Age during first rectal exam

@alan20cm ......

I am into reading medfet..... what do you think?

@bakkersbabe Then I guess the answer is yes! A deep & thorough rectal examination is clearly what you need...

My first was only a couple weeks ago (I'm 20). I had some concerns since I've been actively experimenting with anal since I was 14 and haven't always used best practices.

I dont know if she gave me a rectal exam because she thought it was necessary or if it was just to put me at ease. She could see I'm genuinely worried about my butt health.

The exam itself wasn't super spectacular. She had me laying on my side (not even on all fours unfortunately). Slid her finger in decently deep and felt around a bit. Only odd thing she noticed was that my butthole is unusually stretchy for my age.

She did send me over to another clinic that specialises in anything rectal and I have yet to have an appointment there.

They said I can expect a more thorough DRE and a anoscopy. But considering my concerns they might also do anorectal manometry and a colonoscopy.

@bakkersbabe I've had friends of mine (also Dutch) say you can request a rectal exam every time you go in for a pelvic exam and no one will really feel weird about it. So that might be an inconspicuous way to get a professional one.

@bakkersbabe I've had friends of mine (also Dutch) say you can request a rectal exam every time you go in for a pelvic exam and no one will really feel weird about it. So that might be an inconspicuous way to get a professional one.

Not unless the request is for genuine medical need. Don't misuse medical professionals in pursuit of kink. Save that for a play doctor.

@DrZ I have to agree with that.

Age 45 for a prostate check. My father died from prostate cancer as had my doctors' father. He gave me a PSA every year but didn't entirely trust them. Over time he got more trusting of PSA tests and said as long as the value didn't change he was OK with them. It was embarrassing but not painful. Prostate cancer is a terrible way to die. What ever method your doctor prefers get 'er done.

26 and still haven’t had a rectal exam.

I was about 20. I had a case of epididymitis, so they did the full genital and DRE because that was SOP. (It was "Non-bacterial" and became a chronic condition.) Fortunately, since there was no discharge from my penis, and, at the time, I was not sexually active, I was spared having to go to Preventive Medicine and get swabbed. To this day, I need extra scrotal support.

I was somewhat young, maybe 14. I had my yearly pediatric wellness exam. I had been having random rectal pain and it was bad enough to override my embarrassment. My doctor asked me if I had any issues I'd like to bring up and I sheepishly said I had random "butt pains" that hurt so bad it would make me lock up for a few seconds. She nodded and said she'd need to take a look and asked me to take down my pants and lay on my back with my knees up. I was unsure what that meant but felt extremely exposed on my back with my genitals and anus exposed. She snapped on some gloves and first felt my testicles and penis, I felt mortified and regretted bringing it up.

She asked me to hold my penis out of the way and I sheepishly grabbed my penis and held it back, not knowing what was ahead. Then she suddenly spread my cheeks with two fingers and prodded at my anus. The air on my exposed hole felt so shocking, I just stared at the ceiling. I heard her snap some container open and she said "I'm going to examine your rectum now, you're going to feel some pressure". I had no idea what this meant but it didn't sound good. I felt her rub something gooey on my anus then suddenly felt her gloved finger push into my hole. I gasped and she told me to relax. She twisted around inside me for a few seconds then pushed on my prostate, which made my penis jump suddenly. She pulled her finger out and snapped her gloves off and told me to dress back up.

She told me she felt nothing abnormal and said these pains should pass with the passage of puberty. I pulled my pants back on, and the rest of the exam went as planned. This was probably the start of my medfet journey.

Still waiting for my first... maybe it will be this years physical in August... I will be 44...

My first rectal exam was at age 30 when I had hemorrhoid problems. Today I have a digital rectal exam every year to evaluate my prostate.

I was 10 and in er due to ruptured appendix. My parents left the room, the doctor put me on my back pulled my legs up then put his gloved finger up my but to check my prostrate. It hurt when he entered me and when he hit my prostrate it felt wonderful, didn’t know why just that I liked that part. Was taken to surgery and had ruptured appendix removed, it had two large holes in it.

I never had one, urologist told me i'm too young to have one but i want to have one from a hot nurse woman...

I was 21.

I was 25, prior to receiving a barium enema. Not fun!

I was 39 and at my yearly physical, (I was turning 40 in 3 months). My doc had finished examining my belly, legs and feet. He told me to sit up. I was at the end of the table, in nothing but white briefs. He was sitting on his stool taking some things out of the drawer. He said; “we’ll take a look at your groin, do a testicular exam and check for hernia. Then take a look at your bottom, first an anal pap (which I’d had b4) and today I’m going to do a rectal and prostate exam. A finger in and I’ll go from top to bottom on both side of your rectum, then I’ll pull back and examine your prostate. I’ll start at the bottom and go to the top then too top to bottom on the other side. He then showed the diagram on the wall. He asked if I had any questions. I said no. My heart was racing! I’d had medfet rectals but never a real one.

He told me “stand up, shorts off” as he was snapping on blue gloves. He did the testicular and examined my penis (which was shrunk down) and checked for hernias. Then he said ok, turn around, bend over and spread your legs. I did. He spread my butt cheeks apart and looked at my anus then slid the swab in and swirled it around. He removed and said “just relax” I heard the cap on the lube and the squirting sound? Then the cold lube on my anus. I know I clenched hard. He said “just relax” I did he immediately pushed in. I wasn’t sure if I was going to piss or cum. I could feel him feeling my rectal walls and he said “that’s it for the rectal”. His finger moved back and he pressed really hard my prostate several times. The last time he pushed I couldn’t help but flex my penis and I wasn’t sure but I thought something came out. Something did come out. It was prostate fluid. I was mortified! He pulled out and said “stay there” he then wiped the lube off my anus and tossed a tissue on the glob of prostate fluid on the step. He handed me some tissues. “Ok you can stand up and put your underpants on”. I dried the tip of my shrunken penis and grabbed my briefs.

He said “don’t worry about that, happens when I press hard on the glad. You’ll probably leak a bit today. But everything feels ok. You can get dressed”