For the Spanker

There are many posts about how you like to get spanked, but my question is for the person spanking. What is yoour ideal scenario? Does it start with a good scolding, or do you just begin? Do you remove diapers or panties completely or just pull them down does it end with corner time?

There are all sorts of ways that I enjoy. I'm not into diapers. But I always want to administer spankings to the bare bottom.

Over the knee is great. Probably the most intimate position. Good for both light spankings and long extended punishments. Gives a certain sense of helplessness and humiliation.

Bent over a char or table or desk or similar device. Good for heavier spankings and the use of other impliments, such as paddles. Also good for group punishments - both multiple spankers and multiple spankees. Good for exhibition and public punishment. Also keeps the genitalia exposed to monitor arousal (which may earn further punishment! 😉). Also, depending on the particulars of the furniture used, it can be a good position for binding. The recipient can be left to anticipate the spanking, or to comtemplate it afterwards, or to simply remain on display.

Vertical - X-frame, whipping post, or similar. Also good. I prefer one of the above options. The vertical position tends to not emphasize the buttocks as much.

For various scenarios and embellishments, I like to have them count the strokes aloud, thanking me for each one, or specifically asking or begging for each one. If they forget, or fail to do so, the count starts over. If it's a punishment, I like to have them clearly state what it is they are being punished for. Sometimes I like to continue the spanking until they give me some motivation to stop.

A lot of the time, I like to give conditions of behavior during the spanking that will earn more (such as failing to thank me for each loving stroke). Sometimes the spankee is completely nude, sometimes the panties are pulled around her ankles - and she can kick all she likes, but if the panties come off, that's another ten strokes. "Dirty slut! Letting your panties fall off!"

In a bent over, non-tied position, the subject can be forbidden to lift her feet off the floor or to block or try to protect her naughty ass with her hands. If she fails to comply, she gets more, naturally.

The spanking that I give start with a discussion about the naughty deed that was done I like to drag the discussion out because I find it a great joy to watch the naughty culprit squirm and twist and try to talk their way out of getting their bottom blistered , I always start on the panties or nappy and then move the panties or nappy down to the ankles with let it be known that if those panties or the nappy fall to the floor it will be ten extra smacks on the bottom , then off to the corner to sit facing the corner with a clip board , tablet and pencil and write lines about the naughty deed that was committed

My all time favorite scenario has only occurred once, but I'm hoping to do it again.

I had been emailing with somebody I met online for about six months. She was in a town that is about 200 miles from mine, and I finally worked out a "business" trip there. We decided to meet for her spanking, but we did something that few would have the courage to do.

When I arrived in town, I called her to say that I would be to her apartment in 15 minutes. She was instructed to lay all of her spanking implements on her dresser and prepare for my arrival. I instructed her to greet me at the door, completely nude and blindfolded, with a paddle in her hand. (We had not exchanged photos, so we were almost complete strangers.)

I arrived and she had done as instructed. She greeted me at the door, completely nude and blindfolded, with the paddle in her hand. Before I shut the front door, I had her bend over and take three swats. I won't give all of the details, but we used most of the implements she laid out over the next two hours. (I was very pleased that one of the implements she chose was an enema bag.)

Needless to say, this was an incredible experience for both of us. I would LOVE to replay this scenario again, but have not found a willing partner. Maybe one day ...

Personally I really go for a short skirt or school uniform. I once played out a scenario where the girl tried to get sent home from school by drinking warm water to fake a fever. Coming home to her uncle (me)I am highly suspicious of the whole situation. She comes into my study where her short school skirt is lifted and her panties are properly lowered to her knees.Following several minutes with a vaseline coated thermometer snuggled between her adorable bare cheeks, her ruse is as exposed as her fanny. There is NOTHING quite like a good firm hairbrush or paddle applied to a naughty bare fanny to bring about an attitude adjustment!

I usally give my wife (slave) a demand she can't meet. Ie get home by 5pm.. then I tell her to strip, and get her ass in the air. Then I tell her all the areas she was bad.. some real, some made up. Then tell her to pick a number .. then give her a nice hard spanking. She's never asked for it, but she's never complained to me, and begs "spank my ass as I'm pound her from behind.

I'm going to use spanking more when she does somehthing I'm not fond of. She's made me the head of the house, in all ways so I'm keeping her inline.

