Is med fet recognised by the media

Over recent years I have very rarely, if ever, seen med fet mentioned on any of the late night TV sex shows. Last night I did a catch a short spot on an old Sexectra which showed a play clinic somewhere in, I think, California, which rather made our interest look silly, except for the girl presenter. She was wearing white underwear and would have made a great patient. Has any one every seen any good or accurate med play coverage?

I know medfet has been mentioned in a documentary on sexual practices on HBO, though I cannot recall the name of the documentary.

Here in Belgium in the media said nothing. sex in general, not much in the media so med fet not

😜 Maybe our med fet isnt WILD or WEIRD enough for the media LOL ;-)

Never, but I dont watch all that much TV, I think it is a terrible waste of time in most cases.

Hmmmm, perhaps there is not that much recognition that "medfet" is much more than dressing up in a nurses uniform and giving a bed bath which turns into sex. Certainly there is limited porn available and it is often merged either into mainstream porn, with the medfet as a "token gesture" or into BDSM stuff - may be that's why there doesn't seem to be such on awareness in the media.

On the other hand any serious documentary would potentially be opening a can of worms as they would inevitably have to try to involve actual health professionals who were interested. Even anonymised, they would have to be very brave individuals. Even if the professionals involved stated their very clear separation between play and professional life I would guess that it could be a bit scary for the average member of the general public, who needs to have absolute confidence in the integrity of their nurse/doctor.

The short answer, Hugh, is no.

My thoughts are much as yours, lovescoldmetal.

I've seen it on Sexcetera but, as you say, it seems to be the silly over-the-top stuff, the exaggerated nurse's uniforms etc. The subject, as most of us enjoy it, is very much 'underground'. Most people, I guess, have 'kinks' of one sort or another but don't necessarily talk about them in specific terms. I've never made any specific reference to my thoughts on medplay to anyone, and of course that's common among us.

I don't think most people would be surprised by the nurse/doctor thing as depicted on Sexcetera; it's not unusual to find a general theme of uniforms when people are 'fooling about', I'm thinking of strip-o-grams and the like, with men and women in police uniforms, etc. Most folk (not just us lot!) played doctors and nurses when they were youngsters. Only the other day, a neighbour's 5-year-old granddaughter was playing in a nurse's uniform.

That's it though, a ten-minute prank to be put away until it's time for another lark. What I think would be a shock to many people would be anyone taking the thing seriously, as we do - having it as an important part of our lives.

I don't think it's a case of the tv people shying away from doing it (they don't display much reticence these days), I suspect that, unless they're into it themselves, those that commission these things just don't realise that people who think as we do exist; and if we do, not in any number to be worth a story. LCM's right (and she IS a pro) to say any pros would be brave to speak on the record, albeit anonymously - so would people like us. They would also be risking their careers. Yes, people would be put off consulting them, whatever they said about 'separation'. If you knew your cleaner, say, liked planting listening devices in other people's homes but swore they didn't do it with their own clients, would you keep using them? I imagine here the British Medical Association (doctors' regulatory body) would have something to say - along the lines of 'bringing the profession into disrepute', I would imagine. The fact that medplay is not illegal would, I believe, make little difference to them or to the public.

Even in areas where fetishes are catered for, 'playing it straight' seldom comes into it. Tried finding videos where they do so? Of course you have. When you did you found the silly uniforms, 'patients' loving it, and a 'doctor' who couldn't get the exam overwith fast enough so he could, literally, get on top of his work.

The only serious documentary on fetishes I've seen was made in 1996 by Nick Broomfield. Titled 'Fetshes', it mostly covered 'femdom' and there's only a brief mention of things medical, and a sight of a room for doing sessions. There is a website, Nickbroomfield.com, and 'Fetishes' can be watched, in full, at film4.com - to my friends on here who are outside the UK, I'm unsure if it's available where you are; if it isn't, take heart, from a medplay point of view, you aren't missing much.

I thought I was but a few with this interest. I am surprised an glad to see I'm not lone. Can't wait to meet new folks to talk about my childhood play that still with me.

