Dominant Wife

My wife likes to be in control. We have found a most pleasurable enema routine.

Whenever she wants to give me an enema (which is quite often), she orders me to get the enema equipment and bring it to her. I am directed to the bathroom where I am required to strip. While I strip she fills the bag with warm, soapy water. She tells me what position to lie in. She usually requests I get on my elbows and knees with my ass in the air.

Congratulations to you and your wife. It sounds like you have found the perfect way to enjoy each other and your kink. Is she a member of one of the sites? Hope to hear more of your adventures.

WOOOOw, an enema and oral sex. I'd be thrilled just to have either one. Butt together (pun intended) You are lucky!

I would love for my wife to give me an enema with a bag and douche nozzle. You're very lucky.

I used to see a lady who would restrain me (on my elbows & knees) and administer a 2 qt. enema with a double-balloon nozzle. Once the flow started, she would slide in front of me so I could lick her as the enema flowed. The rules were that she would clamp the tube as a reward for her orgasm. However, if the bag emptied without her orgasm, she refilled the bag and I had to start over. This assured my focused and enthusiastic efforts to cause that clamp to close!

Never had any accidents, but did have to learn to beg convincingly a few times. Those failures were punished - hydraulically.

I just had my wife give me an enema for the first time (first time from her) and it was very hot and I fucked her hard afterwards and she said my cock seemed harder and bigger.

I was taking an alcohol enema, a very large one, and I got a call from my wife just as I was forcing the sixth liter in. She wanted to talk and I was about to burstbut I held on for several minutes. I had a retension catheter in place and was getting frantic when I orgasamed with it all in me. My wife asked me what I was doing when she realized I was taking an enema and had gone off. She got pissed and hung up. I heard about this for several weeks.

Carl

I would love to have a dominant female to boss me before a enema session, during a enema session and any time she wanted sex from an enema session

Oh yes my wife is always in control of are enema play even when I think I am

she still in charge and I love it. We have been together 31 years and I am lucky to have a wife where she got enemas in her home as a kid and like me she liked them.

I had a gf like that,some of our Enema adventures I look back on quite fondly dispite the way things turned out with us

I can still remember to this day my wife's face when she found out that I had been spanked and given enemas from my mom. It was like the cat that just ate the mouse grin. That evening she made me tell her all about both the spankings and the enemas. I got so hard and she got so wet-it was great. The very next day she took me to the drug store and made me go inside and ask the clerk where the enema bags were, then I had to buy one. She was definitely in control from then on. Unfortunately embarrassing me was her biggest thrill, so sometimes she left the enema bag in the bathroom-in sight where a few people were able to see it. She also had a ping pong paddle that usually stayed on the pillow on our bed where again a few select people saw that as well.

I'm not accepting vegetables from the neighbor's garden ever again..

My wife will occasionally announce that it's about time for me to be thoroughly cleaned-out. She enjoys assuming control and likes me to get all flustered over it, so she'll usually set a time when it will be happening (maybe 2 days later, or so) and make me wait. She explains in great detail exactly how it's going to go so I have something to stew over for a few days.

Usually she'll begin our day with me bent over holding onto the bathroom counter while she teases me with, then deeply inserts 2 or 3 mushy soap sticks. She'll have me retain those for a set amount of time (maybe 1 hour) before she bends me over her knee for a quart of shaken, soapy bulbs. By the end of the day she'll always see to it that I get squeaky clean by having me hold in a big 3-quart hot & soapy enema for at least 10 minutes. (Often there's a special reward for 4 quarts.)

Sometimes she'll insist I get hard and stay hard for most of, if not all of the day. She keeps her wooden hairbrush close by to ensure I'm on my best behavior. (I hate that thing but it does the job.)

Either the men in this post are very lucky or they have an active imagination.If these are real stories the men better do everything to keep the amazing wives mentioned here, I want to trade.

I remember before we got married at a marriage counseling session they said the wife should be a good wife and always be doing as the husband says. When we got home, my wife to be said I would get a good spanking, and I sure did.

