Inlaws and how do You handle them.

Ok This may seem cool to allthe others here but for Me it can be a pain in the butt. I have a Mother inlaw that comes to stay with Us in The summer and she is here for our play day weekends and She co,es out and talks with everyone and dose not care if ther in diapers or not . But I have noticed that it makes some of My other guest uncomfortable . How should I handle this . I realy don't want to tell Her to get lost on the play day weekends but I just might have to . The worst part of it is She and My Father inlaw could care less .I have been in My diapers and plastic pants infront of them both . But I know that some people are not as out as I am with My ad/dl lifestyle . I have AB/DL bumper stickers on all of our cars .And My wife is so execpting that it was Her doing that We now host our play days . I just do not want to make people mad for asking them to leave whenour play day weekend are going on .

Well i see no harm if she is not realy bothering them about their diaper wearing. i understand that some people area uncomfortable around someone who is not ab/dl but if they are at the [party then who cares they must feel a little comfortable letting others see them in diapers. so relax and let her stay she seems to be very open minded about it all . hey maybe she is a diaper lover herself and just doesnt want to come out of the nursery yet LMAO

If i got this right your wife seems to enjoy the activity as much as you do? or at the very least not bothered, then if it were me i'd get her on my side - surely if your friends or others you know are being told by the mother-in-law then this must effect your wifes social life too? i'd even consider if the wife isn't in on it with your mother-in-law behaving this way. if not then reminding both parties of each others actions and being considerate more of your wishes. Your the MAN don't be bullied by WOMEN unless ... you want to??

I think its great that she accepts you and the others in diapers. And the others at the play day will get used to it. My SO's mother has seen me in a diaper but being inco its easier to get away with.

I only wish I had it like you . That is - your family is OK with you walking around in only a diaper. I would love to be able to show off my diapers to every one. But I have to keep a lid on it.

As for mom-in-law hanging around on play day, well I think you need to do some explaining to both sides, Tell mom that she make some of your guest uncomfortable, and tell your guest that mom is perfectly OK with seeing a bunch of big babies running around in wet diapers.

I don't know but I simply love being the center of attention . I would prefer to be the only one in diapers in a house full. I feel special when it's just me in diapers,wet ones that need changing. The only thing I would like more is getting changed by any one will to do it. Weather it be mom-in-law or mommies friend or the babysitter or who ever.

Thanks for all the great responces I seen My mother in law this weekend and she brought everyone that she has talked to at the play days a gift . and wants me to get them to everyone for the holidays . So I will do this for her . I think My wife has sead something to her about being out with all of us . We will see this summer if anything changes . I do know how lucky I am for a family that understands I am a AB/Dl and does not care at all . i was in 18.5 year relationship that she could not even say the word diaper .But now married for 2 years and all is so good . Thanks again for Your wisdom

One day I just decided , no more hiding. I was quite wet and just said to her " I need a dry diaper".

She must have known, because within a few minutes I was in the bedroom being changed by her.

No offense to your play-friends, but I'd just tell them to buck up and deal with your rather innocent, and apparently accepting mother-in-law's intrusions. It follows the age old saying, "If it isn't broken, don't fix it."

The only thing I could see coming from trying to push your mother-in-law away from the situation is basically alienating her when she is obviously so accepting of you, and your friends. Kind of like smacking someone in the face for being kind. It's possible from there that things could fall like dominoes are known to do. Alienate your mother-in-law for the sake of your weekend friends and you also alienate her daughter (your wife); alienate your wife and her, and her mother decide that they don't feel quite as tolerant of your selfish little antics anymore. This is the realm where resent begins to brew and before you know it, that once perfect scenario (or as near to perfect as you'll ever get-I promise) has fallen apart and now you're single again. Good luck finding someone else as open-minded and caring, let alone someone that way who has parents that are similar.

Like I said before, tell the whiners to keep themselves in check and to be considerate of your situation. If I considered someone a friend and they tried to rock the rather precarious boat for me, I'd be a little put out by them, not my mother-in-law.

Since the play date is for diaper wearers, explain this to the folks. You could even offer to diaper them if they want to hang out with you. It may be just the push they wanted.

Explain to them how other people are put into an uncomfortable situation and how they should realize wearing diapers is still not socially acceptable

I agree people nowdays are alot more understanding its the way i have to live and people accept it its who you are inside not what you wear outside

I was nervous at first. The whole thing came to a head when we were going together for three months and were getting quite serious.

