I like diapers but my wife does not accept it

Wearing diapers turn me on very much. my wife doesnt want me to wear diapers at all but i told her that is something you dont chose to do it just happens. she told me that i shouldnt bring my diapers to bed at all cause she said that would be creepy.

I know how ur wife feels .... but she has to understand that it is apart of ur life.... i really enjoy wearing diapers too and it has affected some of my past relationships...

Wish you the best in resolving this diaper situation to the best compromise for both.

I think that a wife that hates you in a diaper is kinda creepy. I would NEVER live with such a girl. I do not care who she is.

I have discussed it with her and she has accepted my fetish for wearing diapers and now she still doesnt understand the reason i wear them but i have tried to explain it to her.

Well, I wish you luck with your wife. My wife (married 19 years) does not accept my diaper fetish either.

However, even though I think I can remember liking diapers as a kid, my fetish really didn't come out of me until after I had a surgery three years ago and had to wear diapers for protection. During my recovery I had numbness in my midsection and by the time I could tell I had to use the bathroom it was too late. Anyways, I began to like the feeling wearing them gave me along with how they seemed to reduce my stress level when I had them on. I tried to explain this to her, but for the most part she will have none of it.

She caught me putting one on a few weeks back after a night of drinking and didn't say much. She asked me what I was doing and I just explained that I was putting on my protection. She said nothing and left. So, maybe without my always trying to explain it to her she is just beginning to accept it but has said nothing to me about that moment since.

All the best with your situation. You are far from alone or in a unique situation. Judging by past posts, a number of us have spouses who struggle with our fetish - and have a range of reactions from total acceptance through to complete denial and refusal to permit them to be worn.

My wife knows but doesn't participate. She tolerates the situation and I don't openly display them as I feel that would be rubbing her nose in it.

My wife hates my diapers too. The only time I can wear them is on long drives, 4 hours or longer.

My reccommendation is that if you are going to continue wearing diapers around her, at least try and be understanding of her wishes and hopefully she will try and be understanding of yours.

While I'm straight and married to a great guy for 21 years, he does know that I like to wear and wet my diapers. He does not like to participate at all.

I do my very best to only wear my diapers when he is at work and I am at home alone. I have worn in public and love to.

I would also love for him to get involved and want me to wear my diapers 27/7 as a chastity belt or something not that I would ever cheat. But the idea of some diaper humiliation is exhilarating!

Hi, New here, My wife was the same way and here is how I changed her mind. First, just try her in plastic pants and here is the recipe that worked for me. Start - your girl + plastic pants + one spoonfull of yogurt down the front and then one spoonfull down each cheek at the back,(yogurt is the same PH as your girls _ _ _ _ and is all natural) make a game of it. let her put her outer clothing back on is she feels uneasy about just setting in the plastic pants. Now get some gelled baby sented oil and begin to message her with that everywhere except on the pants. Tell her that you wish to care for and spend time with her and that the diapers won't repace, but enhance the love you feel for her. Take your time, this is going to be a new experience for her. Tell her that the plastic pants will save all the mess on the furnature / carpet and bed linens.If she is still not in the mood, take her "out" with the pants on. A change of venue will help her relax and the excitement of being caught will help her have fun. By this time heat and wetness will have take there toll on her and it's time to start exploring her in a softer more considerate way. Listen to what she may like and try to be as obliging as possible. With my wife I only diapered her after all the other stuff was done and she was spent with only snuggling and sleeping to do. She was really relaxed and diapering was really necessary. I enjoyed the feeling of the warmth with my hand as she wet and it traveled through the diaper. We both had different experiences at the same time, but we appreciated one an others company and trust and felt refreshed and recharged the next day. Sometimes my wife while wearing the plastic pants enjoyed the washing machine more than me, oh well. If this works, look forward to a long relationship. Hope this helps , Sandboxbaby

Hi,

You must speak with your girlfriend and saying why do you like diapers.

I had a similar situation, but found a great compromise (with a little luck!):

I was a bedwetter growing up, so she new I had worn diapers. In fact, she knew I enjoyed them, but she thought it was weird and didn't want to participate. I also got the impression that me being diapered was a "turn off" for her. Here's the lucky part. I happened to have a couple of accidents during our first few years of marriage. Sometimes full blown bedwetting, and other times waking up with wet underwear just in time to get to the bathroom. These incidents only happened once every year or 18 months, but she knew they happened. Then last year as we started discussing upgrading our mattress, I realized this was an opportunity to return to diapers. I had already been drinking more water as part of a workout program, so a bedwetting accident was very believable. I had one, we dealt with it, and it was no big deal. I waited about a week and had another. I continued to have random accidents, sometimes after being very tired, and other times after sex. I tried to make it so that there was no one "trigger" that could be the answer. After a while, I mentioned that I think it's just that I'm finally drinking an appropriate amount of water and getting more rest (I had cut back on caffeine too), but that maybe I should see my doctor. I also suggested that maybe I wear "protection" until my appointment so we don't have to deal with wet sheets. She agreed. So I was back into diapers.

