Tricky Subject With Real Thing

I actually feel a little guilty on this one. You see my thing is the REAl thing. After my wife's first birth, she developed small (pee size) scare tissue that could be felt upon a pelvic exam. The doc and me were pretty sure it was scare tissue but, I conviced him that she should get a CT to be sure it wasn't any type of growth. I knew this would involve a contract enema and enema prep the night before. I had the doctor order this study again two years later to make sure that it had gone (which it did). In reality, this was over-kill and exposed my wife to unneeded radiation. However, my medfet got the best of me.

You should feel guilty thats really mean. real thing is never erotic that why this is a fetish.... for the bedroom only.... you should be ashamed

Dugout,

Your statement at the end of your posting sums it up pointedly:

However, my medfet got the best of me.

That is a clear statement that you justify putting your own personal needs first at the physical and potentially life threatening expense of your lifemate. This is not good, you need help.

G.N.

Have you ever heard of "Munchausen by proxy?"

http://allpsych.com/journal/munchausen.html

It usually is discussed in cases of child abuse, but adults can also be victims, as, in this case, your wife was.

This is not fun and games, this is a serious condition, which needs to be addressed. You need help.

I am surprised by all the uproar about what you did. You are not the first one to do something like this. We have to keep in mind that REAL events are the REAL triggers to our medfet fantasies. His wife wasn't exposed to that much extra radiation. And the mere fact that he feels guilty already most likely means he probably wouldn't do it again. Let it go, people!

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RN here. An ethical doctor would have told you what he thought and held firm against your (unlearned) fears. However I have heard more than one doctor say a practice is also a business. If you didn't get what you wanted, you'd go someplace else. He was treating you in addition to his patient. A grey area of ethics here.

RN here. An ethical doctor would have told you what he thought and held firm against your (unlearned) fears. However I have heard more than one doctor say a practice is also a business. If you didn't get what you wanted, you'd go someplace else. He was treating you in addition to his patient. A grey area of ethics here.

Sounds like a questionable but not of the question procedure - whatever the motivation for it. It's a slippery soap as @thinker said whether to placate the patient for a marginal reason, or see through it and try to address the real medical issues. Yup, business vs ethical practice. How do you treat a hypochodriac? Doctors must try to help and keep them from hopping from doc to doc until they find a charlatan who has a magical treatment for an imaginary ailment.

Worse problem when medfetters abuse the system resulting in expensive - unnecessary - testing that either they or insurance (e.g. we) end up paying for.

Disgusting, you should be ashamed. Putting pressure on a doctor to perform a dangerous procedure to satisfy your fetish is disgusting, you should feel guilty. I am sure the doctor felt pressured to order the CT scan out of fear of being sued just in case he missed a diagnosis of cancer. Yes that missed diagnosis would have been devastating but when (not if) she develops cancer in the future from the unnecessary radiation exposure you will only have yourself to blame,

I always suspected this site was full of sanctimonious douchebags. I guess I was right.

Flog that bastard!!

ESAD!!

SWINE!!!