Words or phrases that turn you on

Well these didn’t turn me on when I was young and hated getting my bowels washed. But certainly later when I was with a domineering woman – Big turn on,

“I know it’s not nice but we’re going to have to do you bowels with the enema. Now go and wait in your bedroom”

“Now you’re going to take ALL this water, and we’re going to make you hold until the enema’s done it’s work in your bowels. And no arguing!”

“I think it’s time we did his bowels. I know he doesn’t like it but the enema’s good for him…”.

Embarrassment and humiliation was he thing. If we were visiting and I was naughty.. “Just wait until we get home. You’ll be getting a good spanking and the enema for being naughty..”

or if I’d behaved my self she’d often say “…we’d better go now because we have to give him his enema. He’s got bowel trouble you know” I would get really embarrassed.

Of course later in life, nothing I liked more than being subjected to a dominant older woman who well knew how to give an uncomfortable enema, and was very explicit with her words….

“don’t struggle. I’m have total control of you bowels, what goes in – how long you hold it – and how you expel it. etc…

For me phrases like "good girl" or "who do you belong?" or "look at me" those put me in a certain frame of mind.

Then in a medical setting "we are going to check your temperature" and "breath in/out/hold" or "open up and say aaaahh"

Then again a powerful phrase for me is "on my lap", "bend down" or "against the wall, legs spread.."

All most done half of bag left. I think ,you need an Enema

Phrase that turns me on lately:

"Hubby, we paid all bills this month!"

Lol

Za

Typical caregiver phrases that put me in that horny diaperspace:

"I'm just going to check if your diaper needs to be changed"

"Do you want me to change your diaper?"

"He needs his diaper changed"

Once I got so turned on sitting at the foodcourt in the mall when I heard a girl giggling to her friends looking right at me saying "OMG I can TOTALLY see his diaper!"

Once I got so turned on sitting at the food court in the mall when I heard a girl giggling to her friends looking right at me saying "OMG I can TOTALLY see his diaper!"

I don't know if I'd get turned on by hearing that; but, I do know I'd get, at the very least, a good chuckle from it. I might even walk over to the table of girls, lean over, and quietly say, "When you're my age, you might well be wearing diapers, too."

Little boy and or Little ( insert my first name with a y like Tommy or Freddy)

Baby, do you want to nurse?

"big baby", bedwetter, "pissypants", "pottypants", and "are you stinky" are just a few

:does someone need their pampers changed?"

My girlfriend saying "come here baby, I need to check your diaper" or "looks like we need to change you now" or "were you naughty again and go potty in your diaper" or when she says to our waitress "I need to change my boyfriends diaper, Do you have a restroom we could use." Or when she tells her girlfriend "I need to change his diaper. Please excuse us, we'll be right back or I could use a hand with changing my naughty boy."

Oh sweetheart why did you not tell me your diapers needed changing? Being in a group setting and having one of our lady friends saying that out loud enough so all could hear. Do you have a diaper bag in your truck? I'll go get it and we will all change you.

Mind Drivel.

It's been years since my last post and my perspective has changed a lot since then. The words or phrases is quite extensive so I'll try to refrain from creating a list and focus more on what these phrases and vocabulary really mean to me.

Getting down to it one major aspect to keep in mind, as far as, how to handle a big toddler like me. Is I'm an adult who loves being treated (some times against my will) as though I actually were a toddler or little boy; who is in need of a woman's firm caring hand behind my bottom. Focusing on words or phrases that put me into that submissive little space is the best way to control me without to much of a fuss. I love/hate it when I'm constantly reminded that while I may be an adult deep down she and I both know that I'm still a little toddler/boy who needs discipline and care. The diapers play a huge part in how my mind has bonded them with the sense of care and dominance I have come to love.

Care in the sense that my caregiver is fully in charge of my well being. She knows what is best for me even if I can not see it. Her firm hand is forever guiding and molding me.

Eamples: "This is why you need diapers!", "I think you need much thicker diapers since you as such a big baby.", "Sweetie you just can't be trusted to be out of diapers! There is nothing that will change my mind on that. You'll just have to deal with it.", etc.

Dominance in the sense that my caregiver has the absolute authority over me, to control me how she needs to in order to correct my behavior or even change my view point to help with my care.

Eamples: "If you keep fussing I'll give you something to fuss about!", "Do I hear complaining?", "Are you arguing with me?", "You still just a naughty toddler/boy who needs a strong woman figure in your life." "I'm going to spank you because I feel you need it.", "Young man the adults are talking!", etc.

There is just far to many combinations that can be used to put me in my place! The general idea is to keep me under control with minimal effort. Just by saying the correct words and phrases one can have me whimpering with my head down in seconds. There is also the level of respect that needs to be maintained to. Treat me like shit and I'll treat you just the same. Treat me with respect (while also maintaining a level of authority over me) and I'll show respect back. It's not just the knowing I'll be punished it's also the respect I have for my caregivers that gives them the freedom to control me as needed.

But that is just my understanding of the power of words and phrases as far as how a person can take control over me with minimal effort. Just keep in mind this doesn't mean anyone can do it. If I have no wish to partake then there is nothing you can do to change that. I got lengthy again! I'm sorry, I tried to make it short honest! Well I guess if you can't explain something then it's not really that important now is it? Thank you for taking the time to read!

"Relax," "Scoot down for me, please," "Good girl," "Just let go." (🫦)

"Good, now breathe in and out, slowly," "I need you to....(insert command)."

Hearing the phrase.

Do you need a bum change.

Lift those legs higher

Babe I ordered you more diapers.

Girls your little brother needs changing. Girls can you leave him in just a diaper, it’s too hot for rubber pants. Mom always seemed to want me in just a diaper around the house or at the cottage.

Try being eight years old and answering the door for the Chinese food delivery lady wearing diapers, rubber pants and a onesie.

Diapers, plastic pants, plastic panties, panties, baby powder, baby lotion, diaper pins, diapering, Pampers, Luvs, Huggies. One of my ex-girlfriends used to say: "Do you want me to put a diaper on you?", "Time for your diaper!", or "Maybe I should just put plastic panties on you this time". They all get my attention.

Really, it's just the word "diaper" or "adult diaper" that gives me a charge. If I haven't been focusing on the fetish for a while, thinking about the sound of those words sort of brings me back in line for it, somewhat. I think that's the case for many. I have never actually played with anybody, but I had two phone conversations with women who were into this but also had no experience playing with someone else. Both seemed to dance around saying the word "diaper" for some reason, as if maybe it had too much power. With one, I ended up saying it, and I could tell she kind of paused, perhaps thinking "We're actually talking about this rather than it just being imagination".

"I gotta pee!", said by a DL woman wearing a big diaper under her pants :-)