Over-stretching losing elasticity

I am fairly new and am concerned repeated stretching the anus,especially with large objects will cause to loose its elasticity, possibly resulting in the inability to control and becoming incontinent. I am more than just concerned!!!

You are over-concerned. Use LOTS of lubricant and proceed slowly as object size is increased. Rotate the objects slightly as you apply inward pressure. Once the object has been inserted, just let it stay there for a while to allow the anal ring to accommodate to the "intrusion."

I can fist my husband up to my elbows and grab onto the bottom of his ribcage from the inside of his transverse colon. A couple of minutes after I withdraw my arm, he can hold any enema I give him without leaking. The key is to build up to large objects slowly over a long period of time.

It is like a gymnast learning to do side to side and front to back splits. You start slowly and ultimately your muscles become pliable and can stretch. If you go too fast, it would be like a novice gymnast trying a split for the first time and having her butt pushed to the floor by the coach--you would end up with torn muscles instead of pliable and nimble ones.

As a general guideline, if you feel some discomfort (NOT PAIN) as you insert an object, that is ok while you are "in training." If you feel a stabbing sharp pain after or when you withdraw the object, you are going too fast. Trust me, you will know if you insert large objects too fast if there is pain going in and it feels worse immediately upon removal!

It is only a problem for those who keep it dialated for prolonged periods. Shorter sessions should be fine unless you really push it to the point of discomfort

The size of the object is less an issue than is using large objects and NOT doing something by way of exercise to maintain the ability to tighten the muscles back up.

Kegel exercises are exactly the thing to do. If you don't do them, then over time with repeated insertions of hands and/or large dildos, butt plugs, etc., you will have problems down the line

Well, I've been stretching it for quite a few years and no problem so far. The best suggestion is to take it slow and easy with lots of lube. The muscles will be just fine.

I've been stretching my ass for over 40 years and I've done no damage. My anus still works as advertised and there's never any leakage.

As Susie says, take it slow and listen to your body. A little discomfort is normal, just like working out any other muscle. Pain is bad. Pain is your body's way of telling you that you're overdoing it. Your body will let you know when you've reached your limit. Respect what your body tells you.

AquaGent (RIP) was totally correct in advising that you should do Kegel exercises after a stretching session. After you finish a session and wipe (or wash) the lube off, just lie down and squeeze your ass as tight as you can and then relax it completely a hundred times or so. It'll maintain the natural condition of your sphincter muscles and, as an added benefit, it feels really good.

Use a lot of lube -- there's no such thing as too much lube in anal play -- and remember to increase the size of your toys in small increments.

Play, stretch and enjoy. It's a great hobby, isn't it?

As far as I know whether intentionally stretching with that as the intention or simple ass-play there's nothing to worry about, I rarely go a week without something going up there but there's been very little change otherwise.

Taking large enemas DOES distend the colon. Sometimes permanently. The first time I ever took a 4-qt enema, the biggest thing I had taken before that was 2-qts. I used the 5-inch "barium" applicator, in Simms, made sure it was pointed at the navel. I took my time, made sure the last of the 2-qt enemas was out, blocked the fear, and made sure to relax. I decided I was only going to stop it if I vomited before I got it all in, or if I leaked from around the valve. Even then it actually hurt! Hurt deeper. Hurt enough that I cried a little! Made sure to stay in position and leave the valve open. It was the most difficult enema I had ever taken. I got through it.

Since then, I have had to use a 3-qt enema to get the same feeling I got before that out of a 2-qt. The good news-a 4-qt no longer hurts. The bad news-I absorb the water I drink much faster. Since I wear a girdle to work, I have to take more frequent pee breaks!

A few years ago I worked at taking as large an object up my anus as I could. I got up a beer bottle. Even then I could take a 2 liter enema and not leak.

I had my kicks with that experience, and now my anus is so tight it hurts to put any thing larger that an inch or so in.

Just use lots of lube, clean, smooth toys (or vegetables) and go slow. Any "hurt" should feel good - don't push it! The thing that will do extreme damage is getting an anal tear. They don't heal well, and if the muscle is damaged, it may not be repairable.

The important thing to remember, is to use plenty of lubricant and always take your time. If it hurts STOP and back off.

It is possible to cause serious injury if you don't follow this simple rule. This is also true with most situations involving your body. There is a reason why mother nature supplied nerves in our body: that is protect us from injury.

Glad I found this - I was wondering about stretching the ol' pooty hole outta shape. That bit about the lube - and the kegel exercises was pretty much what I was thinking, but still I was worried about getting too loose.

This post answered my question - now the only thing I have to worry about is if I don't get salmonella from the cucumber! Just a little suggestion on cucumbers - make sure you put a condom on it, otherwise that green stuff, chlorophyl, can turn the ol cooter green. Yeah - it happened to me. 😉 Just sayin' 😄

I can fist my husband up to my elbows and grab onto the bottom of his ribcage from the inside of his transverse colon. A couple of minutes after I withdraw my arm, he can hold any enema I give him without leaking. The key is to build up to large objects slowly over a long period of time.

I am curious about how this extremely deep fisting works - especially when you are making it past the first part when colon has many twists and turns. do you kind of straighten them out with your arm as you go in? is it not dangerous? also, going so deep so you could grab your husband's ribcage - I wonder what he is feeling when you are doing it to him?

^^^^ Yes, the colon is effectively straightened out. My arm takes an oblique angle from the rectum upward and to the left, from there I can move my forearm right and left inside his abdomen. The location of my hand is visible looking at his abdomen.

I would LOVE to have an x-ray of my arm up his ass but I think I better pass on that!

^^^^ Yes, the colon is effectively straightened out. My arm takes an oblique angle from the rectum upward and to the left, from there I can move my forearm right and left inside his abdomen. The location of my hand is visible looking at his abdomen.

I would LOVE to have an x-ray of my arm up his ass but I think I better pass on that!

Being very serious - is that his left? Would you interfere - breathing and heart?

Is that with your right arm?

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Maybe I should have put these in a PM.

Whenever you are talking about a patient or another person, it is ALWAYS their right or left.

WHEN MY HUSBAND IS ON HIS BACK, which is our favorite position---I use my right hand because I can go up the sigmoid and descending colon (on his left) and tilt my right wrist to MY right which goes towards his right into the transverse colon. If you used your left hand, you couldn't bend your wrist in the direction needed to enter his transverse colon.

IF THE RECEIVER IS ON THEIR KNEES--it is the reverse. You use your left hand when you want to go very far in.

If you're just going in somewhat more than wrist deep to mid-forearm, you can use either hand..

Whenever you are talking about a patient or another person, it is ALWAYS their right or left.

Thank you - the links are a help too.

Yep very informative

I've been stretching my anus, or someone has been stretching it for me, for years and have no problems taking and retaining enemas soon afterwards. As SS and other have stated, the anus is very elastic and will close up again. Play safely (lots of lube and go slowly), have fun and enjoy!

I guess that would depend on how far you stretch in terms of diameter of the stretcher, etc.

Once you get to a certain age ALL your muscles, the arm, the col,on, everywhere lose some elasticity. Usually it's insignificant except in a few exceptional circumstances.

It also takes longer for the colon to return to it's proper shape after a stressful distention.