I would like the girl to be in jeans and panties... I would make her lay on her belly on a doctor bed... Then I would put off her shoes and socks and give her some spanking on her soles with a cane or a paddle. Then I would remove her jeans and hit her tights with a leather whip (really hard). Then I would put off the panties and begin to spank her bare bottom with my hand for a while then really hard with a wooden hairbrush. Then I would make her wide her legs, so I can put a finger deep in her rectum and without lube to humiliate her... And I would end with some strikes with the whip on her genitals.!!!!

I tend to wait for my partner to misbehave or start to beg for a nice hard spanking. I like to start by having her over my knees, rubbing her bottom, making it nice and warm before I start to remove her panties. By the time it gets really warm, I start to spank lightly, letting her get accustomed to it. Then I like to start a rhythm, but randomizing how hard each spank is.

It depends on the reason for the exam. for insolence or outright defiance I go straight to scolding, verbal discipline, disappointment, and physical punishment. for a session of eroticism and fun I love to slowly undress the lady as I continue the punishment. It just works for me

It starts with corner time. Naturally, she's holding her dress up behind so that her lovely rotund fanny is seen all but popping out of her tight stretched pink white- lace-trimmed panties. She protests with pleas and bawling when I ask her to assume the position over my knee. A long and tedious lecture ensues during which I hike up her dress behind and lovingly caress her big arse through her panties. Her panties are slowly lowered while I roll my right sleeve further up on my forearm, followed by another long spell of caressing. I raise my right hand high above my head. You know the rest. 😉

I tell my wife the reason I believe she needs to be spanked.

She can choose to argue that it is undeserved, and if she convinces me then that is the end of the story. However I try to remember. It's like a soccer referee. You try and remember how often a player digresses, and for persisent digressing a yellow card is issued, followed by a red card for transgressions after that.

A red card warrants a spanking.

There is only one position for females, bending over totally nude with the tits hanging down.

You can then choose the spanking implement of choice, I prefer the cane.

My husband likes to spank me by bending me over a chair, hiking my skirt up, hauling down my panties and thrashing my bare ass with a belt or cane. I also wear stockings for the occasion...black with lacy tops and black suspenders...after my thrashing he soothes my stinging ass with cream and that of course leads to fabulous sex...

I was fortunate enough to meet one serious spanking enthusiast with whom I was temporarily involved. We were dancing around interests one night and she confided that she liked to be spanked, but not in the everyone-likes-a-couple-swats-on-the-bottom way. She wanted me to go about it more forcefully and I was willing to oblige.

She was placed bent over a table, propped up on her elbows, with her arms straight out in front, palms face down. I yanked down her pants and underwear and began rhythmically administering bare-handed swats that built in intensity. I was surprised that her reaction was to start laughing with each strike, and occasionally she would start to stand up-but I gently guided her by a hand on the shoulder back to her position until I was through.

She explained, quite red-faced later, that she wasn't laughing at me, it was just what the sensation elicited from her. So the next time that we ventured that direction, I caught her off guard when I slipped up behind her and popped a pacifier in her mouth and explained that she wasn't to drop it until we were finished.

She not only obeyed at keeping it in her mouth, but seemed genuinely pleased to have it kept there.

Oh those were the days...

I have kind of simple tastes. I just want my naked spankee quietly over my knee. I'm a good spanker, and I give good spankings. So I know it gets harder and harder to submit as the spanking becomes more and more effective. But a good hairbrusing does a person a world of good.

As a spanker, the more elaborate and ritualized, the better. However, if something needs immediate attention, I will grab her around the waist and administer a few sound slaps on her clothed ass. Just to let her know what she's in for later.

My favorite is the re-enactment of a high school aged girl being sent to the Principal's office for some type of infraction. She is allowed to tell her side of the story and present any mitigating factors, but they are never good enough for her to escape the paddle. She will be bent over usually with her elbows and palms on the desk and given a predetermined number of swats, however, if she squirms or leaves the position, there are penalty swats applied. I suppose this fetish came from the school paddlings we overheard when I was in school. A good website for this type of fantasy is schoolpaddlingblog.com. Really catches the nervous schoolgirl awaiting her punishment and ultimately a severe spanking.

