Medical checkup "problem"

I have a problem. Because of my medical fetish (sub/patient), and because I am a hetro (with a big H)- I don't have problems or are scared of geys, but I don' like to be touch on by a male. I have nightmares after a medical checkup where I got a finger in my ass by a male doctor....

I have a verry big fetish about female doctors or female nurses wearing lab coats - I think that is the most feminine/ turnon thing I can see on a woman therfor It is a problem for me to see a man in labcoat...(I know I am a little weird....)You can compere it with if you like nail polish on females fingernails or make up on a female, it is disgusting to see a man wearing it....

Now I have a male doc, but I have never got an exam from him, because I did'nt want to. Now it is time for me to have a checkup, but I feel bad to go to the male doc. I will try to get a female doctor, but I am scared that she will see through me. I am a shy person and it is verry embarassing for me if the lady doctor belive that the reason I come to her is because I like to be touched on by a lady.... Of course it also turns me on, but if I can get a female doc, I don't have to worry so much about going to have a medical checkup.

Somone who sees it like me? Have somone experienced this, and if, what did you do? (Sorry for my bad english).

You really have 2 problems that need to be solved - 1)How to get over any problems if you do need an exam from a male doctor 2)How to go to a female doctor which you will enjoy without calling attention to your fetish.

For the first problem, you need to separate your legitimate medical needs from any enjoyment you get from your fetish. If you have a known medical problem that needs to be dealt with, some times the best doctor will be a man. In those cases you just need to keep your mind on getting the best care. For appointments that are more routine, and you can choose a doctor more casually, then select a female.

When it comes to your behavior with a female doctor, what you can probably just say is that you are shy, and doctors make you nervous, and male doctors some times seem more intimidating (like a father figure). This will probably be an explanation the female doctor will understand, and it can also be an explanation if your actions seem excited or nervous. You might be excited, but the doctor will not be bothered because she thinks you are just nervous.

I used to be nervous with any doctor, but the more exams you have, with male or female, the more comfortable you become. I have had so many now with both that I can enjoy being examined by a female, but am not uncomfortable if I need to be examined by a male either. Good luck.

Thank you for!

I really understand your situation very well because it is so similar to mine. I am hetero, and HATE to be touched by male docs. Add to that the fact that all of my female docs have tended to be more thorough and unhurried than male docs, not to mention that they have smaller fingers and softer hands.

I don't really have an issue though with having a kink show up because I don't have fantasies about my real doctors, and don't have issues of having an erection during an exam (at least so far!) so I don't think they have any reasonable suspicion that I have a medfet.

Just relax. It won't be the end of the world!