The medfet is a game of power based on realistic non-invasive medical practices. The objective is to explore the physical dimensions, physiological, emotional and sexual response in women. The game starts with a long conversation where the woman is invited to talk about themselves, their health, their sorrows and their sexuality. The woman is then subjected to a realistic simulation of a complete medical examination. Through visual inspection practices, auscultation, breast examination, abdominal gynecological examination and palpation the woman is involved in a game of soft domination in this strand of BDSM. The last objective of the game may be projecting exploitation and stimulation of point G/discovery.

This sexual fantasie is not to much talk in media or in social groups.

It is a pity that the web associate the Medfet like pornography, taking him for his true meaning either the theoretical level and above all for those who practice. Med fet isn't actually well-publicized nor respected in its true essence, but confused, I say again, through pornographic websites that show a wrong picture of what the med fet is.

Around I saying, medfet isn't pronografia, medfet isn't a paraphilia, medfet is a game, a game of power and submission not evasive!

We are not crazy or stalker or sily. We are people balanced with own interests, fantasies practiced by mutual agreement. it's pity that medfet is not to recognize properly, speak on the subject of serious and honest way!

As practice little known and not disseminated by the media and distorted the Web, it is normal that people who don't knows what medfet is, look at the corner of the eyes distrustful and make errors judgement. In my country nothing is said about medfet. Medfetplayers are needles in a haystack and even in this site people nature of my country, actually only two or three persons are that talk in debates and expose their ideas. Everything what is unknown is feared and looked askance, then talking! Speak up correctly on the subject, so that it is known, disclosed.

Cheers for all, PatientCare

What a wonderful and very insightful post, Patientecare. I so agree that medfet is a game played between informed consenting sane adults and is based upon realistic non-invasive medical practices that would be carried out in a real life MD exam if only they had unlimited time and the sexual stigma of today didn't exist. Medical play today can be even thought of "stepping back in time" when Doctors routinely "cured" their female patients of hysteria by inducing paroxysms, now referred to as orgasms.

I have loved being able to freely discuss my female health concerns/questions with a knowledgeable play Doc and have my concerns taken seriously and sensitively into account.

Realism is what we true medfetters strive for. It is certainly not what you see in what passes for medfet porn.

Hmm, some more thoughts on medfet in the media. In standard porn, medfet is usually some attractive nurse with fake breasts who in the process of giving an exam to a male patient ends up quickly on the exam table with him. Or a male Doctor, who in giving an exam to a female patient ends up on the exam table with her. Or, in the more BDSM scene, it involves lots of latex, rubber and whips.

None of which I am interested in and I generally find medfet porn unlikeable. True realistic medical play seems to be not generally recognized by the media, porn or otherwise.

Lady Teddy, Pacific Northwest, USA

Really what a wonderful posts and visions about Medical play that both Patient Care and Laddy Teddy gave us ( and I gave already both a karma point for this).

I do agree taht realism is really the most important issue about medical play and also as PatientCare suggests (starting for her own name) is about listening and caring.

Off course I'm basically speaking as a "doctor" that cares for female patients only but I believe the same principles apply to all the relations inside the medical play phenomena.

As a ladies "doctor" I like to consider myself as a gynecologist that covers the entire health care of my female patients, physically, emotionally and sexually. When I say "sexually" I'm not talking about sex - I'm talking about sexuality and sensuality.

Conventional sex and exams and/or treatments must be allways kept apart like real doctors do.

Realism is really the trigger of this game and like PatientCare said this is a game of involving the patient on a gradual sensual domination/submission game with elegance and caution, beeing gentle allways with the "do no harm" principle as the first rule.

The patient must feel that she is in the hands of her doctor and may have total trust on him.

The doctor is there to listen and make her clinical history and also to take care of her emotional and more intimate questions. Later she will be fully examined and treated.

Using realistic and clinical skills only, like inspection, percussion, palpation and auscultation covering head to toe if needed, paying special attention to each case, every complain every synptom checking and re.checking if needed.

