How to introduce my partner to e-stim?

I have been into Medfetish for a long time, and I have been in a relationship for about 2 years now with a very open minded partner. We have 2 speculums, a couple sounds, and an e-stim device, it is the zeus box I believe, its silver. I have the bands for me, and I have the larger probe for her. I highly enjoy it, but when we tried it together, she found it more painful than joyful. She is now afraid of it. What would be a good way to reintroduce this to her???

Thanks!

Show her how well it works on you 😃 ....and promise to let her use the controls on herself next time....

You might find some good info for women at smartstim!

I am a little afraid of this, and my husband is an electrician. I think that the cardiac or possible cardiac involvement is what scares me. I totally trust him, but, stuff can happen.

BrownCow - No need to be afraid of this treatment. If you use only battery powered TENS units and avoid 'across the heart' attachment there's no danger at all.

Try adhesive conductive pads on the inside of the upper thighs. Experiemnt with different placements.

The clitoral nerve bundle divides behind the outer labia, taking a route through the inner thighs to the anal region and thence to the spinal cord.

My girlfriend and I are going to try it some time

She hasn't tried my ET312 yet. I wish there were more women that had done it. I have to run the controls my self and I don't know where to start with her. Need to here more from the females on the settings to start with.

My wife had the first experience E-Stim with a TENS box + veriprobe and she really enjoyed.

She felt an "itchy - tickling" inside. She had a great orgasm. And oh she was wet. It was a wonderful experience, for her and for me. With ET312 the results are different every time. Sometimes, my wife reaches orgasm, and sometimes not.

Hi, I have a partner that i am with. She is very hesitant at the whole idea of medical procedures and totally against electricity. I would really like to try it but how should I go about getting her to show interest?

I still cannot get her to try electricty since our failed attempt a few months ago. She however will let me on occasion do a gyn exam before sex which is very erotic seeing as I can stimulate her while she is spread open, with her vibrator.

I have read a little about e-stim but am still uncertain. My wife is somewhat conservative sexually although she really enjoys the toys and gets off on oral, both her pussy and her ass. And when she has a few drinks she unwinds and gets a little wild. I would really like to try e-stim and would especially like to try it on her. I always tell her that the biggest turnon for me is watching her enjoying herself and having an orgasm, or two or three...

So, just curious how others have gotten their SO into this.

I think the best way to introduce estim in to a relationship is to ask your partner to use it on you. This way you get to experience been driven and she gets to see that it is not scary, painful (unless you two play that way) or dangerous.

Ask her to drive you when she is not in the mood for sex and don't pester her about trying it herself. Don't pester her about and thank her for helping youget off with it. Eventually she will become curious about it and want to try it herself.

Worked for us.

Could you turn the power down to he lowest and let her be in control? It's best to be honest and ask, tell her how important it is to you.

I would agree that having her using it on you would be a good first step, as you shouldn't make anyone do anything you wouldn't do yourself. Then having her use it herself on a non sexual part of her body, with her controlling the dial will give her confidence to perhaps move on to her sexual organs with you in control. She could nominate a maximum level which you would have to respect. In the end though, not everyone is into everything and if she doesn't like it, then you won't do your relationship any good if you keep trying to push it.