody's a little different, and we're basically born the way we are. It's just a question of understanding what works for you and what doesn't

I don't believe in "acquired taste" in food either, because I could never get it to work!

Certain things are innate!

I gave my boyfriend his first ever enema a couple of years ago before he went for his colonoscopy. It was kinda funny because the first few times I tried to put that nozzle up him he kept arching away from me and clinching his butt cheeks together. I thought I never would get that thing in him. LOL he was so nervous and embarrassed. I guess when he realized that I wasn't going to hurt him, and the fact that the whole process can be very soothing and gentle, he finally got to where he looked forward to it.

I am positive both are true, some born, some converted. I compare it to becoming anally erotic....I have had a couple of girl friends who thought anything to do with their bottom was nasty, dirty, unclean, etc....being a male who Loves females, and especially their bottoms, I began with simple touching, caressing, lots of positive remarks and PATIENCE. Both of these gals were converted and truly preferred to be anally stimulated after only a month or two of "therapy". It isn't a far reach to progress from a finger or a penis in their bottom to a nozzle.

I have to agree with Arianna; anal eroticism can be both innate or a learned behavior. I have given enemas to quite a few of my "play exam patients" and all of them have accepted it as a part of the "doctor's treatment" A number have come back for multiple repeat treatments, and there are a couple who have become regular enema patients. One of my longest term patients (since 2002) came to me with a well developed love of enemas, dating to her childhood experiences. She is fond of multiple enemas, likes to experiment with different solutions, likes my colonic nozzle, is not embarrassed to do tub expulsions (after a few clean outs) and enjoys both regular and anal sex while holding an enema.

Another of my patients (who's lovely bottom was my avatar until the Zity crackdown) likes a couple of enemas prior to some deep anal probing. She also likes figging and spanking. My latest patient was introduced to enemas by a new BF last summer, but they had only used a fleets disposable. She is now learning the joys of good clean out enemas, and larger volume retention coffee enemas, and likes me to "treat" her every other week.

I think the conclusion is that a gentle introduction can unleash anal eroticism in anyone. I do believe that the potential to enjoy anal play is there in everyone, but we are trained from childhood to think of anything to do with the anus to be unclean and embarrassing. Anal enjoyment is not so much a learned behavior as it is an unlearning of that training.

My wife also declined... sigh although in hind sight i was too...robust 😁

That is truly amazing. You are one lucky man. Or your friends is at least. 😁

I agree with Arianna. ---"Enema lovers - are they born or made? This is a nature/nurture scenario, and you know what I think? Both answers are correct."--- I also am convinced that some people can never be converted. If you succeed in converting some one you are very lucky. My wife had such a hate of enemas that there was no way she would even give one. When the doctor ordered one for one of our kids I had to administer it as she would have nothing to do with it. I believe the only enemas she ever received were the ones when the kids were born and I suspect they did not happen with out a lot of kicking and screaming. I am glad I was not there to hear it.

Yea, that is what my wife said too, NO WAY. I never get anal sex either....surprised?

There is a huge stigma attached to this kind of play.By and large I have found women curious about them. The ones who believe it to be disgusting or taboo, don't waste your energy. If it is your s/o then continue solo. Let them bring up the subject when their out of sorts and you're humming along.

Between marriages I found no problem finding the curious ones and satisfying their curiosity.Some of the women remained Emates for some time after our connection was lost.

For some I'm sure it was sexual and others just enjoyed the benefits. I did have one nurse that turned the tables on me first. That was a fun surprise. She is a wonderful person.

I have given two girl friends,but they didnt loved it

To answer Mandy's original question, I have never given an enema to an enema virgin and had that person turn out to be absolutely in love with enema.

That doesn't mean that I don't think it could happen.

As has already been explored by others here, one's attitude towards enema has a very complex base; being tied in many ways to a person's upbringing, what they have been taught about handling their body, how they have been 'treated' for various conditions, as well as their personal physiognomy (did I spell that right?).

I think it IS possible to 'discover' a person's tendency to enjoy enema, but I also believe that it is possible to 'train' a person to enjoy them, provided the basic physical mechanism is operational. When I was being raised, my natural anal sensitivity was enhanced and 'polished' by the enema experience to which I was subjected to the point where I enjoy them, as openly as I dare. The environment was that it was 'normal' for a parent to give them to a child, as many as the parent might feel was necessary. My wife knows my enjoyment, but I haven't shared it elsewhere, except for here, and with the few who have been willing to chat about it with me.

And I believe that it (enema affinity) could be a lot more common than it is, and is not because of the attitudes of parents. People that come out from under the shelter of their childhood covering sometimes discover this for themselves.

I have given enemas to enema virgins - The most important factors are trust and getting the person relaxed and comfortable so they can enjoy thethe enema - Giving it slowly and speaking softly and massaging certain body parts helps - There is usually the concern of not being able to hold it and/or having an accident, which has never happened while I gave a virgin enema

My bf agreed to try it. First i introduced him to rimming than he liked my finger in is ass. Now he as agreed to suppo and enrma as part of role play ! Yheyyyyyyyy

A question regarding women and enemas. My ex- thought that it was just too weird, and didn't want to engage in enema activity at all; which I have always thought was unfortunate. Since the divorce I have not been dating, but if I ever got into another relationship I would love for it to be with a woman interested in e-play. Would anyone like to make an estimate as to the percentage of women they have been with who actually liked, or after trying it liked enemas? I suspect it is very low, but don't know, and am just wondering about this. Thank you for any thoughts.

Over years of dating(I go way back)I found that the occasional women who would leave her douche bag -cartelessly,Im sure-hanging in her shower would be the one that I could get turned on to enemas.I think that once one of us starts to assdociate that warm rubber smell with our nether parts we are lost!

E2e2, I suggest you become a member of the Beth Tyler group at bethtyler.com . They a personals column. I have some friends that met through using that site. They have been together for over 8 yrs now.

I take an enema almost every day since I'm retired. When I see my girlfriend I don't miss it. Still trying to get her in the mood for one, I've been hinting.

Anyone have any success with that?

Similar problem of many on this site. They have spouses, or significant others, who simply aren't into enemas like they are.....me included. Unless you want to take the drastic step of changing relationships, there's probably not a lot you can do, other than simply continue to enjoy enemas solo. Wish I had a better suggestion.

Some people just happen to be erotically stimulated by almost anything anal, and then there are others who have no interest whatsoever. I suppose that if someone enjoys anal stimulation, they could eventually enjoy enemas if they haven't tried them, but if not, then I doubt you are going to change their mind.

First let me say that I have to agree with healthymale.

It is my thought that enema lovers come from basically two worlds. The first is the individual that is attracted to her/his anal sensitivity, via an experience involving their anus, that caused pleasure, an attractive fear and/or embarrassment, or a state of emotional excitement. A simple retal temperature could have started the attraction, with it manifesting itself in other 'play' that involved the anus.

The second person received an enema, more typically as a child, vs. adult, wherein there were attractive feelings associated therewith, an attraction to having their buttocks put on display, the exploration of their anal orifice or rectum, or a plethora of 'things' that could have occurred during an enema that cause the recipient to want to explore more at that age (such as myself), or later in life, for me in my 20s when I threw caution to the wind and slowly started my exploration.