Breasts, abdomen and the gynecological part of the exam will assume naturally an even more central role in this game. It's a sensual and involving sequence, a ritual of seduction, a dance, a form of art.

"Medical play" when based on changes between a good and true doctor and a good and true patient may become one of the most very beautiful alternative ways of sexuality (not sex!) of this almost new century.

Until now there hasn't been any special attention on this by the media though we sometimes see the media focus in other kinds of alternative sexuality and power games, or even fetichist beahviours. This may be because it's still too soon and it wouldn't sell magazines or tv-shows.

It's also possible that people of the media tottaly unknow the medical play or medfet activity or have the most wrong idea given by the internet about this being about porn scenarios to sell what internet and the world sells better- hard sex and pornography.

I'm convinced that all this will change during this century and that all the new sexual minorities will come out of the closet, slowly but firmly and then media may have their own but correct role.

Karma to you Amaral for another wise post, and to patientecare and Lady Teddy too. Realism is the key to the medfet experience for me as well. If only the media would treat our interest seriously and sympathetically, I am sure that many more people would admit to sharing it. But for the moment, we are the brave pioneers!

Thank you for your kind but true words in my opinion: yes realism is what this is all about but the most important thing you said was: we are pioneers. We are indeed and many of us I would say should consider that role and responsability for the times to come; in our hands will be the "coming out of the closet" that I would like to be acomplished slowly but firmly. One day people won't be ashame about their medical play interest and about such simple things like having a good stethoscope at home or some other medical equipment. Of course we don't have to exhibit the instruments to our friends and family, I mean somehow it must also be seen like a very intimate matter, like we don't show everybody our "common sex toys if" we have them, but in another way if based on realism, medical play is not sex but play, sensual play and if the correct information will arrive gradually to the society there's no reason to be shy or afraid or have shame...

amaral, today at 11:05

if based on realism, medical play is not sex but play, sensual play

I can't imagine a better definition than this.

I’m so glad, so happy for yours words! It’s so good to see persons like you! With yours thoughts we must tried change de world, the mind of unknowledge, of ignorance!

Karma to you Amaral! I love your words! And Karma to Lady Teddy!

“Breasts, abdomen and the gynecological part of the exam will assume naturally an even more central role in this game. It's a sensual and involving sequence, a ritual of seduction, a dance, a form of art.”

“...medical play is not sex but play, sensual play”

To Woodpecker: “Realism is the key to the medfet experience...” “we are the brave pioneers”.

We must share with others what medical play is and our interests in that! Share in this forum and im some groups of society life! We must tried "coming out of the closet"!

Cheers for all, PatienteCare

There have been some sexual scenes in movies. Enough to depict that "playing doctor" can be a very sexual experience

Thank you to Lady Teddy for writing about medfet in the media.

I had the same response to seeing a few clips from silly porn films where a woman spilling out of a lab coat, blouse and skirt, who neither looks nor behaves anything like a doctor, services a male 'patient.' It wasn't erotic or exciting... just crass.

Having had a subtle but wonderful erotic experience during an exam by a real female doctor, who was attractive and in her mid-40s, and a professional in every way, and who could tell that the exam produced some other feelings but neither ignored them nor exploited them (she just smiled and patted me, and was a touch more tender than I might have expected as she cleaned me afterward), I wish that this kind of genuine experience showed up in films or other media more often.

Maybe it's time to write some. 😎

Thank you Parker for reviving a thread which is one of the more thoughtful and sensible ones on this board.

In my view satisfying medfet films and clips can only be produced by people who are into the scene themselves. With so much of the stuff that passes itself off as medfet porn, you know within a few seconds that those who made it and and those who are acting in it have no sense of what medfetters want and what they respond to. The lack of realism is quite depressing. I've posted about the Czech doctor before and don't want to keep on his case, but the ludicrous performance he puts on is unfortunately all too typical of the genre.

If some of the stalwarts of this board could get together to produce their own videos, I have no doubt that the results would be much more satisfying.

I'm guessing that the media doesn't pick up on it because sooo many people are actually afraid to go to the doctor. The MD shows that are popular are always showing things happening to 'other' people.