My husband would freak out " I think"

If my husband found out I liked my last check up and got turn on I think he would freak .He is so uptight. I am going to shave befor my next appointment if he notices I will tell him that I did for Doctors appointment and see what he says.

cindy99

That is so cool. My wife gets turned on at the exams and she knows I love it, she lets me come into all her exams. I had her shave before on of her appts. so we could se the doc's reaction. He paused briefly, but took it in stride, but we thought it was hot.

Cindy, Since you can't tell him about your exam, why not tell us.I am sure that we would enjoy hearing about your experience.

So would my boyfriend...But then again, he is too young to be my older, fantasy, daddy/doctor/authority figure but for you I say Go for it!!!!!...and I hope it works out exactly as you want it too!! 😃

You don't need to tell you husband. Not everything is for sharing. Having a fantasy is a private thing. If you told and he was "turned off", would you stop having this fantasy? Sometimes it is better to keep thing to yourself, or share with people in the same boat.

I would love an opportunity to be your "older" cyber doctor!

Some men do get "freaked out" at the the idea of their wives or girl friends enjoying their exams. I guess its the idea that the doctor is going to see or do something that is reserved only for them. If you are afraid that your husband would "freak out" to learn of your medical fetish, then just don't tell him. He probably doesn't ask about it anyway. I think shaving for the exam is a great start, and I am sure you will enjoy it. Your husband will notice it for sure, and he may find that he enjoys it as well. Good luck, and enjoy your exams. 😃

At what point does getting enjoyment from being intimately touched cross the line in to cheating. The enjoyment and not telling? The choice to not tell him you enjoy it? All of these are very close to the same thought processes that go on when it's a relationship.. It may very well be disguised as an "exam", but everyone knows that's very close to other things. You're deriving pleasure from a man inserting his fingers in to your body, seeing you naked and for all intents and purposes, feeling you up. The Dr. may think of it as just an exam, but, your choice to hide this from your husband is wrong. He may freak out, but I would think he has the right to. You're basically admitting to him that you're getting off on being touched by another man.

How would you feel if he came to you in reverse about getting off on being touched by another woman?

Jbrauer you do bring up a good point, and I do agree with you some. In my opinion, getting excited from exam is not cheating. The exam is necessary, you just derive an extra benefit. The doctor is passive, just doing his or her job, and not being involved sexually. As long as you come home to your spouse, and take out your excitement on them, I can not really see where it would be cheating. How ever, if you were to get involved with the doctor then that would be cheating. If you want to get technical, you could say masturbation is cheating. Some people are addicted to porn and can not function in the bedroom, or are no longer interested in their spouse, and that is cheating. We all have fantasies, and not all fantasies are to be shared. I am sure my husband fantasies about Jessica Simpson, or some hot chick, and that does not bother me. If my husband were to get excited by a female doctor examining him, it would not bother me, as long as he came home to me. I am sure there are fantasies my husband has that he hasn't told me about, and I am not going to try and pry them from him.

Cindy, Maybe you're not giving your husband enough credit. He might enjoy the idea. Perhaps you should encourage him to go with you to your next exam. If he is adamant about not going, I believe you will have your answer. If he goes, it might open a whole new world of enjoyment for both of you. How does he react when you walk around the house naked or in intimate lingerie? That might also be a clue. Just some thoughts for you.

I think you might be surprised at your husbands reaction i think you should tell him and see what happens

Is you doctor male or female- if you dictor is female I would bet that he will highly turned on that you shaved. He will understand that you did do this to make yourself looking more appealing for the doctor(her).

As long as I were told, I would not freak out by far 😁. However, not being told at some point obviously would be cheating.

My hubby thinks its a little crazy but slowly getting more involved. Hes opening up a little to the new idea. Any one who wants to help him see its not all crazy, we are on this site together.

Its not crazy at all. It can actually be a very intimate, close fetish to share with your spouse. I think it actually brings us closer together at times, sharing the experience and being able to act on our fetish without having to seek outside the relationship for it, that its something we share just among ourselves.

You can also tell your husband that medical role-playing shows him how much you trust him and are giving up all control to him while being the patient. If he has a Dominate bone in him, that should be enough for him to want to explore deeper....It worked for me!

I think going slow is a great idea. Once he sees just how much you like the things that he is doing to you, the more he is going to want to do them. He may like being the patient also.

As the wife of the just_jack couple,

I have found some of our best conversations about fetish subjects has been after a few drinks. (im not saying drink and play) but it kinda makes the nervousness of the conversation go away.

But then, hubby and myself are pretty open with our sexual conversations. We email each other alot, makes it easier to talk with out having to look at the other person i think.

I told my husband and now he wants to do the exam himself all the time so tell him

I've been on both sides. My first wife would come home from an appt and did not want me to touch her for 3 days. We tried to talk, but nothing really changed. It turned me on, but I learned to use that for my own fantasies when I masturbated. After 20 years of marriage I lost her to cancer.

A couple years ago I got lucky and met another great lady. She's just about the opposite of my first wife. She comes home from an appt and can't wait to get intimate with me. We talk about a lot of things, but there are still some things that I find it difficult to discuss with her. I've dropped some hints and we're learning more about each other every day.

Take your time and use encouragement to guide him. Even just coming home from an appt and jumping all over him and treating him like he's an absolute king. If he's not stupid he will start to figure out that it turns you on and if he's the beneficiary of the excitement it ought to turn him on too.

Cindy i also shave my wife weekly and administer a enema also at the same time and i love to see her doctor reaction also good luck in the future

Even prudes have fantasies. Must have. and so what is so wrong with relaxing so you can enjoy such an important event, I have lost too many friends because of trouble diagnosed too late.

After wife told me of her desires i had no jealous feelings just wanted to make it happen.....to see her in the stirrups being used by her gyno...