How to get my parents to understand?

When my parents first found out I liked diapers they told me to stop, but I kept doing and they thought was something is wrong about my mental help and want me to go to therapy, what do I do?

I recommend therapy. gp for it talk tosomeone explan it to them. maybe it could help. talking about it to someone relieves pressure. When u get a chance to save money and get your own place....do it and under your OWN roof u can do whatever u want.

There is also the idea that there are far worse things you could be doing, i mean if you are spending money on diapers, you arent spending in alcohol or drugs right, so i say it is harmless, and if it makes you feel good and helps with any stress or anxiety. but then again i am one to talk, i am still trying to figure out how to tell my parents, but hey, your know, now you just need to help them understand why.

Just be honest and tell them the truth. Tell them why you like them and that you have found a community of like minded individuals who you can relate with. I'm sure this is something your parents have never come across before so they aren't going to know that there are others like you and there is nothing mentally wrong with you. I told my mom and all is good. She smacks my butt every once in a while but thats about it.

Why in the world go to (the expense of) therapy because someone else has a problem with what you like? If you have come to terms with this, why should you be the one who has to change his ways? Because that is the unstated goal when someone suggests you go into therapy - change yourself so that you become acceptable to them.

That said, talking about your choice will probably make little difference anyway. You have to admit it is a somewhat less frequently occurring orientation than say for instance being gay - and even still, there are families (and politicians and clergy) who still go into paroxysms of fury and condemnation when someone outs themselves as gay or even when laws and statutes trying to end gay discrimination are voted or suggested. You'd think the end of civilization as we know it is nigh.

So you're not going to have an easy time with this if you really do want to out yourself ...

If your parents are fairly open minded, just sit down and have a heart to heart with them. If they aren't, no matter how much you talk to them, they will refuse to accept diaper wearing as a viable adult behavior.

You could explain this to them: Diaper are a common and healthy way to relief stress, instead of doing drugs or smoking, some people tend to use their brain and turn to something more healthy, and diapers are a way to do that. i have always lived by this one rule to rationalize myself: if they made it for your size and age, it is normal to wear it. this goes over most, if they made for your age group, you are not a baby for wearing it because it is primaraly for babies. also a related thing, people who hang their pants on the lower part of their ass or even down to the ankles as i have seen, this trend started in prison as a code for the person being open for rectal intercourse, however, many who do that, would not like a schlong in their anus

people who hang their pants on the lower part of their ass or even down to the ankles as i have seen, this trend started in prison as a code for the person being open for rectal intercourse, however, many who do that, would not like a schlong in their anus

That is why I laugh at those people(just cause the fact is funny and they don't realize it) and tell them they might want to rethink their life choices.

Other then that Caelos is really smart in her approach to this sudject. It's vary clear and sounds like a reasonable way to deal with with problem. i tell many who don't understand that at least I'm doing thing and not an alcoholic or drug addict.

Many people in life spend too much time worrying about what is right or wrong, what is normal, what is not. And others spend a lot of time trying to tell others what is right or wrong, what is normal, what is not. And then many people do as they damn well please.

I would not be guilt driven if I liked diapers, and really, in the big picture what difference does it make. Everyone in life has kinks and many are fun. My take on all of this is if it hurts none, then what difference does it make.

To pacify things at home, maybe you can work some compromise until you eventually get your own place and then you can do as you want. To me, therapy for this is silly and a waste of time, and only lines the therapist's pockets with money. Believe me, there are far worst things in life. If you like it, do it, but to me you just need some kind of compromise for now. Your parents well might never come to accept it, and often that's just the way it is.

I'm gay and I've had to endure stupid crap in my life, don't let them get to you, as I mentioned, I think you just need to compromise until you eventually get your own place.

Yes i know what your talking about. It is really a blame game in our house, i blame them for treating me distainfully. They say it my fault for not trying. They would be mad if they knew.