Enemas For a Dominant?

I'm new to enemas this year and have been involved in BDSM for over a year. I understand that enemas are largely for subs due to the humiliation factor, discomfort, etc. But I wanted to ask do dominants ever wish to receive an enema?

YES YES YES!

I'm not going to close the door on the possibility. Would be a way to have a submissive serve you.

Hello and welcome to the site, wynter's_night. What an interesting question.

The simple answer is; yes, Dominants can wish to receive enemas.

The more complex answer is; many of us at this site who assume a Dominant role are ourselves klismos. From that, and given the fact that enemas can be fantastic anal pleasure by and of themselves, it follows that requiring a submissive partner to give their Dominant partner pleasure via an enema works.

What can also be interesting is the discomfort it can cause a submissive to give their Dominant partner a pleasure that they (the submissive) consider to be mostly or wholly an act of submission.

Ahhhhh, the dynamics of the mind and the exploration that can follow.

AG

Good thinking Aqua. Those are points I hadn't even considered for taking an enema. Hmmmm, may have to give it a try again to have him squirm to want what I am getting.

I am usually Domme but I love getting enemas myself. Usually to myself but allow my partner to help sometimes as a treat.

Good thinking Aqua. Those are points I hadn't even considered for taking an enema. Hmmmm, may have to give it a try again to have him squirm to want what I am getting.

My, what a lovely devious mind you have MissStress... No wonder yer so much fun to chat with.

AG

Well sure. D/s is in the mind. Top/bottom is what we do. Is there anything more subservient than a brilliant Top? The best tops listen/see and then respond w/o personal regard. I think that is a very submissive thing to do. And of course, 'laying there taking it all in' focused on the self, aka 'bottoming', can, often does, have exactly ZERO submissive content. The 'olde guarde' says- The best Tops were the best Bottoms.

I say, SWITCH like Chicagoans vote, early, and often. Go Cubs 😃

I am typically Sub to my Dom roomie but we switch roles at times. She likes giving more than receiving but is not sadistic at all. She is a master of getting just the right amount of pain to make it interesting but safe. When she receives she wants to be forced gently and controlled. So I say YES - Doms like enemas too.

In real life I am a dominant who normally does solo with enemas. Yet I would personally enjoy a slow enema session with full body massage. Dominants are strong willed people who are always in control. I think two doms would be like matching two magnets with the same polarity.

The simple answer is Yes, because they enjoy one every now and then.

Yes of course id like an enema, im a dom who likes to spank and cane a sub, and of course pump em full of soapy water, but i too like the feelings of being lubed, colon tube sliding in and being filled, also like the expulsion !!

Interesting question. In the late 80's and early 90's I had an excellent domme who came to my house and gave me a bare-bottom spanking followed by a naked caning over the back of a chair.. I videotaped these sessions. On one occasion when I called to invite her over I told her that I wanted to give her an enema in addition to our usual procedures. She brought her red open-top enema bag and took a goog two-quart enema from me on her hands and knees. The enema was videotaped as well. She was no stranger to the enema.

Enemas are pleasurable to anyone and are free for anyone to enjoy. I consider myself mostly a dom, but like to sub every now and again as well, and I have always enjoyed enemas and find them a great way to relax. Why should such pleasure only be reserved for subs???!!!

Absolutely positively. While I think my sub giving them to me would throw off the whole power thing, I'm a (usually) dom who loves, loves, loves being given enemas!

Well my Dominant was my Foster Aunt. Went to live with her and her husband when I was 5 (this was back in the late 1940s)

They were both very much into enema, but she was the one who always gave me the enema.

A big woman. Quite pleasent, but she changed when it was enema time for me. Dominant, firm and no nonsense. She was the adult in control of the enema and, as I soon found out, my bowels. Bottom line (no pun intended) "You WILL take your enema"!

I will be giving my new owner, Mistress, many regular enemas, she is very strict with me about that.

I feel very special that I am her new Enema Nurse.

We are going to have suck wonderful times!

Yes, yes, yes. I'm a lifelong straight male switch, but I also have a very strong predilection for craving enemas given to me by my Domme ex-GF since I love enemas but they're made even more satisfying when I receive them as a sub. My ex-wife was a switch who loved enjoying all my kinks including giving me enemas. She also revealed to me after marriage after giving me enemas for a few months that it was also her fondest most secret sexual desire or kink for me to give her enemas with her as the sub. We really enjoyed trading D/s enemas mixed in with all our other kinks. No reason why a Dominant can't enjoy some of the kinks that their sub enjoys also.

Eric

Yes I'm usually when I give a sub an enema it's in the shower together and we both clean out.

Although I enjoy enemas myself I have never let anyone else give me one and it will probably remain the case!