My father in law and I were sitting on the back porch talking about where I had grown up and my "Intensions toward his daughter"

I told him I had asked her to marry me and she hadn't decided yet.

He knew she had met me at the hospital. I explained to him what had happened and that I was in diapers and would be for the remander of my life.

He was a WW2 vet that had beeen with Patton. He asked a few questions and that was the end if it.

I fact the only time he ever brought it up was when he had his prostate removed and asked my advise about diapers.

My mother in law was another story. She ragged on my wife quite a bit untill she told her to live with it. That I had asked her to marry and she was saying yes. She did a lot of grumbling untill my father in law stepped in and told her to shut up. I was a wounded veteran and she should be proud of that.

As for the rest of the family I have never hid the fact but I don't flaunt it.

Perminant incontance is a fact of life for me. After thirty six years of marrage it is a done deal within the family.

I have had others outside the family make a comment and have learned the best way to handle them is to ignore them.

HI well I do understand your thing also about the in lwas being their when you wish to play baby. But from where I have read your thing . She knows about your thing with diapers . An you also said she has seen you in your diapers. I hate to say this but if she knows an seen all that . I am sure your wife has told her a lot more about your love for diapers. An if your Father in law also knows your in diapers. An hasn't made fun of you . I would think that you need to sit down an talk with them . Or ask your wife what she thinks about having them their while your wife babies you . I mean if your not embarrassed to have them see you in diapers . What is the big deal of them seeing you babied . In fact your MOther in law might like to get in on it . An then you'd have 2 women babing you . Also if your wife goes out you can have your mother in law baby sit you .

I have had to wear diapers now for many years . I am inconteinet of my bladder. I never did tell any of my family I had to wear diapers again . I just kept it to myself for a long time . Well I live with my mother an have a room in the basement . My Brother -in-law was staying with us . He liked to get up early an work on his computer . He did this in the basement where he'd not wake my mother . Any way I usually sleep in only a T shirt and diaper . It was early morning an I didn't think he'd be up yet. An so I went out into the den to get something . I must have been half asleep . Becasue I was have way to what I needed when he said good morning . I know he looked right at me an saw my diaper in full view . Well I was very embarrassed to know he had caught me in just a dipaer . I just said good morning . An went an got what I wanted . I went back to my room . An just thought man what is he going to ask me later about the diaper . Well to my surprise I never had him ask me . But now he knows I wear diapers . Of course he is 70 an I guess he had a feeling I need the diapers. Pretty much all my family knows I wear diapers but never asks me about them.

Maybe a year or so after my wife and her daughter moved in with me, my wife told me her mother would like to come stay with us for a few days. We hadn't met yet and she knew nothing about my diaper fetish, or that I wore diapers full time around the house and my wife participated with me in my fetish, by changing me, letting me wet my diapers when ever I wanted and in general letting me indulge my fetish openly. So we decided we needed to tell her mom about me and we did. The first time she came to visit we sat her down and explained that I had diapers and rubber on right then, that I was probably wet, and I would soon need to be changed. My wife told her mom that I was not incontinent, but had a life long fetish for diapers and that I told her all about myself when we first met. She explained to her mom that it was no big deal, and that she realized how much fun the two us had over diapering me. She looked aghast, shocked even, and said she didn't believe it so her daughter told me to stand up while she pulled my trousers down showing off my wet cloth prefolds and rubber pants. She said to her mom, “doesn't Mikey look so cute.” So her mother broke out in laughter and said “whatever makes you happy hunny.” And that was it. She is now my mother-in-law although she's almost 10 years younger than me. Since then, my mother-in-law has visited many times and even changes my diapers when she's staying with us. She gets a kick out changing me, and I told her all about how my mom used to change me when I was a teen and how aroused I became. So she usually makes a point out of taking extra long to wipe my penis clean before powdering me and pinning my diapers on. Frankly she's even made me cum a few times. Of course she also told other daughter about me. She's several years younger than my wife, in her mid 30's and she stayed with us as well and seen me in my diapers. She thinks I'm weird and her sister is nuts for putting up with me. She calls me a diaper baby.

My MIL and SIL are two of the few who know about by night diapers. They and my wife are quite open with each other and Ive worn under my pjs when we have stayed at the MILs house both before bed and at breakfast.