I as a male need a spanking when I have woman's clothes on. My wife needs a spanking when she is talking bad, or moving her butt around sexually/

My wife makes me get the bath brush, return to her sitting on the couch, I am told to drop my pants, then my under pants, & turn around.

She then spanks me holding my thigh to keep me in place, with her left hand!

I like to give him a lecture first, or at least part of it, as in why he is getting a spanking. Then to sort of give him a break I also talk during the spanking too, then continue with the spanking.

Mashie

I believe in corner time before, during and after I spank. The spankee should be in the corner waiting for my order, mostly undressed. When ready I tell them to come to me and make them stand quite close. I then pull their panties/underwear to their knees, slowly. I ask them why they are there. I ask them what they did to deserve a spanking, specifically. I expect them to answer me quickly and fully so that I can hear it - no mumbling. I expect them to ask me for a good, hard spanking. I then briefly scold, ans tell them to get over my knee, and adjust their position. I expect them to tell me that they are ready for their spanking as if they mean it. I hesitate for a minute, them start in with a hard hand spank. I do not believe in "warm up" spankings. I judge from body language and their voice where they are psychologically. I may go right to the hairbrush, or may send them to the corner for another think. I then order them back (if sent to the corner). They go back over my knee and I spank them to their limit. Then they do another short corner time, come out, stand in front of me and thank me sincerely for the spanking, and It's over.

I am here searching for discipline, but I do spank from time to time.

I am in favor of corner time in the middle of the spanking session.

I would probably like to hint at an imminent spanking coming later on. Then I wouldn't mention it. I'd let the tension and fear build up, and make my partner question whether I was actually going to spank her. Then later, when we are alone, and I have her where I want her, I'd place her over my knee and slowly begin. She would squirm uncomfortably.

It will always have to move on to bare bottom. I would whisper things into her ear to build tension, those things will depend on the situation, they could be caring, or they could be stern and mean. I might caress her lower back, and hold her bottom in place with one hand while the other administers. As I said above, I love to see the squirming.

Depending on my partner, I can even pull her head back by her hair and talk to her. There are just so many ways you can style it up. Too bad I don't have a girl to spank.

Most of my ideas of how I would like to administer a spanking come from my wife's descriptions of her own spankings. Especially when she was a teenager.

One thing that I like is the struggle, the panic knowing that the spanking is iminenet, the mild tears that come when she is told to take her pants down and the struggle during the spanking. These things have caused me concern over my fettish because its a bit sadistic but it really turns me on. However I don't get to indulge in my desire to spank her. She hates being spanked. But the scenario she would describe to me about being spanked by her mom involved all of those things. Especially the image of her at 16 years old over her moms knee being spanked with a paddle drives me wild.

There should be a bit of scolding, to explain the purpose for the spanking, then several minutes of anticipation ("you're going to be spanked, fetch the hairbrush, strip to your panties, and meet me in my room"). After perhaps 10-15 minutes, join her in your room and outline why she is to be spanked and how many times (if a prescribed number). Then down with the panties and over the knee.

Now in adult life we recreate my younger day punishments . So lectures corner time sent to bed early all come into our play .

I like to give disciplinary spankings. Normally I sit on the couch and have the person I am going to spank stand in front of me. I ask them to tell me the things that they have done wrong. As I do I instruct them to remove specific articles of clothing. Then I scold them for the things that they have done wrong. Once I am done I ask them what happens to naughty girls. The correct response being, They get spanked.At that point they are directed over my knee. I may stop to introduce corner time to give myself a brief rest and allow them to recover before starting again.

My way of spanking is she bending over the table! I like her in skirt which she can hold up! And finally remove after few minutes . I like to use flogger and belt!

I like to give a brief lecture before starting spanking and keep giving lectures in btw.I never scold her or have to raise my voice!

I do not like my sub having much of a corner time infact what I love is that after spanking she repeat what I have said in the session!!what I do is that I let her stand for few minutes(4-5 minutes) in the position I left her in, and then she repeat what I have said!

One thing which i enjoy which is really weird but i love it.

Heres an example lets say she did some mistake.... lets say she didnt study for some test and got bad grades.

What i reaally like to do is OTD spanking ,she counting spanks and writing down "I will get good grades * after every spank ! Weird I know!!dificult writing down when someone is spanking .

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