The doctor's appointment went well. She just suggested that I'm drinking too much water, and try to limit myself to 60 oz/day. I asked her if it was okay to deal with the problem by wearing diapers like I did when I was 12, and she said that was just fine if I was comfortable with it. I told my wife what she said. Interestingly, I actually only wore them for a month or so, and eventually felt like it was an inconvenience and stopped. (my interest ebbs and flows) I also felt bad that she was turned off by them and didn't want her to be uninterested in having sex with me, so after 7 days of being dry (her rule), I stopped. Not too much time later, I regretted my decision realizing that it might be hard to get back into diapers again if I don't continue wearing them. So I started the infrequent accidents again. This time I started ramping up more quickly, and after a few weeks I had an accident 3 nights in a row. After the 3rd night, she turned to me and said,

"Is there a reason you're not wearing your diapers?" I was hoping she would ask. I told her I thought they were a turnoff for her, but she told me she would rather me be diapered than to have to change the sheets every night. So back into diapers I went, but this time it was her idea. Not long after, we upgraded to the new bed. It's a sleep number bed, so very expensive. She now insists that I'm diapered so I don't ruin the mattress. Especially after sex, she says I don't have a choice. I have to wear a diaper because i sleep so deeply. I'm not allowed to go without until I have 7 dry mornings, but even if that happens again I have a feeling I'll be diapered after sex for the rest of my life.

Moral of the story: even if she's not into it, your relationship will be better if you don't resent her and wish you were with someone you could wear diapers with. You owe it to her to make sure you're both happy so the relationship stays strong. So open your mind, and be willing to take action to get where you want to go. It took me 10 years of marriage before I realized I could do it, but now I'm a happy man.

That's really too bad. Diapers become such a large part of our lives that to not share it with the ones who are closest to us makes us go insane. Your pull between the diaper world and your wife's wishes is going to flare up into a big problem. I hire try to talk calmly with her and try to get her to understand.

I'm sorry.

My wife originally did not like it. She was really bothers with the continual accidents . But after a while she did not mind it. She has been changing me and cleaning me up for years,

Your partner would always find it weird at first,but I assure you he/she would love it at the end

Your partner would always find it weird at first,but I assure you he/she would love it at the end

Read the posts in this thread.

That Is NOT the experience of most who posted here.

Having been married 34 years I have a pretty good idea of what my wife thinks is nuts and what she can accept. If I had told her I want to wear diapers so I can pee on myself and enjoy massaging my cock and balls thru the thick padding, she'd have told me I was nuts and she doesn't want anything to do with me wearing diapers. Luckily, I peed in bed one night and told her I thought it best to wear diapers to bed from then on. Being 72 years old and having lost my prostate to cancer, she readily agreed thinking I was being proactive in protecting our bedding. A few months later I faked an incontinence episode and told her I thought I should wear them 24/7. She agreed. Now, I simply lounge around the house in my diaper and a shirt 90% of the time.

I get to enjoy my kink 24/7. She's isn't forced to be judgmental. As I'm typing this while sitting in my recliner, she is 6' away on the couch and right this instant I peed a small bit in my diaper. In an effort to spare her some ill/awkward feelings I find keeping my secret is the best route to happiness. She's happy and so am I. All missions accomplished.

OMG!!! Some things happen that just surprise a person beyond belief.

Background: Years ago (mid 1980s) when we were somewhat newlyweds my wife had a particular TV show she taped so she could watch it after work. She would sit on the couch braless with her (then) 38D cups hanging down. I would lay on the couch with my head in her lap as I fondled, sucked on, and otherwise worshiped her tits. This was a 5 day/week ritual we both loved. In the past 10 years we've had no sex and very little other intimacy.

Fast forward to this week: A few mornings ago while she was in the shower I had laid naked on the bed on top of the bedding. When she came in the bedroom to get dressed, I asked her to lay down so I could just snuggle to her (now 40D) boobs. She did and I sucked and caressed them for 5 minutes or so. Wonderful!!! I told her I wished we would start doing this again. I know sex is out. I have total ED so can't penetrate her and with her anal incontinence I'm not allowed to tongue her vagina. But, if I can caress and suck on her tits I'll be a relatively happy guy.

Tonight after dinner I went to the living room first. When she came in a couple of minutes later she asked, "Want some boobs?" DUH - of course! I'm in my diapers and a shirt, get off my recliner and lay on the couch with my head in her lap and her wonderful tits there for my enjoyment. I massaged and sucked on them for a couple of minutes when I said, "Would you care to massage me a bit?" All she said was, "I guess." She placed her hand on that wonderful thickness of diaper over my cock and balls and started rubbing. I never thought that would happen; but, once the barrier was broken I can see this happening with great regularity. Her massaging me thru those diapers makes me wish I could still cum as I think I would have an explosive orgasm with her doing that. She may not be into diapers the same way I am; but, she's apparently willing to help me enjoy them. I am thrilled.

My wife encouraged me to wear nappies and get on with my life when I became incontinent now it is just normal for her to see me in a nappy and she doesn't see it as any sort of problem.