How do I Start a Relationship with a woman if I like to be an AB?

I am or like to be an AB and be treated like a lil boy. I am not always in the lil boy mode but can enjoy it just the same. My question is how do i bring it into a relationship without making a big thing out of it?

Try wetting the bed a few times that is allways a good way to start

You could allways be just honest with her, and tell her how you feel, wemen like that kind of stuff, with men/adult babys being honest with them.

😃 Starting a relationship with some one that does not know of you diaper fetish takes a great deal of courage, But you first have to be honest with that person that you are interested in like talking to her about what she likes in sex or what's fetishes and tell her that you played with diapers and baby things and that it's safe and fun and see how it go's from there. share with her about this fetish and take her to some of the site and teach her about how it can be fun and just play and how diapers make you feel good. It will work because your being honest and if she's likes it then continue with showing her more about it. If she doe's not like it while just be patient and see what might happen. I'm Kim and I find that if your honest it can happen just take your time.

have a nice day.

Kim

High Five to you Kimmers. It's as much fun for your lover as it is for you if you make it that way.

It took a lot of courage to tell one of my friends that i love wearing diapers. yes at first i got teased unto i hung out with them and accidentally wet myself during the night.

Wet the bed this should help your chances out and if she likes you she will accept this part of your life with you

You may want to just feel her out first without really telling her it's you that is into diapers. I mean you could pull up an AB site and let her see you reading on it. Then you can judge her reaction to it all . This will give you some idea of how she feels or what she thinks of it. You know if she thinks its disgusting and you told her you like to wet in diapers , then her may think you are disgusting as well. On the other hand she may think its funny to see adults in diapers. You may have a chance then to say to her, How do think I would look in a diaper, then show her.

Another way to brake the news to her is be vary informed about AB/DL and explain it from the point of view where it's more common then you think and people of all types are AB/DL both men and women. And its good "clean" fun that hurts no one. Give her time to digest and let her ask as many questions as it takes, this is where being informed will help you greatly.

Either way make the whole thing sound positive and fun, If you tell some one you have a diaper fetish or you are an infantilists, it's like telling the you have a disorder that needs a cure. Save the labels for later. What I did when I meet my girl friend was on our third date I came right out and told her I love to wear and wet diapers I said I have tried to quit and found it was such a big part of who I am that I could not. I figured I didn't have much time invested in the relationship and had nothing to lose. As it turned out me in diapers peek her interest and her wanted to see me in a diaper We have been together for 15 years now. So you never know, I could have kept it a secret and missed out on all the fun we had.

Well good luck and have fun.

I personally agree with all whom said that wetting the bed is a BAD IDEA! :😃 ... I have been in a long term relationship for 5 yrs. now! It was a really scary experience telling my g/f that I like to wear and pee adult diapers. Heck I didn't tell her for the first 4 months. When I finally did, I told her there was something that I needed to thell her, and it took her the better part of the evening to get it out of me! She was more woried that it was serious, like me killing sombody 😄 , so maybe that helped! So maybe if your offish that may help!? 😜

When I finally explained what it was... that I used to wet the bed, and found comfort in diapers afterward. She was really understanding, the first thing was curiosity, and she wantd to know if I had ny and see one. So i pulled out the only stashed Tena diapee that I hd at the time, and she kinda laughed at me and told me I was cute! So I asked her if she would mind trying to put it on for me... I got my first adult diapee change by somebody else! Later on she told me that she had actually wanted to see what they felt like! 😮 Too Bad it was my last diapee... However she now enjoys wearing them with me although it took a while to convince her to wet and then they had to come off right away! But now she's a little more laid back, ad I would regret it hugely if I hadn't told her although it was uber frightenng, I would have missed out on a lot of fun!!!

Bets of Luck,

Zabbi

I was honest with my Fiance before we got married and now she doesn't even like to "have fun" with me because she thinks I'm a perv for being into diapers. I'd LOVE to have her wear em too and I'd die to be able to change her but I guess it's not going to happen. I'm with the idea of 'accidently' wetting oneself

All i will add is this. Please, please be up front about your wants and needs before you get married. I meet sooooo many people online who's spouse "isn't into my kink at all" I always wonder "why did you marry them then?" I understand that sex and kinks isn't everything, but it is an important part of any long term romantic relationship. If you are sexually incompatible with someone, it will only lead to tension and unhappiness down the road no matter how wonderful they are in every other way.

I think honesty is your best bet. Relationships with secrets and lies do not work. I know from experience that it is hard and most will find it very weird and think you are a freak, on the other hand you will find willing to participate and that can be a wonderful part of your relationship. Just be honest and up front in the beginning of the relationship. (Not on the first date however.)

Not sure if this is a viable option or not, but for everyone who's looking for other diaper lovers, you could try posting on craigslist. You never know, you might get a few replies.

If she isn't at least sexually open minded, or is prone to getting grossed out, it likely won't work.

best,

A.

Well, you have to find someone who is open to new things. Start slow, don't push. Tell her that you like diapers at some point when you really trust each other. It is no good topic for a first day (only if she is a DL/AB herself). Don't be to demanding on the diaper-issue as it is kind of strange to most people.

Erik

It is difficult I guess. I have no experience with a partner, but with my best schoolfriend. Some time ago I told her about my strange behaviour and I was afraid she wouldnt accept. At the first sleepover she asked me a nappie and tried it out, since then she always wears nappies when we have a sleepover together.

All that i have to say to all the men looking is GOOD LUCK. GOOD LUCK in finding a mommy or a little of your own. They get hounded by alot of men on a CONSTANT basis so yeah most of them arent really talkative or trusting of men. Just a little tip. Dont sit there and start talking about your diaper, or theirs or your fantasies. Talk to th woman, get to know her AS A PERSON. Just remember any relationship solely based off of a fetish, isnt a relationship worth having.