Does she still spank you now??

I've not been with a dominant woman, although the idea is sometimes intriguing to me. I just don't like the idea of being tied up and all. But, some lightweight and non-confining may be okay. And I'm certainly not into CBT whatsoever. I'd consider some female domination with the right woman, and perhaps I'd even submit to dildo and strapon play. Who knows, it depends upon the woman and how we click.

I am the dominant one in our household, and my wife gets most of the spankings and enemas. But, at the time of her choosing, I get one spanking (long, hard hairbrushing) and one enema (3 to 3.5 quarts of hot, soapy water, retained for a while) a month. It's a good thing.

I wish my wife would be so agreeable...

Sounds like many lucky posters. I once had a lady like that. She played the dominant enema giver very well.

My wife was brought up in an "enema family". After we married, she would give me a couple enemas each week. She believed that they were necessarily healthful and aided our sex life. She was right because as soon as she mentioned that I was to receive an enema, I became hard and started to ooze pre-cum. To keep the bed clean, she would place a fluffy towel under me and put a condom over my penis. As the enema was started, I was instructed to eat her out. By the time my enema was finished and she had had a good climax, I was allow to enter her. Ejaculating with a full enema inside of me was so pleasurable. After emptying, we would cuddle and she would let me fondle her breasts until asleep.

Gratulation, you're a lucky man!

I once years ago had a Girlfriend that had a very Dominant side when it came to Enemas. She was raised on Enemas and this included Punishment Enemas. When ever I did something she did not like, at the first chance she got, out would come the Enema Bag or Squeez bulb....or both, and the Ivory soap. She would base my misbehavior on how much soapto put in the water...and if I really deserved it she would add Glycerine to the soap. One day at a resturant where the waitresses were all wearing mini skirts. A waitress bent down to pick up a check book and I got an eyefull.

My Girl friend saw me fixated on that sweet butt, gave me the "Look" and I knew I was in trouble...See...the stronger the look, the more soap she would use as punishment. Later that night She came into the bathroom in her underwear Filled up the bag with hot VERY Soapy water and a large basin with Very soapy water and the Squeez bulb. She proceeded to lay me on my back, she had me pull my legs up and inserted the douch nozzle and screezed every drop from that bag into me...Then she started pumping screeze bulb after screez bulb of soapy water into me which of course would have some air in it that went in as well, with a threat that if I leaked at all she would put in the Ivory soap Butt Plug she made and kept handy......This all made her super horny and later we would have some very hot intense sex.....I couldnt complain either. Oh BTW...the situation would reverse if SHE misbehaved.....

Back when we were doing the occasional enema, my wife would once in awhile mention that she was constipated and thought she might need an enema. Needless to say, that was all it took to get me going! My giving her an enema inevitably left both of us highly aroused and led to great mutually satisfying sex.

As much as I wanted, and made my desires known, she never initiated a session in which she took charge and gave me an enema on her terms. I wanted to be completely dominated. When I wanted/needed an enema, I would ask her to give me one. She never refused, but they were pretty matter of fact. At most, she would provide a little extra stimulation by saying naughty things, unnecessary touching and handling of my boy parts, and moving the enema tip around and in and out "to get the flow going." Whether she got aroused or not, she took for granted that she was going to have to take care of my hyper-aroused state. One orgasm and ejaculation was never enough after an enema session.

For a long time after we stopped actually doing enemas, occasionally when she masturbated me, she would heighten my arousal by talking about the very scenario I had so desired but that she had never actually done. That never failed to produce a intense orgasm and powerful ejaculation. It is hard to say why the fantasy and reality never met. She is not a prude or opposed to a little kinky activity, but my particular enema fantasy was never indulged.

Recalling those days makes me think, maybe, an enema or, at least, an enema fantasy and handjob might be just the thing...

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That sounds amazing. I love the thought of using an enema as 'encouragement'. Did she ever vary the solution she used? Presumable some solutions would provide more encouragement than others.